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June 29th 2016: Day 181 of 366 Morning surprises are beyond amazing! I woke up to an unexpected package from jays family with a travel bag, wallet, passport holder and bag label with a little message that said "Bon Voyage", which meant to them "Have a blast on your trip, we are thinking about you!
`My 40 day Backpacking trip is literally days away, therefore the planning has to happen NOW. Noah, Ryan and I have been on different schedules and have all been very busy so with the little time we have, we have to make moves. In Long Beach everyone always says " Make Moves" meaning, stop being stagnant and get things done quickly. Planning a trip takes way longer than one can assume. We have to -Book Hostels, Air Bnb or Lodging places -Book Transportation -Account for Food and Luggage as well Making progress, but still have lots of work to do tomorrow! Very grateful to be going to Europe with these Goobers. I asked them today if we would hate one another or want to kill each other by the end of the trip and the both indefinitely said NO. That is because Noah, Ryan and I will nag at one another and call each other out but always end with an I love you and not drag things out. Starting to feel less stressed. Bon Voyage, Mads |
June 28th 2016: Day 180 of 366 PEACE OUT EAST COAST, It’s been real! New York and New Jersey have been great places to get away, but I am definitely excited to go back to the West Coast. This trip has been 6 days, but I feel like we have been gone for weeks. I think this trip was a good preparation for my Europe trip as I used my backpacking back pack and had to adapt to a 3 hour time difference right away. The Europe trip is very different as I will have a 14 hour flight and 10 hour time difference, but this was a good practice.
I wore a new cute vintage American flag hat today which happened to have been purchased to support the 9-11 museum. I definitely didn’t think through the fact I shouldn’t be wearing a 9-11 hat, getting on a plane in New York City, but hey leaves a funny story. My family definitely needed a trip and I hope my mom more than anyone had fun. She is 61 years old and was keeping up with us and putting up with us constantly day and night and for that she deserves a medal alone. My last 4 official days in the valley are here! Love, Maddy |
June 27th 2016: Day 179 of 366The main plan on the agenda today was to go to Bayside New York, where my mom was born and raised. We met my moms friends Carol and Annette today for lunch at a little Greek Restaurant. Annette and Carol have been friends with my mom since they were children. They grew up in the same neighborhood and stayed close friends throughout high school, and still keep in touch over 40 years later.I was worried lunch was going to be awkward, but honestly was the complete opposite. Both women were so kind, warm, welcoming and social. I know they are both great women but I do think it has to do with the fact they have all known one another their whole lives. No matter who we may meet in our lives, our childhood friends hold such a near/dear and special place no one else could replace or understand. The people who knew how you were raised, and were there for the strict parents, brace faces and endless rules and curfews. There will be many friends throughout jobs and families and in “adulthood”, but the ones we grow old with and grow up with are irreplaceable. The three women sat at the table, talking about their old sleepovers, birthday parties, nights they snuck out, boys they kissed and my heart melted. I found it so cute that my mom had the ability to do this with her friends! I listened, laughed and most of all imagined me in their shoes 40 years from now talking to all my valley girls, I hope to grow old with. Many people get so many new friends as they get older and leave the old ones behind, but I truly hope to keep all the friends I have now. After lunch we went to my moms childhood house and she knocked on the door, but no one would answer. She showed us where she hung out and pointed to where her room was in the house. As we drove around South Bay I could feel the plethora of emotions my mom was feeling. She was happy to see all these places and remember all of the memories she once created, she was sad thinking about how her mom, dad and brother are all passed away, in shock of how much has changed since she was there as well.
After lunch we got to experience the extremely pebbly and rocky beaches of New York. The beaches on the East Coast definitely do not compare to the beautiful beaches on the West Coast and everyone can attest to that who has been to both. I genuinely enjoyed having my mom show me the place she grew up and became the beautiful woman she is today. I hope I have the opportunity to do that with my own children! We drove back to new Jersey after our day of adventures and my mom and I talked in the car about the trip overall and we honestly did do a lot. Not excited for the long flight tomorrow, but nothing I can do about it. Love always, MBee |
June 26th 2016: Day 178 of 366“Be life long or short its completeness depends on how it was lived”. This is the first quote I read today and the quote engraved on my uncle Michael Sadowsky, the man I was named after. My mom had a younger brother Michael who was born in 1956, and died at the young age of 36 in 1992. Noone knows exactly how he died, other than the face he was found in his apartment on Madison Ave days after he had a heart attack. In the Jewish tradition one is named after a deceased relative, so around 1996 when I was born, he was the most recent and prominent person who passed away in my mother and fathers life. Michael lived and worked on Madison Ave in NYC and his name also started with an M, therefore they decided to name me Madison. Today is the first time I have ever been to the cemetery my uncle Michael and my great grandparents Irving and Mae are buried at. Cemeteries on the East Coast are very different than cemeteries on the West Coast, because they do not have to worry about Earthquakes! Many of the grave stones or not only foot stone but have huge tomb stones and statues and different arches as well. Another beautiful aspect of the cemetery they are buried at, is that every coffin space had a nice arranged ivy leaf bush in a rectangle shape. The cemetery was clearly old but very beautiful, we stayed there for about 30 minutes and my uncle did some prayers, my mom did some observing, Jon did some joking, Morgan did some sitting and I did some exploring. I found it amazing the man I was named after had a life quote on his coffin. I was not sure if this was unique and special or common, so I wandered around in the search for other quotes, but I found none. I felt very special and even more honored to be named after him, as I found another similarity. My uncle lived a good life from what I heard, except he did live a life of secrecy. While my grandma was cleaning out his house she saw his phone message box beeping and there was a message from his “boyfriend” who he was supposed to attend a play with. He always had a girlfriend and although many had their doubts he always said he was straight in fear of what everyone would think. Today 24 years after he passed there was a huge Gay Pride Parade right in New York City. I think he would have been very happy where the city has gone and how the county’s views on gays have changed drastically. I wish he was here to live in the change, but I will continue to represent his legacy well. No longer in the city, there are way less things to do in New Jersey. My mom did her research and found a huge Blue Berry Festival that only happens one weekend every year, and luckily this year it was this weekend, so we decided to take a 2 hour mission to this Blueberry Festival. We go there and the blueberries were so picked over, we couldn’t even go out to the fields. We were there in the heat with no blueberries, I thought it was such a waste, but definitely an experience. Fortunately we were able to get a pint of blueberries and stopped at some cool little market stores as well. Tomorrow is our last full day on the East Coast, hopefully everyone can get along. Loveee, Madssss |
June 25th 2016: Day 177 of 366 Goodbye New York and Hello New Jersey. One of the main reasons my family and I traveled across the country was to visit my Great Uncle Wally and my Great Aunt Alice. That is my moms uncle and aunt, and honestly her only family still alive. Uncle Wally and Aunt Alice also have two children who are my second cousins Robert and Caroline but we have never really been close to them. Family is and always has been something very important in my life. My uncle and aunt are such loving people and I am sad they live so far, or I would definitely see them more often.
Although all 50 states are within the same country, I forget to remember every state still can have their own individual laws. For example New Jersey has the Blue Laws, which means that most stores are closed on Sunday, because New Jersey used to be a church state. Therefore, on Sunday most people can dedicate their days to prayer, church and family, rather than shopping/working. My mom and I went to check out some shopping places this afternoon, knowing everything would be closed tomorrow. We went to Nordstrom’s Rack, because the one closest to us is about 30 minutes away and Nordstrom is a very nice company. I found these boots made in the UK I liked very much but on clearance they were still $76. I am obsessed with shoes, but that is a lot of money to spend on shoes right before I leave for Europe. I was curious how much they were initially so I googled them and saw they were over $100, but I also saw on the Nordstrom’s Rack website they were only $45. I was annoyed that the price was different in store than online, but that is a common issue. I decided I might as well ask when I got to the front because I was way more willing to pay $45 , and luckily enough they willingly price matched. 2 Lessons of the day 1.If you don’t ask you wont know’ 2. If one has a smart phone, look up other prices or coupons. Although we only made it to one store, those boots were worth it. We went to my moms favorite place in New Jersey Segovia for dinner, and I realized not eating since breakfast was a great idea. I got crab and shrimp stuffed lobster. Morgan got a mango salsa fish and said it was the best meal of her whole life. She doesn’t get out much, but the food was very good. After dinner all of us were in bed by 10pm we were so exhausted. We were supposed to hang out with the family for the night but Morgan, Jon and I all fell asleep on the bed in the spare room at Uncle Wally’s house. The rest was definitely necessary and will keep me from getting sick. Xoxo, Madison Braverman |
June 24th 2016: Day 176 of 366 Sometimes its better to have days that aren’t fully planned out and today was one of those days. We knew we wanted to see New York City, but that is all we knew. Not where we were going to go or what we were going to eat. Not having a day planned or anything set for the day, gave us the freedom to go wherever we wanted, whenever we wanted and spend as much time at each location as our heart desired. Our hotel is in the center of Time Square, so most places were walking distance. Time Square is nice, but overrated in the sense there are just a bunch of chain shopping stores.
We explored central park all day. Central Park is a huge park in the center of upper Manhattan. The park is said to be the most visited park in the United States and the park that has had the most movies filmed at it as well. Within the park there are different types of fields, courts, merry go round, strawvberry fields, lakes, a zoo and more. This is a park that attracts people of all kinds and is supposed to be “The Heart of New York City” because everyone goes. Today the 4 of us joined the average of 25 million different people who visit this central location every year. We also went to Rockefeller center, where Jay and I went ice skating a few years ago on New Years Eve and saw the flag of every country circling the center. On the way was Radio City Music Hall and NBC Studios, where we got standby tickets for a TV show. How Standby tickets work is you get them and then show up at a given time and are seat fillers if they need you. We had to come back at 7pm, not knowing if we would get in or not but taking the opportunity and chance. The show tonight was Maya and Marty, 2 people from Saturday Night Live who created their own tv show. They only could allow 13 people in and my family and I were the 9th-12th people. We were so excited, I have been to multiple tv shows today, but never to just watch and be an audience rather than a live audience which is shown. The show was so funny and so enjoyable, I definitely see myself watching the show now as well. There were big celebrities other than the host like Keenan Thompson and Emma Stone as well. One thing I genuinely loved about the show was how personable everyone was. Maya Rudolph who is a hit celebrity and comedian just took the time to talk to the audience and ask how we were and if we had any questions we were curious about. I asked her “what is the purpose of life?” and she laughed at the philosophical question and pretty much just said to laugh and enjoy in her own way. I realize no matter how beautiful or famous someone is, if they are personable and nice, there is so much more value to a person. That was a one time experience we could have only did in New York City, as that is the main NBC studio in the US. After the show we were going back to our hotel around 11:30 pm, and decided to go to a Comedy Club. A late night comedy show include raunchy jokes and semi-aggressive humor. When in a small comedy club they are highly likely to call everyone in the room out. Whether for how they look, where they are from, or anything the comedian finds out about someone, they will make fun of. I definitely would never recommend going to a night comedy club if you do not have the ability to laugh at yourself or to laugh in general.Comedy clubs are definitely not meant for people without tough skin and a little sense of humor. Longest day yet, but by far the most fun! Xoxo, New York loving gal |
June 23rd 2016: Day 175 of 366I woke up this morning reminiscing about September 11, 2001. I was 4 years old sitting at my desk on my little blue share in Mrs. Elcayam’s class. I was in Kindergarten and felt accomplished being able to write: Madison on my name card, and thought we were going to have a normal fun day of school. Then I remember around 9:30 am a teacher running in to say “Lisa the towers have been hit”. I remember pondering the towers? Like the Play ground towers? Are the teachers doing a play right now? What is happening?” I was so confused and when I went home in my little white and watermelon dress my dad was doing stocks and showed me on TV that the Historical Twin towers at the World Trade Center were hit by planes. I thought the pilot fell asleep or the plane broke, I didn’t know our “country was under attack”. Maybe that is the true beauty of children pureness and being naïve to the sinister world we seem to live in. The next day I remember Mrs. Elcayam told us her son worked in the building that got hit yesterday. She was panicked he was in the building and had possibly passed away. Luckily her face brightened when she said “My son missed the Subway and couldn’t get a Taxi, so he was late to work and missed the attack”. I smiled and felt so happy for her, even though I didn’t know her son, but knew the sadness losing my older brother caused my parents. I also remember that I was supposed to fly to Canada that following weekend for my cousins Barmitzvah, but my dad canceled my mom and I’s flight because “it was not worth the risk”. At that time when I had the bright mind of a 4 year old who was already put in elementary school a year older, I thought my dad was being mean and didn’t want me traveling. Most would think why all these thoughts came in my head this morning on a random day in late June, but it is because over 14 years later I actually visited where the twin towers once stood: Ground Zero.
This morning, my family and I were fortunate enough to have the experience to go to the 9-11 Museum. The whole exhibit, museum and every artifact, story and debris were breath taking. Now as a 19 year old adult I finally had a true understanding and eye opening experience to the 9-11 Terrorist Attack. I walked through a room with 2,997 photos on the wall of every human who died that day, for no other reason that they were in the wrong place at the wrong time. For no other reason that they were innocent people, but victims of a malicious terrorist attack. There was almost 3,000 murdered and many more injured and permanently traumatized. On top of those who passed away, there were spouses left widowed, children left parentless, and parents left childless. A country left shocked and hopeless and the countries most populated city left destroyed. The museum was built underground, because there are still parts of the actual building within the exhibit itself. There are thousands of stories and jaw dropping photos and pieces throughout. There is a room where every name is read with photos shared and stories from loved ones planning in the back round. Photos of people covered in ashes and others of people jumping from the 90th floor of the towers. Phone calls and letters of those knowing they were going to die, as well as notes and messages of those still alive missing their loved ones. Outside the remarkable museum were 2 fountains that covered the base area of each building, with each name engraved on the side of the fountain. One mans name had roses laying there, so Jon looked up the name and today was this boy’s 18th birthday, or would have been if this tragedy never occurred. I then thought of life and all “my problems”. Issues about my rent, little arguments here and there, worrying about money or where to travel to. These issues are all BABY BULLSHIT ( excuse my French). In the grand scheme there are so many greater worries and issues than the little things I genuinely stress and get flustered over. If anyone has the opportunity I definitely recommend coming to this museum and I also recommend appreciating everything in life and remembering how small most problems are in the grand scheme of life. Sending endless love to everyone effected by 9-11. Love Always, MB P.S. There was a part of the museum where you could write something and it was shown on a big screen to everyone there. I wrote “Be the reason someone believes in the Goodness of people” I just wished everyone believed this quote as much as me, but I guess I will just continue to lead by example |
June 22nd 2016: Day 174 of 366 Since 12:00 am I started my day in an airport at LAX, as my mom, 2 siblings and I embarked on our 6 day trip to New York and New Jersey. We had 12 hours of traveling with the 3 hour time difference included, and boy oh boy was it a voyage. I thought I would love Red Eye flights because I always fall asleep on transportation trips, but of course this trip had an immense amount of turbulence and I had so much struggle sleeping. Also, after the dreadful day I had yesterday I was hoping for a better night, but life doesn’t always work that way.
Broadway is a place where the best of the best are seen. A street we are not only lucky enough to be staying on, but a production we were fortunate enough to watch. The hotel we are staying at is the nicest hotel in the city and conveniently is right in the center of Manhattan. Right across the street was a Broadway theatre and we saw the Broadway production: “Finding Neverland”, a story about how the writer came up with the idea for Peter Pan. The amount of talent on that stage today was remarkable. I used to be in plays growing up and loved being on stage, but when I found out a majority of plays were musicals, that part of my life came to an end. I am completely tone deaf when it comes to singing and definitely lack musical talent but I admire anyone who does immensely. I know a lot of funding has been decreasing for the arts, but I hope Broadway lasts forever. After the show we went to the Empire State Building which was the tallest building in New York until the Twin Towers were built. The Empire State Building is known as the international icon of NYC and the Heart of New York. The ESB is the only building with a 360 degree view of the whole city, so Morgan, my mom and I thought it would a great experience and view of the lights late at night. Till tomorrow, MEB |
June 21st 2016: Day 173 of 366 WOW. Today was definitely a day from hell. I know to most that is a suprising statement from “Happy” Maddy. But honestly today was not a good day, and days like these happen to everyone, even the girl voted “Most likely to smile during an apocalypse”. Getting in funks and having a chain of negative events truly happens to the best of us. Everyone needs bad days to be able to appreciate the good days.
The morning started off with going to one of my moms best friends funerals Phyllis Newman. I didn’t know her super well because my mom was closest with her when her, Phyllis and 3 other woman were in the same support group for having children with disabilities. These women have known one another for 30 years, have celebrated the best years of their lives together like weddings, graduations and birthdays and have also shared the most grievous of days burying one another’s children. The service today was beautiful. The rabbi was also very good an gave an interesting speech about life. He said although life may seem long, life compared to eternity as short as one eye blink. Therefore when looking at the big picture life is pretty insignificant. Then he went into a fascinating comparison saying although an eye blink may be insignificant the eye inside is extremely important. Similarly to life although a physical life may technically be insignificant with the external cover the soul is extremely important. The eulogies about Phyllis almost put me to tears, because of what a remarkable woman she was. The whole chapel was full, and she was known to put everyone elses needs and happiness before her own, and is remembered for brightening every room she entered. Although she only made it to her early 60’s her life will clearly be remembered forever and she impacted the world in countless positive ways, meaning her legacy will last forever. Maybe we need to stop looking at the big picture as insignificant, but every little kind action as extremely significant. When I talk to many people my age they have been to 1 or no funerals, and that honeslty shocks me as I have been to over 10 undoubtedly. A funeral is never a positive way to start the day, but things continued to get worse. There was fighting at home and I hit my knee on the tile and the swelling began immediately. Additionally I am carless, getting involved in issues with friends and had to spend my night in Urgent Care due to a pink eye, I must have woken up with. I honestly felt like the whole day nothing was going my way whatsoever. Tonight Morgan, Jon, my mom and myself are beginning our 6 day trip to New York and New Jersey. Our flight doesn’t depart till 12:05 am on the 22nd, but we still had to get there a few hours early. Due to the airport and me always having complications, my phone coincidentally went through the baggage x-ray machine at 11:11, so it started vibrating for my alarm and my bag got checked. My luck at airports is so random and exact, I couldn’t even make it up. I honestly thought I was in the clear this time, due to the fact I was TSA pre-Check and traveling with my family, but somehow always get stopped. Although my day sucked, and the whole world seemed against me, my problems are so miniscule compared to others. My grandma Ethel has stayed with us for the past 9 days and at 85 years old I wish I still have the same optimistic attitude as her. She got an eye disease when she was 75 and slowly continued losing her vision ever since. She is legally blind but still viewing the world as a beautiful place. She also has trouble walking with one leg. My grandma at 85 and having these disabilities, still lives in Las Vegas alone happily. Yes, my day 100% sucked, but I know so many people would wish to have my problems compared to theirs and for that I have to be appreciative! Looking forward to the Big Apple! Love, MAds |
June 20th 2016: Day 172 of 366 Happy Monday! More like Happy HOTT Day. Today the temperature ranged from 112-122 degrees all day long! There are places in the US where these extreme of heat is normal, but Los Angeles is definitely not one of those places. With such extreme heat, doing anything outdoors becomes uncomfortable and like a chore. Today alone 5 people died in Phoenix due to heat related causes. Unluckily my car air conditioning went out today on the hottest day of the year. We paid a lot of money to get my air fixed just last week, but when I was driving today instead of air coming out, heat was getting blown in my eyes which was completely awful. I had to drive my car to the shop 7 miles away, and I truly think that was one of the most uncomfortable rides I have ever had.
One positive to every Monday, is that every Monday night means Maddy gets Television night. Monday means the Bachelorette is on. Therefore, Monday’s Maddy makes everyone watch and know the Bachelorette. Not being in school, my only true weekly plan is the Bachelorette on Monday night. Riley and Lexie came over tonight to watch and catch up a little bit. I love how two birds were killed with one stone, I was able to see two people dear to my heart and watch a show which I will forever love. Peace Out Monday, Mads |
June 19th 2016: Day 171 of 366Happiest of Days to my favorite man in the whole world Eric Jay Braverman. Happy fathers day Daddy, no matter what you will always be my #1 man, my best friend, my rock and my mentor. Our relationship is truly one of a kind. We are two peas in a pod, but we also balance one another out very well. 24 hours without talking Is unheard of and we can understand one another 100% without having to say one word. My dad has this amazing way of always making me feel comfortable, loved, accepted and safe. Feelings I would hope every child could feel in the world. I know I can always count on him and that means the world to me. He can play like a kid, give advice like a friend and protect like a body guard. He has been there through the best of the best and the worst of the worst and I wouldn’t want it any other way. I always read this quote “ Anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad”. There are many people out there who are parents or raised a child but he has not only raised us, he has nurtured us, cared for us and loved us immensely every single moment of every single day. He is role model, because no matter what struggles he may have been facing he always put us first. A man who would give up his career to become a stay at home dad and let his wife follow her dreams is truly a hero in my eyes. He has not only been a remarkable father to my siblings and I, but has always treated all of our friends as his own children as well. I love you Papa and am grateful to have you as my dad.
Most people who know my dad know he doesn’t like crowds, he doesn’t like the heat, he doesn’t like traffic, doesn’t like waiting and barely likes people. Therefore, for Fathers day we just stayed in, went swimming, watched tv and had dinner in the comfort of our own home. All of us being together is all I think he could have genuinely wanted today. Hoping he had a great day! Love Always, Daddy’s baby |
June 18th 2016: Day 170 of 366 I can’t believe I am leaving to Back Pack Israel and Europe in less than 2 weeks. I honestly have so many mixed feeling about this 40 day adventure. I am so excited, I am nervous, I am anxious, I am worried, I am thrilled and I just want it to happen and all be planned. Stephanie, Noah, Ryan and I are all starting in Israel for the first 11 days, but after Noah, Ryan and I are extending and exploring Europe afterwards. On the grounds of these plans we are backpacking and not taking suitcases. I went to REI this morning for a few hours and learned so much about backpacks and backpacking tricks in general. I got a 65 L Osprey backpack which definitely took a hit on the bank account, but is such a nice quality item, I believe the purchase will be worth while. I also got a small quick drying towel, some compartments bags and a water bottle bag as well. Ryan’s older brother worked there so he luckily hooked me up with a discount as well.
This afternoon the Shaw’s hosted a lovely BBQ. I really do love family events. Free food, conversations with people double to triple my age, and a feeling of family and home. Stephanie was clearly worried the whole time I may be turned away by her family or intimidated but I loved all of them. She is my best friend and a best friend knows everything about you and loves you anyway. I was so excited to be there, and honored she felt comfortable enough with me meeting her whole family, because I know she usually doesn’t love having people over. Tonight I went to celebrate Nathan Kelfer’s graduation, a guy who recently graduated from CSUN but I have known for years. The Valley is a very small world, so although I didn’t know many people on the guest list, I knew there would be many familiar faces once I got there. I had a lot of fun going out tonight in the valley and Jayjay and I needed some time together. Her and I have been going out together since we were 14 years old, and still going just as hard 5 years later. Definitely now less, as we are in our own worlds and go to different schools, but she is honestly the only person I know I will always be going out with till I am old and wrinkly! She has been there always and we have been going out together since going out meant going to the playground or icecream truck. No matter where we both are, I hope to have nights like these. Later, Maddy |
June 17th 2016: Day 169 of 366 Hello 818, I am back! I am honestly excited to be back in Porter Ranch, because I will be here so scarcely throughout this summer. I honestly think over the whole spand of the summer, I will have been home less than 20 days at home. Regardless of what anyone says, all the negative times and people I may have encountered here, I love the 818 and have a special place in my heart for my home.
For the past 2 summers, my days mainly consisted of Kamp Kaleidoscope. A place where adults are forced to wear red shirts, kids are forced to wear blue and green shorts, a piece of paper symbolized you were the coolest kid of the day, the best food one could eat was a lunchable or otterbox and if you got a good rotation at the pool your day was made. I know that sounds negative so I will try again. Kamp Kaleidoscope is a local camp kids come to enjoy their every summer day, where there are many fun activities planned everyday and weekly fieldtrips every Wednesday to a new amusement park where the kids and staff have the time of their life. Camp is a whole world which became part of my life. A 5 day, 40 hour a week job which has impacted my life forever. Some days sucked, some kids were annoying but the overall experience and job was a blast. I was getting paid to hangout and be a role model for kids, something I already try to do on a daily basis. I am clearly traveling this summer, so I sadly couldn’t take on a full time job this year. I honestly feel weird and incomplete, being home on a weekday and not working. Every Friday there is “Spirit Stick” a performance the kids practice for all week to perform at the end in front of everyone. Every groups counselors re write a popular song and relates the lyrics to camp. Everyone looks forward to this time of week and parents even come to support. I went today to see camp, see some of the kids, some of the staff. I walked in and I just felt so comfortable, I know that place like the back of my hand. A kid got a bloody nose and I wanted to help the counselor who seemed clueless of how to help. The phone started ringing and I felt it was my responsibility to go pick up and say “Kamp Kaleidoscope, Sunflower speaking” but then I realized it was sadly not my place anymore. I saw some of my old campers, my old CIT’s who were now staff, my old campers who were now CIT’s, my old coworkers as well. I missed this place so much, but at the same time the old energy and spirit of camp seemed to not be there anymore. The camp is under new management and that was clear. I didn’t feel the same joy and excitement I used to always feel. Although, I was bummed I wasn’t working this summer and think the job would have been great, I know traveling the world will be an experience of a lifetime. I can always apply for another camp job, sure as heck I am almost guaranteed Kamp kaleidoscope if I wanted to come back. A big thing in Granada Hills, are the Food trucks on Chastworth st. I have always loved going to them because there is such a diverse amount of food available. My dad handed Rachel and I $17 and said “ This is what I am contributing, see if you can make it work”. We were now on a mission to get food which sounded good to us and also be semi-savy because some trucks can get pricy. We walked up and down the street seeing Medditerranean, Mexican, Japanese, Crepe, Burger, Cheese, Sushi trucks and more. We couldn’t make up our mind but I thought a tamale would be good, so we each got 2 for $3 a piece and said we would get more food after. To our surprise the tameles were beyond filling and we ended up having $5 left over! Really just trying to embrace home while I am here whether visiting camp, errands with old friends or taking a little trip to the foodtrucks. Love, Mads |
June 16th 2016: Day 168 of 366 Rise and Shine Tucson! At first I thought 10 days in Arizona would be too long but I am sad it is coming to an end today. Jay and I have a long past from dating from when I was 15-18 years old and talking ever since. Even with distance, lack of communication and even being in different schools with different people, we have always come back to one another. He genuinely makes me so happy and understands me. We have such a genuine loving friendship and that is most important to me. Jay and I can talk about anything and everything and are 100% comfortable with one another. I still dress up and try to impress him when I can, but I know I never have to and he has seen me at my best and my worst. I can’t wait for more road trips and adventures with him because I know we will enjoy our time together.
Today we both did something for the first time. We did an escape room, where we were locked in a “Bank” for one hour and had to find and use all these clues and solve multiple riddles and puzzles to open key locks, combination locks and doors. We are both competitive Type A personalities so we knew this would be a challenge. We usually compete against one another, not on the same team so this was definitely an experience for the both of us! We had to communicate constantly, put our minds together and not get frustrated over the little things. We ended up getting through all three rooms and majority of the locks, but got “arrested” (meaning our time was up, before we could finish. The couple who owned the Business came in and walked us through the next few steps. They said usually there are groups of 3-6 people, and we worked very well For complete strangers to compliment our communications and team work was very honorable. The escape rooms really test team work and are an amazing way to test compatability. I had a great time and I can see myself doing more of these in the future. The 3 main things I took from the escape room were
XOXO, The bomb threat gal |
June 15th 2016: Day 167 of 366 Jay and I are a very adventurous bunch so today we decided to go rock climbing. One of Jay’s roommates Alex is very adventurous constantly going on 12 mile hikes or camping or rock climbing, so I told him one day I wanted to join him. I remember rock climbing at camp growing up or at different carnivals but I didn’t know there was actually rock climbing gyms and people do this constantly. Jay and I only spent a few hours there, but it was a lot of fun. I never knew rock climbing was so difficult or such a workout. I was definitely lowkey embarrassed to see children half my age climbing harder paths than me, but then I realized I cant compare my beginning to someone elses middle. We both also learned how to belay someone while climbing. Jay and I both belayed one another as we climbed 100 feet in the air. Belaying someone means being in charge of someone in the air from the ground and help stop them if they fall and pick up slack of the rope as they climb up. Belaying someone is the ultimate form of trust because you are literally in charge of someone elses well being off the ground. I am definitely no professional, but feel confident enough to do it again.
I have recently heard amazing reviews on the movie “Alice Through the Looking Glass”, so tonight we had a nice movie night with his best friend Colleen. I have never seen the first “Alice in Wonderland” that was made in the last few years, but when I was a child I was Alice in the play and knew enough about the movie to get by. The movie had huge actors/ actresses in it like Anne Hathaway and Johnny Depp. So I knew it was going to be great. Not only was the film wonderful and colors immaculate, there were multiple messages that were thought provoking and meaningful. My 3 favorite Quotes were
Love Always, Madsion |
June 14th 2016: Day 166 of 366Back at it again in the Dirty T. Sad to say Tucson was voted one of the worst cities in the United States, but due to the fact that Jay and Steph both live here I will definitely be back. Jay and I have done so much exploring, driving and adventuring lately we are stil trying to be pretty laxadazical. The heat in Tucson is also beyond gruesome ranging from 100-120 degrees everyday.
Although I am away, I still have a 40 day trip to Israel and Europe right around the corner that has an immense amount of planning left. Ryan, Noah and I facetimed for hours today and only got 1 bus and 1 airbnb booked. I think all of us had a planning fallacy with how long the planning for our trip would be. None of us will all be in the same place at the same time up until the trip which is also difficult, but I hope we get our plans together real fast. We got a call today from one of the people in charge of our Birthright Trip July 3rd and I cant believe how close we are till leaving. The date is catching up quicker and quicker and I just hope we are ready. Xoxoxoxox, MB |
June 13th 2016: Day 165 of 366 REST DAY. A day everyone needs to take after constantly exerting energy and being constantly active/busy. A day where the pure purpose of the day is to relax and sleep. A day to give ones body and mind a break from being in constant use. Jay and I have been constantly doing, whether going to the Grand Canyon, exploring Sedona, going to a Zoo, trying new places and going new places constantly. We are “burning the candle at both ends” . Jay is way better than I am at resting so he set today aside to do nothing but just relax. We slept, watched movies and just spent a nice day at home. Something, everyone should take time aside to do, NOTHING.
Tonight for dinner we went to a Mexican-Asian fusioned restaurant. I always like trying new foods, but tend to be hesitant as I usually suck at ordering the right thing. Tonight, I luckily ordered the best dish, an ahi tuna tostada and Asian dish with a Mexican twist. Some days are better with lots of sleep and lots of food, staying home isn’t as bad as I put it out to be. Forever and Always, MEB |
June 12th 2016: Day 164 of 366Waking up in a Hotel Room next to my best friend is something that I hope to do many more times. We woke up early and had a nice continental breakfast. When hotels offer continental breakfast’s it is beyond nice. No matter what someone needs to eat, so when the hotel provides a well balanced breakfast, not only does it help start the day off right but saves time and money.
The Grand Canyon is truly unparalleled from any other location in the world. |
June 11th 2016: Day 163 of 366 There is something extremely special about Road trips. Road Trips are a time to just drive and enjoy the scenery, embrace the presence of those in the car and to explore new places and roads one has never been on before. People can save money by going on a road trip, because individual travel tickets do not have to be purchased and there is no need for other forms of transportation.
Road trips are awesome because, although there is a set destination, one has the freedom to stop anywhere along the way. While driving, you are in charge and if you don’t like where you are, you can always change locations. Also, the perk of being in the comfort of our own car means we had the ability to bring as much as we wanted, and could go at our own pace. Whatever fit in Jay’s car we were able to take and don’t have to pay any fee to do that. Today we went to Sedona, one of the most beautiful cities I have ever been to, located about 2 hours out of Phoenix. The rocks and views from our car were stupendous. I was in complete awe as we were driving because our windshield truly looked like the view was projected on a green screen. Surrounding us were red rock buttes that have been shaped so fascinatingly beautiful. On our way we stopped at some cute shops and view points as well. I love having the freedom to do whatever we wanted being in our own car. Our destination was Slide Rock.A state park where all the rocks are smooth and flat. Slide Rock is best known for the slippery rocks within the river that provides natural water slides. This place was unlike any place I have ever been because this was a natural water park in a sense. Slide Rock definitely seems like a main family-friendly destination everyone goes to over summer. Tonight we spent the night in a cute hotel in Sedona where we jacuzzied and flipped through channels for hours. Xoxo, MB |
June10th 2016: Day 162 of 366Happy Friday and Happy 20th Birthday Julia Losurdo Worcester. In today’s society finding genuinely kind hearted loving people isn’t that easy and I am so thankful to have someone as kind and loving as Julia in my life for the past 8 years. Although, I am not physically there with her today, I hope she has a wonderful birthday and cant wait to see what her lovely 20’s have in store!
Our Arizona adventures continued today as we went from Tucson to Scottsdale, a nice town right outside of Phoenix. Due to the fact Jay and I were in a relationship for 3 years, his parents know me very well and treat me as if I was their daughter. Arizona is truly a whole other world than California, this is a dry hot desert, with so little around. I could never see myself living in the desert. I could live in the “country” meaning in the mountains or small town or in the city but never in the desert, definitely a cool place to visit though. Phoenix Arizona is known for the Diamond Backs Major League Baseball team. Jay got us tickets to go to the game tonight and I was actually so excited, because Baseball has always been a big part of my life, as it is my fathers favorite sport and my brother played his whole child hood. I sent my dad a photo of Jay and I and he replied saying “Does it feel like you two never stopped dating?”. I read that question over and over and pondered the question a lot. Although we both have had a year apart, doing our own thing.. Everything between us feels natural and normal, because even when we stopped dating, we never stopped being best friends. I believe once you become so close to someone, that comfort never goes away and you will always stay close in one way or another even if there is distance. Trip 4 days complete and I am grateful to have 6 days left. Xoxo, MB |
June 9th 2016: Day 161 of 366Tucson Arizona is a city that is most known for the school University of Arizona. I have been to many college towns before, but Tucson is truly a college city. Everywhere one goes, they are bound to see someone wearing a Wild cat shirt or hat, or see someone who attends or who has previously attended U o f A. I have visited this city twice before and have always been shocked how the University is the main focus of the whole city. The city may be over 100 degrees but I have grown to love this place, due to the fact that my girl and guy best friends live here and go to school here half the year. While I am here I am trying to explore the city with Jay and see some cool places and delicious food Tucson has to offer. We went to the Tucson Zoo, which surprisingly Jay and Stephanie have never been to! The temperature was around 100 degrees, therefore the zoo was pretty empty today. I don’t know what it is about the zoo, but I get so happy like I am 5 years old again. I just love animals and every time I saw a new animal I got very giddy and a smile came upon my face ear to ear.
I have such mixed feelings about Zoo’s. On one hand I feel so bad for the animals, they are wild animals in such a small and restricted space in the Arizona heat. They don’t have the opportunity to mate, to run freely and to live a natural life. The animals are there for human enjoyment and tourism. On the other hand, a lot of animals in Zoo’s are rescue animals and have been nurtured back to a healthy living. The animals are always fed and given water and there are veterinarians to tend to the animals at all times. This zoo was also cool because at certain times, people can feed the giraffes or ride the camels. We had planned to drive to Phoenix tonight to visit his parents, but we were both super exhausted. Although we told his parents we would be there tonight and already packed our bags, driving while tired is extremely dangerous. Statistics say that : “The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration estimates that drowsy driving was responsible for 72,000 crashes, 44,000 injuries, and 800 deaths in 2013.4 However, these numbers are underestimated and up to 6,000 fatal crashes each year may be caused by drowsy drivers”. With those high numbers, there is no way we wanted to risk anything. We stayed in made cookies and watched movies, while being safe. Tomorrow on to Phoenix and seeing Jays parents. Love forever and ever, Madison Bee |
June8th 2016: Day 160 of 366 Hello Sunshine!!!..literally. This morning was 122 degrees in Tucson. I love the sunshine and believe it brings out the best in people, but honestly today there was a little too much of it. I realized how spoiled I am living near the beach where there is constant sunshine but also a nice breeze. Out here in Arizona, I don’t even know if they know what breeze means.
Back in the 7th grade I went to sleep away camp for three weeks and won the award “Most likely to walk down the run way and trip” I won that award because I may act or dress very nice but I am so clumsy and the biggest klutz in the world. This morning while showering I slipped and got myself wrong and thought I dislocated my left shoulder |
June 7th 2016: Day 159 of 366Rise and Shine, it’s Election Day. This years presidential election is definitely the strangest, craziest and weirdest an election has ever been. Additionally, the 3 candidates at the moment are the most diverse they have ever been. Firstly Bernie Sanders is a 74 year old Jewish man who supports women’s choice on aborting and believes all discrimination needs to end, therefore gay marriage should be allowed. Secondly we have Hilary Clinton, a woman who used to be the first lady and is now running for the Democratic Party, and believes in cutting taxes for the middle class, increasing minimum wage and wants to ensure every child an education. Thirdly, Donald Trump a famous celbrity and hotel owner is in lead for the Republican party believing we are going to cut the Department of Education and will not cut social security. Having three candidates with such different backrounds and beliefs, made voting in this years primary so important. This is the first election I have actually been old enough to vote in which is also a big deal. I was running late to the airport this morning and was not able to go to the polls and vote. The benefit of the United States wanting everyone to vote no matter what is one is able to mail in a vote and that is what I technically did, even thought my dad sent it for me. I think each possible president could lead the country a different way and that definitely scares me, because in the next 4 years I will hopefully graduate from college and find a job. I truly look forward to the actual election in November, where I plan to vote in person and let my voice be heard (even if it doesn’t mean anything).
Today my summer adventure and exploration began. I got on a plane today to Tucson Arizona, to spend 10 days exploring Arizona with Jay. Even though Jay and I officially dated for three years prior, he is still my best friend and still makes me so happy and alive when I am around him. For a few years we would spend most of Summer together, therefore living in different states has been new and weird for us. A lot of people close to me definitely do not agree with us spending all this time together, but I believe people should surround themselves with people who make them happy and feel comfortable. I hope to find beauty in this 110 degree weather. Xoxo, Madison Braverman |
June 6th 2016: Day 158 of 366Summmerr time laziness has begun! Going to the gym and getting tasks done seems like too much work lately!
My dear friend Chase Prew came over today. Chase and I are practically family and have the type of relationship where we always pick up right where we left off no matter what. Chase is unlike any other person I know because less than a year ago Chase identified as a 19 year old female Jamie and now identifies as a 20 year old man Chase. Jamie and I met when we were both young girls playing on the same Basketball team. Her and I got very close when we attended Nobel middle school, and created a tradition where every Fourth of July we hang out! Ever since the 6th grade Jamie and I became like siblings, we would have little bickers here and there but when it came down to it we would have one anothers backs no matter what. I remember when Jamie came over and told me she was becoming a man and was so nervous to tell me. I honestly was not very surprised because we know one another very well, I was just curious! I remember asking if he could be a “groomsmen?” This is the first time I have seen Chase in months and his face has gotten deeper and he has got more hair and a more masculine looks. I looked back at photos of Jamie and I and in a sense Chase looked like Jamie’s twin brother. We sat in the room with my parents and just talked for an hour about the whole process and all the transitions he has to go through. I really wish I was wealthy and could pay the $12,000 for him to get his surgery, because I know it would make him so happy! Chase is the most confident and happy I have seen him in a while and I love that. No matter female or male if you have love for a person I don’t think that should ever change. I can’t wait to see the beautiful transitions Chase continues to have and know we will always be in one anothers lives! Happy Bachelorette night! I know the show is a gimic and a weird concept, but it definitely amuzes me immensely. |
June 5th 2016: Day 157 of 366Waking up with Jay
Today Morgan had her final girl scout ceremony and culmination. Tonight she passed down her position, got congratulated on being a girl scout for being a Girl Scout for 12 years and become an alumnae to the Blue Madonna Chapter. Girl Scouts by definition is What is there to do in the valley?? -went to reseda Point Noah, Stephanie and I decided to make hot chocolate and watch a 3D movie at home. |
June 4th 2016: Day 156 of 366A major perk of living in LA is we are within an hour from countless beaches. On the other hand Jay and Blake do not have that luxury living in Arizona and really wanted to go to the ocean today.
I was so excited to see Riley, because she is one of my core friends in the valley, I have not seen yet. -dinner with tyler JJ is moving into a new house in Winettka with her sorority “sisters” |
June 3rd 2016: Dat 155 of 366Plans don’t always go as planned and I have come to understand that is okay. I was supposed to wake up, get my car, go to Costco and go to training, but that definitely didn’t exactly happen. I woke up and my phone wasn’t working so I had to go spend a few hours at the Simi Valley Verizon Kiosk and ended up getting a new phone!
Get a new phone Go to Noahs and start planning Europe trip -Kick back at Joels show up in leggings |
June 2nd 2016: Day 154 of 366Happy Graduation Day Morgan and Jon! My babies are truly growing up as today they both graduated High School. Tonight was the 5th Granada Hills Charter High School Graduation in the past 6 years. Surreal to think after next year, I will not know anyone else at Granada. Today so many people dear to my heart graduated from Morgan and Jon, to all of their friends, to all of my younger Volleyball babes, to countless other younger Granada students who have found a special place in my heart. I had such mixed emotions sitting at todays graduation. I reminisced about sitting here for Darians graduation in 2011, Jay and Alyssas in 2013, my graduation in 2014 and Hannah and Rachels graduation in 2015. I smiled thinking of all the memories at this school, and how Granada truly became a second home and “stomping ground” for me. I was sad realizing my “kids” and “babies” are all growing up and closing another chapter of their life. I was mad at how hot it was outside and that the staff wouldn’t let me sit with my parents in the handicapped section. I was confused and lost when trying to determine who was who and find my siblings amongst the crowd. Most of all I was feeling proud that both of them were graduating today. Morgan and Jon have faced a lot of adversity and struggles through high school, but they both got their lives together and received their diplomas tonight.
Brian Bauer the dean of all students gave a wonderful speech and said “ He also ended with the quote “ Sometimes people just need to be pushed to |
June 1st 106: Day 153 of 366Happy June! I am truly flabbergasted, we are entering the 6th month of the year of 2016. I feel like time is honestly flying bye quicker and quicker.
Tonight Patrick Dellibovi hosted a bbq at his house for the group of families who have known eachother for years and I came with Jenna’s family. This group consists of people I have known since the 6th grade like Jenna and her family, Elliott and his family, After the BBQ I went back to Elliotts cottage, where he was making beats for a few hours. Over the past year I have grown such a love and appreciation for EDM and house music. |
May 31st 2016: Day 152 of 366Summer Time always means more time to workout. For the past few years I have always gone to a trainer Paul. I started going to paul because I had weak ankles and slight scoliosis and thought he could help strengthen those parts of my body. After years I have strengthened muscles and parts of my body I never thought I would be able to and made a lifetime friend and mentor Paul %%%%%%.Training
Feel old Good to work out Help Eileen ‘ late adventures with Julia |
May 30th 2016: Day 151 of 366Waking up in the house since I was born is strangely weird to me now. For the first time in 19 years I have no room or even space to call my own in this house and it's saddening.
Happy Memorial Day! Thank you to.... Today while driving Jenna and I passed the Los Angeles National Veteran Cemetery , where after gravestone had a glad next to it and the whole cemetery was flooded with people Jenna and I have a tradition, that every break we go to Venice beach, so today that is exactly what we did. Jenna only has a few days before she goes back to Colorado so I am trying to see her as much as I can! We always love going to Venice, because one never knows what to expect. Venice is a one of a kind beach where there is a half mile walk way full of eclectic people, different vendors and street shows. We laid out for a few hours and just enjoyed he ocean breeze and the summer sun rays. |
May 29th 2016: Day 150 of 366 Today I said goodbye to my house in long Beach for the summer. I spent two full semesters in this house and have grown so much as a person living in my First house. Moving out , then moving into the dorms, then moving into my own place with roommates is all a process of growing up
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May 28th 2016: Day 149 pf 366Gym and yoga
Morgan and Annie and Isabella Packing Morgan padgetts birthday Hookah is a world of its own |
May 27th 2016: Day 148 of 366Life officially caught up to me and I slept through 3 alarm clocks, sleeping in till around 12 pm. I don’t sleep often, so I believe my body really needed that, especially considering I went to bed around 4am.
When I first moved into the dorms at CSULB my first year of college, I decided I should tour the school and see where my classes were before the first day, so I wouldn’t look like a doofus trying to read a map in between classes. On that day I met a boy named Jatin doing the same thing. I have to say he was my first college guy friend and today I went to his graduation party. He was having the time of his life and every time he saw me he kept yelling “my first friend in college”, I felt honored. Due to the fact it was a graduation party, a lot of people were pretty intoxicated. There was an incident that really upset me at the party, and sadly an incident that I believe happens too often. A girl got so drunk she blacked out and was dancing all over multiple people, and falling over. At moments there were groups of people laughing at her and most others just staring. Her friends she came with nor her big sister in her sorority did a thing. They just left her to embarrass herself when she doesn’t have the mental capability to truly know what she was doing. I immediately got her and took care of her. Someone came up to me and asked me why I did that even though its her fault and she is making a fool of herself, and I replied “It is nice to be nice”. I have never blacked out nor gotten to the point this girl was today, but I hope someone would help me. I was aghast to watch how many people were participating in the “bystander affect”, just watching and waiting for someone else to take initiative and do something. I really hope more people help others when they get to that level. No matter what dumb decisions one may make, I believe being there and helping someone who is too intoxicated or incapable of helping themselves should be a common human instinct. Tonight I took Rene Gonzales to Shabbat. He has never been to a Shabbat, let alone know anything about the Jewish religion. Although, he is not jewish and didn’t know much I loved how he came and made the best of it. Judaism is such an accepting and loving religion/culture. Living in a world where so few people share my same religion is difficult but I am glad all my friends have always been open and accepting to my backround. Shabbat Shalom, Mads |
May 26th 2016: Day 147 of 366Hello Vegas for the Last time in a while. I have been to Vegas 3 times in the last few times and 2 times in the last 2 weeks. I really think my liver hates me and I need to catch up on sleep from my Vegas trip months ago still.
As I got back from Vegas, I was honestly pretty exhausted from a crazy last few days, so I decided to take some time for me and relax. I netflixed and chilled alone for a few hours. I watched a popular movie on Netflix called “Before We Go”. There was a part where the main characters were discussing probabilities of finding love and being the right person and then went into how the highest probability is regret. To quote the movie the girl said `”its about regret and those odds are 100%”. I believe that is a quote everyone should always take in consideration. The movie made me think of the well known saying “ You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take”. |
May 25th 2016: Day 146 of 366Rise and Party!
I know Vegas is the city that never sleeps, but Vegas is also the town that never starts partying. I am definitely no Vegas or Fraternity Formal expert, but after this being my second trip in 2 weeks: My 5 tips of advice for a Fraternity Formal is 1. Be Social: 2. Be a Good Date: 3. Drink Water: 4. Hold a Room Key: 5.Know Your Limits: Stay classy.. |
May 24th 2016: Day 145 of 366Vegas Bound Round 2, in 2 weeks. Today I am off to Vegas for Pi Kappa Phi Formal with Jacob Delage.
Although there are 13 fraternities at our school, my favorite is honestly Pi Kapp. |
May 23rd 2016: Day 144 of 366I love a morning without an alarm clock. I got about 9 hours of sleep last night, which is truly noteworthy for myself. I am on Summer break but still have been lacking rest time. I leave for Vegas for the next few days so I know I will be getting very little sleep, so I guess this is my body trying to compensate for the next 96 hours I will probably barely sleep.
Although I technically have no commitments to work or classes to study for, I always feel like I still have a lot to be doing. Today I just tried to catch up on posting some blogs. I am definitely very behind on posting these blogs, but atleast have something written and a few pictures everyday this year. I really hope to be able to share it publicly, but that will just mean setting a lot of time aside to post every missing blog. There were so many people to doubt I would be able to keep up, and maybe I won’t be able to, but I sure as heck am not giving up yet and truly goal to be 100% caught up in the next few weeks! I really want to start setting some fitness and body goals for myself in the upcoming future. I have come to realize that dieting and being healthy is about 80% Diet and only 20% Exercise, but exercise is still vital to my success and progress. Due to the fact I am not enrolled in any summer courses, I no longer have a membership to the school gym, so for the first time I tried out the LA Fitness near school. I do not know what it is about Long Beach La Fitness’s but they are all funky. Either too crowded, too spread out, too weird or too bizarre. The gym was so compacted with few machines, but I was still able to run a few miles so it was worth it. Afterwards I went to yoga on the Bluffs at night. I have never been to the 6pm Yoga, but no matter what time of day it is, I never regret going to yoga. The instructor talked about “how we don’t appreciate our body, as it does everything for us”. She continued to say how beneficial yoga is for the body and I couldn’t agree more. Bachelorette is back with Jo Jo and I am so excited. Since I was a little girl I have watched the Bachelor/Bachelorette and have such a love and interest for the show. I can’t wait to see what the season has in store. With a Rose, MB |
May 22nd 2016: Day 143 of 366Banzai Bowls, my Bestfriend, and the Beach is all I could ever need. Today Steph came down to visit and we spent the day in Huntington strolling through shops, trying on random clothes, walking through art galleries, eating banzai bowls, and curling up in balls at the beach when it got too cold. I love living so close to the beach, because I am finally starting to take advantage of it. There is never a time where I can do nothing, because I can always go to the beach. Today was such a relaxed but enjoyable day. Crazy to think in just a year Stephanie has truly become a best friend to me. We talk every single day and know pretty much everything about one anothers lives. Her and I are very similar and have many of the same beliefs, but even on things we disagree on, we are able to listen with an open heart and open mind. As I grow up I realize gossiping and talking negatively about people is such a waste of time, and honestly when Steph and I are together I always feel positive vibes. I never feel as if I am being judged or feel the need to try and impress her or want to speak poorly about anyone and I think that really defines a true friendship. I can’t wait for beach days in Israel together
XOXO, MB |
May 21st 2016: day 142 of 366My happy happy place has always been my cabin. In 1989 my dad bought my mom a cabin for her 34th Birthday. The cabin is located in Running Springs California right between Big Bear and lake Arrowhead. Since I was a little girl I would go there and always thought it was the coolest place in the world. The cabin is not huge or extravagant, but the cabin has always been a beautiful simple home. As I grew up in Los Angeles, when I went to Running Springs everything seemed uncomplicated and effortless. Life in Running Springs was so different then it was in the valley, one super market, 2 restaurants, smaller house, small town. Growing up I began to enjoy all the simple joys in nature and on mother earth while at the cabin. My dad started renting out the cabin as we grew up and I remember some renters got evicted because they stopped paying rent, so my dad and I planned to go up there. Around that time I was about 10 years old and I had a school project where I had to take a photo at “The place that makes me the happiest”. As I walked in to my cabin about 9 years ago I remember being traumatized as the renters vandalized the house, burnt wholes in the furniture, stole appliances and left the place a wreck. I was going to view my happy place and just saw it destroyed. I remember being mortified, having it feel as if my stomach turned inside out and crying enough to make a river. My dad eventually fixed the cabin back up, but that really affected me negatively. Since then we have had a few good renters, and our most recent one just moved out, so Morgan, myself, and my dad all took a ride over. The house was empty but looked magnificent. The town has changed a little, the house has gotten older, but forever my happy happy place.
XOXO, cabin gal |
May 20th 2016: Day 141 of 366This morning on the way to Laguna, we saw black clouds, quickly realizing there must be a fire. Although, most normal people go away from a fire, Danielle and I wanted to go closer and see what was happening first hand. The Seal Beach pier was on fire, so we got out of our car and walked down to the Beach, until the firewoman told us we had to stop. I was on this pier so recently with my family and go to this beach all the time I started to think “Why not then?” ”What if the pier starting burning when I was there with my family?” Even though those are thoughts everyone has, no one should ever live their life off of “What if’s?”. There is never a reason to dwell on the past or worry about what could have happened.
Once we go to Laguna Beach, I was in awe of how beautiful it was! Eliza said something before which really clicked today and that was “If you’re lucky enough to live by the beach, you are lucky enough”. She is so right. We go to the only school in the United States with “Beach” in its name and live just a few miles from multiple beaches. The beach is beyond beautiful, the ocean is peaceful but powerful, the sand is soothing and calming and the air is always fresh and awakening. Jayson, Danielle and I just laid on the sand for hours talking and ‘resting our eyes’, as my mother says. We kept going around saying something that “Only someone who really knew you, would know that…” I have been thinking about this a lot lately. Truly what information about myself would only people really close to me know. We went around saying 3 things at a time and some of the ones I said were… 1. 2. 3. Tonight was the Babe Cave grad party! The Babe Cave consists of Alyx and her 4 roommates Destini, Holly, Alyssa and Sarah. That house has become a second home to me and somewhere I would go just to relax or escape. |
May 19th 2016: Day 140 of 366This morning around 1a.m. I had to say goodbye to Eliza, as she left for her Birthright trip and then exploration to Europe. After I left her I went home and a
No sleep Paulinas grad party So many firn There are events called “Undie Runs” held at many colleges. Jasmine and I took a few pictures, but didn’t really like them that much, so we asked her boyfriend Josh to take more and he said “NO”. We asked”Why?”, for him to reply with “ Experience it, stop taking photos of it”. I realized I am constantly torn between the idea of just experiencing something and enjoying every second while not taking any pictures, vs. actually taking some photos so I can visually remember the experience as well. |
May 18th 2016: Day 139 of 366Happy Happy Graduation day to my 3 favorite Seniors!!! Thre have been many people to impact my sophomore year of college, but hands down these three individuals have influenced my year and my life almost more than anyone. CSULB is a campus with over 38,000 students, therefore every year they hold around 15 or more graduations depending on the sizes of each college and major. Luckily Manny, Alyx and Spencer all graduated on the same day, at the same time in the same ceremony. I am still in disbelief all three of them will not be here next year, because going just a few days without seeing one of them is weird. Alyx is not only my BIG in sorority life, but one of the closest people to me at school. I know I always can come to her and she will have an open mind, heart and arms and that is a type of person I hope everyone has in college. She is someone I can talk about anything and everything with and we both are very similar in countless ways. Manny and Spencer are more than just gym partners, they are family and friends I know I will have for the rest of my life. I may hate them when they make fun of me or wake me up at 6 am to go to the gym, but they both always push me to my full potential and bring the best version of me out. Similarly to Alyx, the boys and I can talk about the craziest, weirdest and evern dorkiest stuff and then serious topics as well. We have such a genuine bond and I am forever grateful for them and hope to have gym and dinner dates forever. Today to watch all three of them cross the stage and get their college diplomas gave me such a mix of felling. I am so proud of each one of them and how far they have come, but I am also sad they are leaving. I am truly honored to know each one of them and have them in my life.
Graduations are extremely fascinating to me. Graduations are big ceremonies to recognize many individuals on all of their hard work and dedication, yet they are all forced to dress identically and get their name called our for maybe 5 seconds. People put in an immeasurable amount of work for what? To hear their name on a microphone for 5 seconds? To pay for a cap and gown to match thousands of others? To receive a piece of paper called a diploma? For the photos? Honestly I don’t know if these are the reasons some people work so hard, but I do know that everyone has a different reason for graduating and has had a different journey and that is what makes graduation meaningful. I believe graduating from college is such a remarkable accomplishment and I am truly proud of every single person in the Class of 2016. College is fun, college is a great time, but no matter what college is hard work. Everyone has pulled an all nighter, cried, worried about an exam, procrastinated, crammed studied, stressed, spent hours in the library, written papers longer then they could imagine and spent an extensive amount of time trying to pass every class. No matter how different every person was in the stands today, I know they have shared a similar struggle or college experience and that is a very awe-inspiring thought. I know that today did not mean good bye or that their accomplishments in life are even close to being over. This is just a start to a new chapter in all of these seniors lives and I cant wait to see what their futures have in store for them. I wish Alexandra Marie Thomas, Spencer Ryan Salzberg and Manuel Aaron Rubianes and all of the other extraordinary seniors nothing but the best in their future endeavors. Love Always, The Non Grad |
May 17th 2016: Day 138 of 366Wow it 'twas a wonderful formal in Vegas! I honestly had a really good time and glad I experienced my first Formal with Phi Tau! Fraternities are known for having formals in Las Vegas and I have always wanted to go and have heard so much about them, so to experience one first hand was incredible. For days straight people are just partying and having fun! Being under age in Vegas definitely is a bummer because I could not get into multiple pools, any night clubs or bars, but that was totally okay, as most people in the fraternity were also underage.
SPRINKLES The drive to and from Vegas is very boring to say the least. I still question how one of the most “poppin”, touristy cities in the United States is literally in the middle of no where. Grateful for experience It is the Summer Cleaning time of year I always like trying new food places, especially places that are highly recommended, so tonight we tried.. |
May 16th 2016: Day 137 of 366
For the city that never sleeps we definitely slept in, but probably needed it! With the blackout curtains and lights off, we slept in till 11:30, even though we planned to get up at 9:00. Tonight was the official Fraternity Formal held at |
May 15th 2016: Day 136 of 366Hello Vegas! Today I left for my first ever fraternity formal in Las Vegas Nevada! I am going with Phi Kappa Tau and I was really looking forward to going! My whole car full of seven people got swiped into the dining hall by yours truly this morning. Today was the official last meal of the dining hall and although I was bummed, I really did take advantage of my "new ID card". In the last 6 days I have used over 40 swipes!!! I definitely saved money on groceries this past week, which is every college students dream!
The ride to Vegas was pretty nice because Las Vegas is truly the city that never sleeps. The first day of Vegas has come to an end and I'm already super tired. Tomorrow is going to be a great, fun but long day! Formals are great because you meet so many new people |
May 14th 2016: Day 135 of 366Rise and Shine! Today was a very productive day! I started the day off with a long To-Do-List and I can say I got about 85% accomplished. We went to the gym this morning and there may have been a maximum of 10 people working out compared to over 100. So many people already went home! Honestly it still doesn’t feel like “summer break” yet, but maybe that will come with a little time.
Although Spencer and I were extremely tired and laxidazical this morning, we still decided to get our zen on and go to Yoga on the Bluffs. I love the teacher who comes on the weekends, because she is truly so insightful. Dining Hall Meal plan Decorate graduation caps Creativity is good for soul “Only Graduate Once” Manny said, so he went all out! |
May 13th 2016: Day 134 of 366Happy Friday the 13th! Happy first day of “official” summer for me!
Gym Dining hall Tonight I was invited to a special Shabbat with Cha Lea. I did not know what to expect or what the event would be like. No phones No driving Day off Becomes routine I was walking through the Jewish Academy the dinner was held at and saw a handful of small children playing basketball. About 45 feet ahead of me I saw a basketball hit a little girl in the face and I automatically switched to work mode. I honestly felt like I was at Northridge Park running a sports activity and one of kids got hurt. I was in 5 inch heels ran over and took control of the situation very quickly, even though I didn’t know the children. Children cry as an automatic response |
May 12th 2016: Day 133 of 366WOWZERSS!!! I am officially done with My Sophomore Year of College. Today I took my last final, wished many people a wonderful I am still in disbelief, I feel like there are essays to write, finals to study for and assignments to turn in but it is officially summer. This year has been one for the books. I moved into my first house with Torie and Eliza, I traveled for Volleyball all the way to Kentucky, I joined a sorority, I chose a major and career path I am passionate about and had such amazing memories with such phenomenal people.
10 Lessons I learned this year.
Love, MB |
May 11th 2016: Day 132 of 366DRESS GOOD. TEST GOOD” is what my friend Amanda told me last week before finals. I honestly can not agree more that dressing well makes you feel better all around. Although her and I dressed well our test still killed us today. Everyone walked out of our Psychology Statistics test today with their heads low and shoulders shrugged. I knew I wasn’t the only one who left that test feeling clueless and bad when 2 students announced “That final exam raped me”. Statistics is a very hard class so I am not surprised the final was difficult, but even though there is a high probability I did poorly I am not too upset, because according to my calculations I am still guaranteed a ‘B’ in the class even if I did not show up today. This year I truly learned the importance of doing well in the beginning of the semester, so I do not have to stress as much at the end of the year. Also, most teachers drop the lowest homework or test score, so if one does very well in the beginning there is more room to make mistakes. Spencer sent me a quote today which I find very pertinent to finals season. “Your value does no decrease based on someone else’s inability to see your worth”. I know this quote can be perceived many ways, but with finals I believe we should not base our value and worth off of test grades. We are more then what we get on our test or our three digit GPA. Our true value as people is based off of how we treat people, about how we impact the people and world around us everyday. Our value is about trying our hardest and being the best version of ourselves we can be. Our worth is based off so much more than a final, and I think some people tend to let grades and school determine their quality when there is so much more.
To celebrate being done with 5 finals and to make the most of our last few days at LB this year we went to the Dining Hall for dinner and then played a game of cosmic bowling in the alley at the USU and went home to watch old MTV shows with the roomies. It has been a very long time since I have had a fun but laid back night like that. In college I feel people too often mistake “going out” with just partying…Going out can be activities like a hike, bowling, mini golf dinner dates and more. I think people need to try more ways of going out, life is more enjoyable that way! Love Endlessly, Madison |
May 10th 2016: Day 131 of 366Lately I have been feeling “under the weather” as my mom says so I went to the Student Health Center at school. I am a 19 year old healthy girl who thinks I can get an extra hour of sleep and drink some tea and become better, but with finals occurring and Vegas in the near future I thought asking a professional might be a smart decision. I was bummed to find out I have an infection in my throat and have to take multiple medicines for the next few days. I am glad I know now because any sickness cures faster if found early.
I am extremely relieved to say my Social Psychology final is over. I honestly studied 20+ hours but did not walk out of the final confident. The exam was made up of 20 multiple choice questions, which I believe I did quite well on and 3 essays. Of course out of everything I studied the essay prompts were the topics I studied the least. Social Psychology was a very interesting class and I really do feel like I learned a lot, but I wish I was able to do better in the class over all. At the end of the test I walked up to my professor and asked “ How can the college dynamic be changed, where students come to class more so to just learn then to get good grades?” My teacher went quiet and then told me what a great question that was. He said he is saddened to see how college and school is just becoming stressful and about receiving points then about learning and becoming more knowledgeable. I love the subject social psychology because so much relates to my life and others lives around me. I have learned so much about human interaction, but no matter what I feel a constant pressure of going to school to get good grades and memorize materials that will be tested on not just learn to enjoy. In honor of Taco Tuesday and finishing the final, my friend Adam and I went to Hole Mole. I love going out to eat with people because I feel like there are always such nice conversations and it was fascinating to discuss our opinions on the class and final overall. Tomorrow I have my Statistics final and I feel like I should be more stressed then I am because I honestly barely know anything but I can not change that less than 24 hours prior. XOXO, MBraves |
May 9th 2016: Day 130 of 366“Happy Monday”, says no one on finals week. Although finals week is beyond dreadful, I am fortunate enough to have every final on a different day. Finals symbolize a semester truly coming to an end. Finals are probably the most stressful time of year for everyone because we know we have a very difficult test in ever single one of our classes. And if we do not have a final we definitely have an end of the semester essay, project or assignment. Today is the start to my last week of my 2nd year of college. In the moment this year seemed like it was going by so slow but now I feel like the year truly flew by.
Even though Condition for tuition ended, we still have to be on that gym grind! This year I really did go to the gym at least 2-3 times a week and I hope to continue going even more this summer and next year. People regret nights they party too hard, regret days they waste away doing nothing, regret stressing so much over school, but no one ever regrets going to the gym or getting fit. I am fortunate enough to have a few people from high school who also attend CSULB. I am even more fortunate to have one who still dorms, because I can just go get dinner and catch up with her randomly at the Dining Hall. Jenn and I were always very friendly through high school, but never in the same exact main friend group. I love seeing her around school because there is so much we can relate to and talk about which I can’t talk to anyone else here about. Finals |
May 8th 2016: Day 129 of 366No matter how crazy or busy life may be, everyone has to take time to check in with themselves. This morning Eliza, Spencer and I went to Yoga on the Bluffs.
Yoga is an amazing destresser. Faith it till you make it. NOT fake it but faith it. Believe in yourself Long Beach is so beautiful LOL to my Theatre class Shows to do well in the beginning Tonight is my favorite time of year: Midnight Breakfast at the Dining Hall. Our school has this event at all the Dining Hall on the first day of Finals each semsester where student can come enjoy a full breakfast meal at midnight. |
May 7th 2016: Day 128 of 366Yay for getting A’s.
I arrived at the library this afternoon at 12:30pm and l Stayed for 12 hours Important to study earlier some guy put his bottle on the fountain in the library and then went into the restroom. After I was done filling my bottle, I filled his and walked away. He just came up to me and said thank you, someone told him it was me. He said that was very kind, and Ihonestly forgot I did that! just thought I would share a little nice story |
May 6th 2016: Day 127 of 366Some things are worth waking up for, and one of those things are warehouse sales. My friend Jasmine works at a cute boutique in Huntington called No Rest For Bridgett and they were having their blowout sale at their headquarters in Irvine this morning.
Tonight was Shabbat Soiree. Shabbat Soiree is the final Shabbat of the year held at the Alevy’s mansion. A girl in my sorority posted on our DZFunPage tonight: Any parties tonight? And someone replied: Club Lib. Study time has begun as finals are this up comin week. Partying this weekend is not even a thought in my head, Trey Songs was my final hoorah. |
May 5th 2016: Day 126 of 366 Happy Cinco de Mayo!! For the past few weeks their have been signs up about a Cinco de Mayo party at school, therefore of course I had a plan to go there after class. I finally found the South West terrace (because who actually knows where that is) I went and talked to the people running the event. I felt bad because no one was there, when I arrived 20 minutes into the event. The Cinco De Mayo Party was cute, there was water pong, ring toss games, salsa and chips and more. One of the people in charge asked me : “How did I hear about the event? ”
notGo to everything. I honestly look at every sign on There was free HIV testing at school today so I went just to go. Negative Trey Songs Knew every lyric |
May 4th 2016: Day 125 of 366 “May the Force Be With You”… I really wish I got $1 every time someone said that today. Personally I have never really been a Star Wars fanatic, but America is definitely a Star Wars loving country.
Today was my last official class day for Human Development, Statistics and Beach Volleyball and the sad reality is there is a high probability after the final I may not see so many of my classmates ever again. I took my Beach Volleyball final today and got a 100%. This semester I have gained an immense amount of respect for Beach players and Beach Volleyball as a whole. Although I play competitively inside and playing is simple and natural to me, beach takes a different type of skill and strategy. Having only 2 people on the court, playing with a higher net and in 40cm deep sand can be very difficult. I do hope to continue playing and enjoyed this class so much, I may take another Kinesiology Beach Volleyball class in the future. I am self proclaimed “The Queen of finding everything FREE on campus”, I genuinely question why I even pack food anymore. From different activities, event, and fairs I believe I could get lunch everyday and enough school supplies for the year. Today I noticed Subway being passed out, so I ofcourse scurried over to find out because the teachers didn’t have to go on strike they bought a generous amount of sandwiches, snacks, cake and drinks for all the students. Just a few weeks ago all of the teachers were supposed to go on strike due to problems with their pay, but because they didn’t have to they wanted to repay the students for their support. Even though I was bummed there was no strike, I was stoked abut my delicious lunch. Happy Last Official Wednesday of the School year! Xoxo, MBRAVES |
May 3rd 2016: Day 124 of 366Rise and Gym! Summer is just around the corner so working out and staying healthy is vital now more then ever. Another reality of this year ending is that Manny and Spencer will be graduating as well, so half the gym fam will be Alumni very soon.
There was an event at school today called : Pause for Paws, where multiple therapy dogs came to school to take pictures with, hangout with and show how peaceful and beautiful they are. An event planning class had to plan a whole event and this was one of the groups events. I love animals so much and think dog therapy is a brilliant idea. I genuinely believe dogs can bring people to peace before other people could. As we left the event I realized I lost a stone bracelet I loved very much. The bracelet must of unhooked and fell off somewhere. Even though, I was bummed I tried to look at the situation optimistically. Instead of being frantic and dwelling on not having the bracelet or searching everywhere for it, I thought about how someone else’s day would be made by their new find. Someone else out there needs that bracelet more than myself and if someone’s day was made better due to my loss, it was not truly a loss. Long Beach’s Recreation Center is known for their Condition for Tuition Program and at the end of the year the gym puts on this huge event . At the vent there is a continuous raffle , Taco stands, Popsicle stands, bouncey houses, character guys, Vendors and more. Tonight Eliza, Danielle and I went to a girl night out at this woman ChayaLeah’s house. |
May 2nd 2016: Day 123 of 366WOW what a day to reflect on. Today was my last official Monday of my Sophomore year of college. As I walked through campus today I stayed off my phone and took time to enjoy the beautiful campus I am lucky enough to attend. The flowers are all bloomed and the trees are beautiful. For the first time in a while I just embraced in school and realized I am going to really miss this place one day.
Tonight we had the Director of Risk Prevention and Education:Will Frankenberger fly in from Utah to talk to my Delta Alpha Delta Zeta Long Beach State Chapter. Ofcourse when head of Risk Prevention flies in something is wrong. About a month ago two of our sorority members were caught in a video during a Fraternity Hazing. Issues and situations like this are taken very serious and we as a chapter are so fortunate our whole Long Beach State chapter was not shut down, nor even put on probation. I did not know what to expect when this man walked into meeting, but I honestly have never been son captivated by a speaker. The room was full as everyone was 100% required to be there and if someone did not attend they were on Social Probation next semester. Will went on multiple tangents how this behavior is unacceptable and we need to hold ourselves accountable. He was strict, funny, serious and wise all at once which made him so interesting and mad everything he said very thought provoking. Our Delta Zeta chapter is the best DZ in the State and we can’t let stuff like what happened recently ever happened again. He was a great speaker and I took a lot from this conversation and think it was beyond necessary. Our participation has been lacking, so I really hope this lit the fire under some peoples butts to get involved. At the end of the meeting we all held hands and repeated our creed. Our creed embodies what it means to be a DZ and we all closed our eyes and recited it together. We then all left and drove to the house for Senior Ceremony. This is the time where we write notes to the Seniors and they can write notes and give gifts to us as well. Additionally, each senior gives a speech and that was my favorite part. Tonight during each seniors speech, their passion and love for DZ was very clear. I love hearing about each girls experiences, memories and advice. Some of the most valuable words of advice I hope to take in and live by throughout my next few college years is “Take it in, Do what makes you happy, You get back what you put in, These are the best years of your life so don’t take them for granted, Go out on a Tuesday night when you have an essay due on Wednesday, make relationships, Help one another, Be there for your sisters and Be proud to be a DZ”. I am sad to say goodbye to some amazing Alums like Ali Carcamo, Holly Norgan, Destinit Lone Elk, Alea Nuciforo, and my beautiful big Alyx Thomas, but I know they will achieve greatness in their futures and can’t wait to see the amazing things they do in life. DKZ, Madison Braverman |
May 1st 2016: Day 122 of 366
Although I am back in Long Beach, I still couldn’t stay away from my family too long. My sister spent the weekend in Oregon and flew in to LA this morning, so after picking her up they drove to Long Beach tovisit me and eat Brunch together. Today we pulled over in a little parking lot to put in an address for a Thai place my sister wanted to get food out and there were such beautiful flower trees, I just needed to take a moment to Sundays are always “Catch Up Day”. Every Sunday night I have tp catch up on all the school work I slacked on throughout the week, |
April 30th 2016: Day 121 of 366Spent morning at home running errands with dad.
5 reasons Costco is the best One thing I really miss about home are my pups. |
April 29th 2016: Day 120 of 366Although you may look up to me physically I always look up to you as a person. Happy happy Birthday to the best mom in the world. She has so many qualities I hope to embody one day.
Today I drove home to surprise my mom for her birthday. My dad told her I was not coming and that he was in pain, so they were just going to eat 3 day old fish for dinner. Little did she know this was all a lie. |
April 28th 2016: Day 119 of 366Art 110 you have been too good to me! This week instead of going to class, we had the amazing opportunity to go to the Japanese Gardens to sketch and take photographs. I personally love the Japanese Gardens so much and think it is such a beautiful place on campus. I have taken photos there many times but never sat and sketched the beautiful scenery I was surrounded by. The sketching experience was nice and frustrating at the same time. On one hand, drawing was very relaxing and peaceful and on the other drawing was frustrating when nothing came out amazing and I had trouble really figuring out how to draw “abstract”. I am a person who is used to structure and looking at art realistically and literally, therefore drawing an abstract picture, was a hard concept for me to truly understand. I guess everyone has a different opinion of what is abstract, which also made me have a difficult time with executing an abstract photo. Overall, the experience was a lot of fun and very enjoyable. I learned I wish I was a better artist but sitting amongst beautiful nature and sketching is so relaxing and I plan on doing it again.
On a similar note, last week I met a really down to earth talented artist. After class we connected on social media and I invited him to my Grab A Date tonight on a whim. Even though I barely knew him a week, we had a good connection in the little time we talked I thought he would be someone fun to bring to the event. Our Grab a Date this semester was at the Yost Theatre where we saw or were supposed to see DJ Cut Snake. Going on awhim Last event Awesome date Better planning So fun |
April 27th 2016: Day 118 of 366Final Season has begun. Today at 2pm I was supposed to have my yoga final, but it had to get moved to 8am, because a girl in my final group is a D1 athlete and has a game at that time.
Went to mall and got bomb deals for example $12 shorts from Hollister and $13 dress from small store. Spent the day at blood drive and at proctoring hours |
April 26th 2016: Day 117 of 366This morning the 4 of us ( Me, Eliza, Manny and Spencer) went to the gym and I entered my ID number for the Condition for Tuition contest, as I try to do every time I gym. Today I marked 49 times of going to the gym out of 50 times I needed to go to complete the challenge. I was appalled and pretty bummed when I also found out today was the last day of the challenge. I worked hard to get 49 times,s so it was a bummer that I missed it only by 1. I know I didn’t get entered for the free tuition but I am proud that I have gone to the gym more this year than I did last year.
On my way to class today, I got stopped by a group of students with camera’s and microphones, asking if they could interview me for their Documentary. Although, I was late to class I was willing to get interviewed and help these guys out. They asked me “Did you hear about the white male student who pulled out a knife on an African American female student in February during class?” To my surprise I have never heard about this issue until that very moment. They then continued to ask me how that made me felt, and I was lost for words and thought. I said I was shocked and feel like that is a prominent issue on campus that students should have been notified with. Also I pride our school on being so diverse, so knowing there is clearly still racism on our campus is awful and saddening. Time is moving quicker and quicker each day. I saw Alyx at school today twice randomly and it made me sad realizing I won’t be able to do that next year. I wish I appreciated every moment with her and other seniors more, because now they are graduating and I wont get the same luxury of seeing them all the time. I was inspired by the fact we as a society don’t appreciate enough and posted a little food for thought instagram tonight. “Appreciate everything. Appreciate it when you go out on the street and the light is green, appreciate every compliment you receive, appreciate the life you live, appreciate the love that people give you, appreciate every breath that someone takes before they tell you something because they took it for you. Appreciate. Even the bad things because there’s no better thing than balance and balance doesn’t exist without bad things. Appreciate your balance. Appreciate your life. Appreciate yourself.” Mucho Amor, MB |
April 25th 2016: Day 116 of 366With Season over and no constant workouts I know I need to get back on the grind of working out and woke up and went to the gym with my squad at 6:30 am. Then had to leave the gym by a decent time to get to my 9:30 am Human Development class. This class is making me realize more and more that the subject matter is fascinating and I find an immense amount of interest in the subject. We were asked to discuss “What do you hope in life by 40?”I said by the age of 40 I want to be married to my best friend, own a house, have children I can support and spend time with, have parents who are hopefully alive and well, still be fit and healthy, to have traveled the world. The whole class discussed the topic and everyone had overlapping thoughts and goals, then one student raised his hand and said “I want to be alive”.No one else thought or said that due to the fact we all expect to be alive, even though an innumerable amount of people pass away by that age. Made me realize just being alive is a goal to have everyday.
I always don’t like Mondays because I have statistics from 12:30-4:20 pm and just become mentally exhausted after that class. To my surprise and joy today was my final Lab of the year. I was in disbelief when I found out after I turned in my final lab today, I would never have another lab class. I then realized we only have 2 more weeks of school and finals left till my second year of college is over. Someone told me today that after Spring Break, time flies by and they are 100% accurate. Tonight we also had our last official sorority meeting of the year. My sorority life has impacted my second year of college immensely and looking back at this whole year, I have grown so much within the sorority. They brought in an amazing dinner and we even had Fraternity serenades, so meeting was nice! While at meeting Jay invited me to Boston this weekend and as much as I would have loved to go and think it would have been fun I had to respectfully decline. I already have Grab A Date, plans this weekend and school work to catch up on. I am really trying to not be an opportunist anymore. Therfore although a trip to Boston would probably be more amazing then a show at the Yost theatre or plans with friends in So Cal, I am sticking to my original plans and commitments. I hope I made a good decision and cant wait for this weekend, first weekend I will be home in Long Beach for the whole weekend without a visitor in over 10 weeks! Love Always, mads |
April 24th 2016: Day 115 of 366Sunday mornings are truly my favorite mornings of the week! This morning Jay and I went to Long Beach’s Yoga on the Bluffs. I love the instructor that was there this morning as she not only gives a solid yoga practice and workout but is very insightful. She kept telling people to “Give yourself the gift of letting go of past problems” and that sunk in because I really need to do that more. I am still letting situations of the past negatively influence my present relationships and situations and that is not good. Another interesting topic the instructor brought up is how people are Face booking their problems rather than facing their problems and
People are checking into Facebook rather than checking into them selves. She brought up a prominent issue in todays society. We spend too much of our time living through social media rather than just living life. We tried two new places to eat today. I have a habit of just sticking to places I enjoy eating at, but trying something new is usually satisfying. Trying new foods is always good because variety can be really ncie, its awesome to be adventurous and there is no reason really not to. We went to The Crooked Duck and Polly’s Pies today. Both restaurants were completely different and a new experience. The food was yummy and trying new places around the neighborhood was a great experience, especially when I had good company. After Jay and I had dinner, I had to drop him at LAX so he could go back To Arizona. The weekend was truly bittersweet. Tonight after I took Jay to the airport I had an immense amount of homework to catch up on. One of the assignments I had to complete was my art experience for this week. This week we were told to send a classmate an Art Care Package. The package was supposed to be full of different items that resembled ephemera. After learning about ephemera (items of collectible memorabilia, typically written or printed ones, that were originally expected to have only short-term usefulness or popularity), I decided to put a bunch of random stuff in the care package. I honestly have never met the classmate I got, so I couldn't send a lot of personalized items. For this assignment I decided to go through my house and find any little trinkets or random items that could go in my art care package. Personally I believe everything is art whether the random mardi gras necklace I found , the Beach first aid kit, random tickets, To-DO lists, Jewels, Close Pins or Fake Flowers they all symbolize art in some way. I also colored 2 wood letters "A and G" which were my classmates initials. I consider most of these items to be ephemera, but I hope my classmate likes the package and finds some use or symbolism in some item I sent her! |
April 23rd 2016: Day 114 of 366Today was the first time in a very long time that I didn’t wake up to an alarm clock but just woke up naturally.
Danielle, myself and Jay went to Huntington Beach for the day, as it is one of the nicest beaches in Southern California and home to my favorite food: Banzai Bowls. After a long day out we picked up pizza and just watched movies and ate pizza with Danielle and Torie. Jay and I have known one another so long, we could really do anything and be happy and comfortable, |
April 22nd 2016: Day 113 of 366Rise and Shine! This week flew bye very quickly. This was a major week of recovery and rest for me.
There are not many people I would drive to LAX for on a Friday night at 5:30 pm but Jay Spiegel is definitely one of them. Jay and I are truly an interesting story, from being in a relationship for almost 3 years and being best friends for over 4 years, we have always stayed a major part of one anothers lives. We saw one another a little over a month ago for dinner, but since we both had a free weekend he decided to fly out to hangout with my in Long Beach. |
April 21st 2016: Day 112 of 366As I looked around on campus this morning, I could tell it was becoming the end of the year. You know that time in high school where everyone dresses a little cuter for end of the year pictures. The time where everyone actually comes to school knowing finals are coming up and comes a little early to get their year books signed. The time of year where more people are socializing because endless bonds have been created from classes and hardships and great times through the year. The time of year where it is not yet too hot nor too cold. The time of year where you see people taking graduation photos, complaining about senioritis, and calculating every point in their grade seeing the lowest score one can get on final and still pass. This is the time of year when people reminisce on the years memories and look forward to the summer trips and explorations.
For my sorority we do philanthropy event every semester and they are usually sporting events, but our Nationals became strict and said that sports are a liability, therefore we can’t do it! This semester we had an event called the Amazing Race where all the contestants competed in obstacles that related to out philanthropy. We have a 5 million dollar pledge to the Starkey foundation which is an organization that gives people hearing aides and helps assist those who have hearing issues but can not afford help. There was a challenge that was lip reading and another one that was telephone and more as well. Although the challenges were not sport related they were still challenges and all the fraternities put 100% effort into each obstacle. A race which was supposed to take about an hour, only took about 25 minutes. Crazy to think everything went so fast, but was also nice because I had more time to rest. Tonight we had our last Exchange of the year with Zeta Beta Tau also known as ZBT and my little bros fraternity. I honestly love exchanges because everyone is so much more social and everyone knows one another! The theme was “ThrowBack” which was very fitting as the party was on a Thursday night. I love themes and hate themes at the same time because I love seeing everyone’s creativity, but I hate having to actually come up with an outfit in the first place because that can be stressful. When I think of throwback I think to me a s a kid, I think to what was popular in the 90’s or growing up but couldn’t come up with a costume. I have a whole closet full of dress up stuff and saw a Santa Hat. I thought of Santa and how when we were little everyone thought Santa was real not just a figment of our imagination created by schemas present by media and our elders. With this idea I dressed up as Santa with a little pin that says “TBT to when we thought Santa was real”. The exchange was so much fun! Everyone got pretty “turnt” as people like to say, but all fun. I have to say some of the best outfits are the girls who printed out their baby photos and got them printed on their shirts, a guy who dressed as flavor flav and snoop dog. Crazy this is my last exchange for the year, glad it was a good one! Love, Fake Santa |
April 20th 2016: Day 111 of 366Happy Wednesday! Happy Hump Day! Happy Birthday Hitler! Happy 420 Blaze it! But most important Happy Happy Birthday to my baby brother and sister! Happy 18th Birthday Twins! I am honestly in disbelief that they are 18 years old, that means that they are legal adults by law and I still look at them as babies. Even though Morgan, Jon and I fight and argue over so many things, at the end of the day we have a very strong bond and connection. Turning 18 is a big deal because at this age there is a true transition from adolescent to adulthood. Although, Morgan and Jon are twins they are extremely different. I love how unique they are and admire and love each of their individual qualities. I feel bad because I do take them for granted and don’t tell them how amazing they are as much as I should but I really do love and care for them more than they could ever understand. They will always be my little bro and sis regardless of how old they get. I look forward to see they get their high school diplomas in a month and see the great things they accomplish in life.
Season is officially over and the school year is coming to an end, but I am still extremely busy! Today I had a full day of school, which made me very tired but still had 3 obligations after school. Firstly, a few weeks ago I was asked to be on a Campus TV Show, due to the fact I am an outgoing Sorority girl. Additionally, a social fraternity boy was need so I called Alec, because who better to do it with then your best guy friend. The show was a Democracy game show on popular current political issues. Alec and I worked together to come up with a solution for every problem in 30 seconds. The challenge was harder than we thought, but the experience was worth it. After the shows recording I went to ZBT’s Bake Sale Philanthropy. I thought it was funny and ironic that their bake sale was on 4/20, when many people are likely to have munchies. Very smart and creative panning on their part. Philanthropy events are always cool because you are donating for a good cause while attending a fun social event and usually even getting food in the process. My boy little Joseph Ngyuen is in the Fraternity so that always entices me even more to go! We were both wearing our letters which was really cool. Letters are over priced jackets representing ones greek organization but when you have matching letters with someone and both of you are wearing them , the overpriced jackets become meaningful. Today is also a girl on my team Marisa’s 21st Birthday. One of the players sent out a text to everyone to meet at Buffalo Wild Wings! We have only been out of season for 2 weeks but I do miss being with all of these girls all of the time so tonight was nice. I did make a fatal mistake by ordering Nachos at BWW, definitely will not happen again! I trusted other peoples opinions to just learn I really do not like nachos, but it is okay, just a little lesson! I just hope everyone had a happy and high 4/20 and Birthday! XOXO, MB |
April 19th 2016: Day 110 of 366Festival Life caught up with me as I woke up this morning at 10:36 for a lecture I was supposed to lead at 11:00. I have missed a lot of class lately because I traveled for volleyball this month, so to make up my points my art professor said I could lead the lecture. When I asked him “What the lecture should be about? Or what requirements and guidelines I had to follow?” He gave me NONE. I appreciated that he trusted me enough to give me the freedom to do whatever I wanted, but also then was left clueless with what to do because there were literally no rules. I knew this was an Intro to Art class, so I had to do something that related to that. I thought What is Art? I really could not come up with an exact definition. I told the class “ We have all been in this art class for 14 weeks now. Did you think 14 weeks ago this is what an introduction to art class was? I know I didn’t. We are in this class, we have discussions, conversations, view museums and even have art experiences but are we taking in all the art or just going through the motions and tasks to get the job done? and a good letter grade? What even is art? We have been in this class for months and not once have we gone over the title of the class ART 110.” Then I went around asking students what art was to them, played a few videos then went into the purpose of art. Getting the class to participate was so difficult. Having students volunteer was like pulling teeth out. I went semi savage while lecturing this over 100 people class and said “ Communication is a form of art everyone in this class Lacks and went on talking about how everyone would feel very awkward on stage if no one in the class was volunteering to answer questions”
Dining hall Sleep is needed and rest. Coming to the end of school omg |
April 18th 2016: Day 109 of 366Coachella actually came to a close. This was one of the lonest weekends of my life. I really think I will need a week of recovery from my runny nose, to no voice, to sore throat, weak body, and tired legs. We woke up at 6 am this morning and soon after got on the ro
Final at 2 Saw jasmine and alyx and vb girls |
April 17th 2016: Day 108 of 366Hello Day 3 of Coachella!!! Today was such a great day! We saw so many artists and just made the best of our last night! During Calvin Harris, which was also the last set our group got in a group circle and just started singing as loud as we could without a care in the world. COACHELLA was a BEAUTIFUL experience.
After being a person who has Experienced Coachella here is my advice within 16 Steps:
Love Always, Festival Child |
April 16th 2016: Day 107 of 366Day Two has come to a close and I am beyond exhausted. I never thought a festival would be so tiring, but I was wrong! Coachella is a cool festival because there are 6 stages that play music. The issue is that one must continuously walk stage to stage to see ones preferred artists! Today we got the day started a little later, but still got into the venue by 1:30. My favorite artists today were RLGrime, Ice cube, Disclosure and Rufus Du Sol. Even though there are over 100,009 people, I have managed to see over 20 people who I know! As the show ended tonight around one am, I was not looking forward to my walk back to the campsite, but at the same time so thankful I only had to walk back to the campsite. We ran into Rachel, kyle and Claire again who know us all from high school and they asked how hard it was to camp!?
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April 15th 2016: Day 106 of 366Happy first day of Coachella. A music festival that
Started going hard since 9:30 Jack U So tired |
April 14th 2016: Day 105 of 366 Happy coachella 2016b I can't believe the time has finally come that I am actually here at the coachella fair grounds! Elliott picked Eliza and I up at 6:15 this morning to embark on our journey to Indio California. There are 8 of us here, me,Eliza , Elliott, Joel, Noah, Nick, Shai,and Austin. I know the girl to guy ratio is a little absurd but all these boys are like family to me, friends I have grown up with through the years and people I just genuinely enjoy being around. Earlier Eliza called us the "Good vibe tribe", and as dorky as it is, I can't disagree! Traffic getting into camping took a while because there are over 100,000 people attending the event this weekend, but as soon as we got on the premises I felt like I entered a world of its own. There were three cars in our group and for over an hour while waiting to get through security, we were blasting music, switching cars and just starting to embrace the fact we are about to have a remarkable weekend! We are doing car camping which I believe is the best because, everyone's car and tents are here! We made moves and set up everything relatively quickly, from coolers, to ez ups to sleeping areas and even created our own little chill living room. The event doesn't even start till tomorrow, but getting here a day early to set up and already be here is vital. We all explored a little and relaxed all day. We even saw a handful of people we knew from home amongst these tens of thousands of people. Throughout the day I was saying hi to everyone, complimented strangers and even played soccer with a whole group of guys who flew in from England!
Tonight at 3:00 am Elliott was wheezing and having bad asthma. Everyone was sleeping, but I could tell it was bad. He got up to go to find his inhaler, so I went with him. He soon realized he left his inhaler at home and had to use his defibrillator machine but we had no outlets at the campsite. He felt bad and told me to stay at the camp site when he went and searched for an outlet, I insisted he was crazy and I would never let him go alone. Elliott is my best guy friend and I would never want anything but to happen to him and would help him in any way I could. Everyone who was working the camp grounds was honestly useless. A young man is having a very hard time breathing and no one could lead us to the right place or even give us a ride. Luckily we finally found the emergency tent and he got put on a high dosage of oxygen. I hope Ell doesn’t have these troubles all of Coachella, because having his asthma hinder his experience would be saddening. Even though I haven't stepped foot on the actual fair grounds, just by the people here I already I know I am in store for a weekend of my life! Endless love, Chella day 0 gal |
April 13th 2016: Day 104 of 366 Happy Hump Day!!! I love Wednesdays because I already know the school week is almost over, but this week Wednesday is actually my last school day of the week, because I am going to Coachella tomorrow!
Today in beach volleyball we had a small tournament and unfortunately my fearsome threesome team and me lost in the second round! All of us are good overall, but none of us were playing to our full capabilities! Losing always suck no matter what anyone says, (unless someone is losing weight). We were not sore losers by any means though, as we congratulated and wished he other team the best of luck. Being competitive is perfectly fine, but acting negatively when one loses is not. The fact that I will be at Coachella tomorrow is unbelievable! I remember back in June when I saved up $375 to buy my ticket presale and now that the festival is actually about to begin is crazy!!! There is so much planning and organizing that goes into attending a festival as a group, so shoutout to my guy friends for figuring it all out!Can't wait for the festivities and good vibes to begin! Love, mads |
April 12th 2016: Day 103 of 366Love school
Always events Cowiciithhy |
April 11th 2016: Day 102 of 366Happy Monday! Hello Western Time! When I woke up this morning at 7:30 am, I felt like it was 10:30 am which was nice.
Weird to be back Don’t settle |
April 10th 2016: Day 101 of 366This trip will definitely be a memory of a lifetime. Every time I get to travel to a different state and play it is an amazing experience.
BUT, my traveling experience will maybe even more be a memory of a lifetime. Imagine anything that could go wrong on a flight pretty much went wrong. Even though 7 members of my team left at 6 am, my group of 5 didn’t get a flight till 5:30 pm. Then after waiting hours after having to leave our hotel, our flight got delayed which was a problem because we had a very short layover in Denver, therefore if we got back exactly on time we would have less than 15 minutes to get from our gate to the other gate. We let our flight attendant know, in hope we would be able o exit the plane first, and said she would see what she could do. As I entered the flight my head hit the ceiling, the plane was so small. Continuously, the plane had very little leg room, for my abnormally long legs. Within 5 minutes of being on the plane we hit probably the worst turbulence I have ever had. I felt not only clostraphobic, but very nauseous as well. About 2 hours into our 3 and a half hour flight, our flight attendant told us we are going to have a 2 hour delay in the air due to weather. I honestly thought she was joking, but I was sadly mistaken. At this point I was getting very hungry and went to my overhead container to get my food in my bag, to then realize my overhead container was jammed shut. The attendant then notified us that we could not open it till the end of the flight with a tool. Just my luck right? I was starting to hope this was a dream or all a joke, but ofcourse it was not. Furthermore, the bathroom was clogged and the plane was hot. I just had to start to laugh, my teammates definitely did not think the situation was funny by any means, but at this point was there anything really anything else I could have done…NO. Stephanie our lovely 21 year old flight attendant, was not affected by anything that was happening as she is paid very little per minute, so this was only benefiting her in the end. She was very kind though, and told me and my teammates to choose any food we wanted in the catalog, and hooked us up for free. She knew the flight was delayed, and only told us, so atleast we were prepared where as everyone else was curious why we were still 20,000 feet in the air after 4 hours. At this point I continued to make jokes and started imagining what else could go wrong. I also started thinking about the hotel I would be staying at in Colorado, as we knew our flight already left. As we land in Denver after an unnecessary amount of hours, we go to get our carry on bags which they had to store under the plane. Four of us got our bags, then Jasmine was still waiting. She waited and waited to realize her bag was not there amongst every other passengers bag. When I thought nothing else could go wrong, I was wrong yet again. The “joke” continued…. Things finally started to turn around when a man came running down the hall soaking wet from outside with Jasmines bag saying “We forgot one”. Then we found out our flight from Denver to LAX was also very delayed so we just made it by 20 minutes. When I was almost at the front of the line to board my flight, Yelling family Nose bleed |
April 9th 2016: Day 100 of 366 Happy Last Day of Nationals. We made it into the Silver Bracket, after winning our pool yesterday. The rankings are very weird for the National Volleyball Association but there is Gold, Silver, Copper and Bronze Bracket. Even though I know we could have been in gold, I was happy we made it to Silver. Today is the last day, therefore today is single elimination because the last day leads to the Championship game. We won our first game at 8 am and didn’t play again till 1 pm. Then we kept winning, till we reached the Semi Finals game against USC. What are the odds we travel all the way to Kentucky to play a team in our league. We played USC about 3 months ago and won in 2 games, but this time we were not so lucky. We were all exhausted, sore, and weak after playing so much. USC played a good game and ended up winning. As soon as we lost both of our seniors Andrea and Abigail started to cry realizing this is the last official game they will ever play in their lives. They gave a little speech and just said how proud they were of how far we have come and wouldn’t want to end their volleyball career any other way.
After 24 games this weekend, adventures through Kentucky, and the players party tonight, I can not believe another season is over. I am in honest disbelief. No more practices, no more weekend travels, no more team adventures, no more volleyball commitments for the rest of the year. I may have free time, I don’t even know what that means anymore. As much as it can suck having such a big commitment, I will miss it. I will miss playing so often, I will miss the competition, I will miss the girls, I will miss the guys, I will miss my volleyball community over all. Every time we travel, I believe we get closer. Especially Nationals, because we are in a whole new state all together for the first time. I will really miss seeing my seniors all the time. Out of the 5 returners me being one of them, they were two as well.Team mates become friends for life very quickly, because they are people you literally go through constant highs and lows together of losing and winning on a constant basis. Grateful for my 2015-2016 CSULB Womens Club Volleyball team forever and can’t wait to see all the amazing things each girl achieves in her life. Love Always, The Volleyball Gal |
April 8th 2016: Day 99 of 366 Hello 2nd Day of Nationals. We started playing bright and early at 8 am against Miami University. We won the first game, lost the second game, and lost the third game as well, making us lose the game in total. We played hard, but unforced errors made us lose the match. Additionally the refs had the worst calls ever. Not one call was ever in our favor. There were touches called, that weren’t even humanly possible, and out calls that were completely bogus, but at the end of the day they have the executive call. Everyone on my team was getting super flustered and letting the bad call effect the following plays. Volleyball can relate to life in a lot of ways and today made me realize a few.
Tonight was my sorority Rose Formal, which is a huge dance that everyone in the sorority looks forward to all year. Coincidentally Rose Formal, landed on the same weekend as Nationals. Being very involved has many perks but also has down falls when it comes to having to prioritize. Even though Rose Formal would have been fun, I knew I would rather go to Nationals and already made a commitment to my team. I was apart of volleyball first and know the importance of attendance with sports, so about 90% of the time I will always choose Volleyball first. Eliza facetimed me while she was there and I was glad to see everyone even if it was over my little 5 inch screen. I was definitely sad I wasn’t there but know I made the right decision of coming to Nationals. Love and Balance, MB |
April 7th 2016: Day 98 of 366 Today was the start of the 2016 NCVF Collegiate ClubVolleyball Championships in Louisville, Kentucky. We are in the Division 1 AA Bracket and started playing at 9 am. Nine in the morning is not that early usually, but since there was a time change coming to Kentucky it was actually six in the morning for us when we started planning, therefore we technically woke up at 4 am. We started the morning by playing University of Massachusetts and won. then we played Arkansas and won. Our third game was against Georgia State and lost. The only reason we truly lost was because we lost energy. Due to this we ended tying for 1st place with other teams. This tournament is awesome because we get to play schools from all over the country. Never would I have imagined beating a school in MA or even meeting people who go to school in Arkansas, let alone were born and raised there. There are 432 division 1 teams throughout the United States at this tournament, and I look forward to hopefully meeting so many of them. We are all here with the same purpose and same passion, so finding a common interest between all of these people is already marked off the list, so starting a conversation with anyone is super easy. What school are you from? What position do you play? How did you do today? All very simple but can start a conversation with any player at this tournament.
I never thought being in another part of the country would be so different but it is. I have an accent to many people I talk to. That is bizarre to me, I am just white girl from LA, but to locals here I sound foreign. Another fact I learned is that people from California are notoriously known for speaking faster than people from any state. My favorite question I get when I say I am from Southern California is "Do you see famous people all the time?". People literally think So Cal is only full of rich famous people shown on television. I felt honored when multiple people told me where I have lived my whole life, is their dream to visit or live, just makes me appreciate home even more. I am typing this at 2 am and play in 4 hours, but am not tired due to the time change! Have to get my self to sleep somehow! Sweet Dreams, MB |
April 6th 2016: Day 97 of 366 Rise and Travel. Today I embarked on a 14 hour journey to Louisville Kentucky. The day started in Long Beach around 5am, Los Angeles International Airport around 7 am, Washington DC around 4 pm and Kentucky around 9 pm. I never thought traveling within the country should take so long, but with layovers and plane delays of course it did. Our team traveled in three groups, due to flight arrangements, so there was only 5 of us today. We experienced 3 airports in very different cities. I genuinely believe airports are the greatest place to people watch because they encounter thousands of different people every single day. I even met a few nice people at the stops as well.
When we finally reached our destination of Louisville Kentucky, everyone was tired and hungry. None of us have been to Kentucky before, but when we asked locals placed to go close to the airport and our hotel they came up with very little. We ended up just walking across to a Bowling Alley and got sandwiches and pizza. By this point all of us are still questioning "Why the hell are we in Kentucky?". Everyone we have met so far has been nice, but seems to hate this place. Luckily, we finally met a young girl who brightened all of our days Domaneik. She was a 21 year old girl who moved to Kentucky a few years ago, and told us all about the state how it is. She was making us laugh, and just had a down to earth personality. We found out facts about Kentucky that shocked us, such as there are 25 active gangs, minimum wage is $7.75 and to rent a two bedroom house would cost $500 a month. All of that is unheard of at home. No one gets paid under $10 an hour but at the same time someone would be lucky to rent out one bedroom of a house for $500 a month. We stayed at the bowling alley and talked to the girl for over an hour or so and then went back to relax and sleep. Later tonight the girl from the bowling alley tagged all of us in a photo and it was so kind. This is the reason I love people, because there is always a possibility to meet such a wonderful person like her. XOXO, California Girl |
April 5th 2016: Day 96 of 366 Rise and gym for the last time in a week! Today is a weird day because I know I won't be going to my next two days of classes so I do not have that big of obligations or motivations to really prepare for upcoming school days! Also Tuesday/Thursdays are the days I look forward to because they are so laid back!
Today on the main lawn there was a huge wall, where professional spray painters came to spray the word PEACE with our mascot in the middle! On the back side of the wall there were a dozen bottles of spray paint where any students could come and spray paint what they thought peace was, or just participate in the fun activity. I was very generic and painted hearts and peace signs, and of course painted the word: Smile. This was such a fun activity and incorporated all different students. I love when our school promotes positivity rather than antisemitist crap. Tomorrow I leave for Kentucky at 5 am, but we still had practice scheduled tonight till 10pm. I guess every minute of practice counts? I still cannot believe tonight is my last practice with these girls. After Nationals, volleyball is over. Nationals is our “Last Hoorah” in a sense. We have nothing else to practice or work for till next season. Really looking forward to Nationals even though it is yet agin in the central America, also known as the middle of no where. Forever and Always, Madison |
April 4th 2016: Day 95 of 366 Back to Reality! I can't believe I only have about 5 more weeks left of the semester and I will be gone for most of the next two weeks. This week I will only be at school today and tomorrow, because I leave Wednesday morning for Kentucky! Today I got to hand all of my teachers the papers from the school dismissing me from any school assignments, tasks and tests while I am traveling. These forms are awesome, because no teacher could ever dispute or argue me traveling for volleyball through the school.
Today was the start of Israel week on campus. Today in the center of the grass on upper campus, they had a block party promoting peace. There was a string hanging tree to tree, where people got balloons and wrote on them what peace means to them and then tied the balloons to the trees! There was also a photo booth, games and free stuff promoting Israel and peace. This is ironic because last week the Palestinians put up a wall on that same lawn bashing Israel, promoting hate and antisemitism. I always believe it is better to promote what you love, rather than to bash what you hate. Today are two very special peoples birthdays. Alison Corpuz and Tatiana Perez! I miss being with all my friends on their birthdays but I will forever be there in spirit. Allie and I used to be inseparable in middle school, and despite the fact we didn't go to the same high school or college we have always stayed very close. Once someone becomes my best friend I will always hold them very dear to my heart and create a bond that can usually not be broken. Since the 8th grade I still have kept the same people close to me and 6 years later Allie is still one of them. Tatiana and I have also known one another for years and even though we have never been in the same direct friend group, have stayed in touch and enjoy one another presence when possible! Wishing them both nothing but the very best in their 20's. Monday's truly are the longest days ever. I do not know what it is but I feel like every Monday is slow and long. Going to bed before 1am today because I just need some rest! Much Love, Madison Erin Braverman |
April 3rd 2016: Day 94 of 366 Encinitas it has been real! I am glad I got to spend my last 4 days of break here. This place has kind of become a second home to me as I have spent many weekends there this semester and I have grown close to Eliza's family as well. Encinitas is such a beautiful beach town in Northern San Diego and when I am not working during the day I hope to be able to explore more than I already have.
In the past 3 days, we worked over 20 hours at the Del Mar Fair Ground. This is a different job then anything I have ever done before but is a wonderful and fun way to make some money on the side. I really am learning some of the ins and outs of customer service, how to make quick decisions, and how to help keep a business running smoothly. Even though I only work a few weekends a month, this has been a great learning experience for me. I can't believe Spring Break finally has come to an end. This break was different then any other break prior because all of my valley friends who were away were still away, and all my valley friends who were home were in school. I was still able to see Hannah, Natalie, Sarah, Chase, Julia, Jerilee, and Elliott who are some of the closest people to me. Seeing them was just very different as I went to visit Elliott at work, went to school with JayJay and saw everyone else only for a little. I really did need this break though, having a week to finally relax and catch up on sleep was very needed. Peace out Spring Break, till next year when I am hopefully traveling. XOXO, MEB |
April 2nd 2016: Day 93 of 366 Work. Work. Work. Today was such a busy day, I sold over $5,000 of just sausages and hotdogs. We were constantly busy at Roxy's today. Saturdays are always the busiest day of any show because everyone gets off work and doesn't have church. I genuinely feel bad selling people a Sausage for $10.50 and a water for $4.00, when I know I could go to Costco and get shot dog and a drink for $1.50. Everything in life is supply and demand though. Everywhere in the fair grounds is expensive, and if someone is hungry they will buy the food regardless of the price. Today when work got very hectic, we were going so fast, we got through hundreds of families in a few hours and the only way we did it so efficiently was by communicating with the people working next to us.
One thing San Diego is known for is the Mexican Food. Tonight we went to a place called Viarta and got Carne Asada California Burritos and they were delicious. I think anyone who comes to anywhere in SD has to get some Mexican Food! Today is my last Saturday night of Spring Break,but because I have work early tomorrow and of course procrastinated, I have to write, edit and finish an essay. Some laid back nights are needed, but preferably never again on a Saturday! Don't want break to end! Love, MB |
April 1st 2016: Day 92 of 366 Today is my last day Blogging… APRIL FOOLS. When I was younger I truly used to take advantage of this day. I would see up crime scenes at house, call people and tell them a variety of lies, tell jokes and much more just to celebrate this dorky day. As I grow up people realize I am more witty and people become less gullible.
Today I worked a Hot Rod Show at the Del Mar Fair Grounds. The cars at the show were remarkable. I am definitely not a "car person" but even a dumby could tell these cars were magnificent. At every show there are such interesting people! Today I encountered some funny, kind, and unique old men .An older gentleman thought I was Jennifer Garner. He walked over clearly staring at me, and when he got very close and looked at me, he realized I was not who he thought I was. The man thought this was a tv show with celebrities serving food to the average Joe, and he was 100% sure of his belief. Another old man kept asking which lucky man here is my husband or boyfriend and said I'm too beautiful to do this, he kept putting dollar bills in my tip jar as he spoke! I felt super uncomfortable both times but flattered as well. To work in customer service someone has to be able to encounter any type of person. Eliza and I worked 8 hours today and just wanted to relax tonight. We stayed in her Jacuzzi for about two hours tonight. Even though most people went to Cabo or Costa Rica, her and I enjoyed oursleves in beautiful backyard, within the comfort of her home. Her parents joined us and we all just sat,talked and relaxed. I had a whole conversation with her mom on "What a big influence how a child is raised has on their entire life". Eliza and I both grew up kind of similar, which is a major reason I believe we are so close. We were given freedom, but our parents still set many guidelines and always had to know where we were. We both talk to at least one of our parents every day and family is a big part of our lives. Our parents have both been together for many years and have always been kind and loving to our friends. Little things like manners, obedience, morals and more all stem from the way one is raised, but I have never learned to appreciate or recognize that till recently. Long day of work ahead tomorrow! Love Always, Jennifer Garner's Fake |
March 31st 2016: Day 91 of 366 Today was my last day waking up in the valley for a while I believe. Even though, my room got taken over by Morgan and I sleep on the couch everyday, I just feel extremely comfortable at home. I have lived in this house since I was born, that is rare for someone to say they have never officially moved houses. Since I was a little girl I have always had dogs, through my childhood I had three: Molly, Cubby, and Duke. I was raised to love and be kind to animals and always thought having pets was normal for everyone. Duke has been my "baby" since I got him when I was in the 5th grade. Lately he has been looking sad, so my dad and I took him to the vet today. Apparently he is just getting old, and since he has 3 legs his other legs are getting arthritis. We are starting him on medicine and he got a shot, but I am still worried for what the near future has in store for him. Honestly sad leaving, when I left today everyone was home but my mom and my sisters two best friends were there also. John Ed Pearce once said "Home is a place you grow up wanting to leave, and grow old wanting to get back to", and I couldn't agree more.
If I could give myself advice this morning I would say NEVER drive in Southern California between the hours of 2-7 pm on a week day a big distance. I left the valley this afternoon around 1:45 and hit hours of traffic on my way to Encinitas. I was so grateful to finally get there, but felt bad of how late I was.Tonight Eliza and I saw the move : How To Be Single. The movie was cute, relatable and funny. The movie truly described love is not the enemy. It is clearly important to be happy if you're single, but that doesn't mean being in love is always a bad thing. The movie showed the pros and cons of being single, as well as being in a relationship. I was definitely sleepy,watching it so late at night but would watch it again. XOX, MB |
March 30th 2016: Day 90 of 366 Coachella season is just around the corner, therefore coachella shopping is here currently. Sarah and I went to Northridge mall this morning in hope of finding cute clothes to wear to Coachella. I have always loved fashion and having "cute" outfits for the festival is important to me, so finding clothes that I like has not been the easiest. I had some luck but not as much as I could have hoped for. Later in the day I went to the Topanga mall with Julia and had less luck then I did earlier in the day. Although I didn't have much luck, I was so glad I got to see Sarah and Julia today. Coming home is so nice because there are always people to catch up with and see.
My dad and I went to the cemetery today, because it was my Grandma Audrey's birthday. I still can't believe over a year later that she has passed away. Throughout my life, I always have said the saying Life is too short to be anything but happy, but a wise man corrected me. He said, “Life is the longest thing we have to do”. After my grandma passed away I realized he was right, Life isn’t too short to be happy or too short to not smile, life is the longest thing a person has. Looking at the big picture, one human life is extremely short compared to the world or the history and evolution and history of people but thats why I believe the only way to live ones life is to make the best of it. I think my grandma would have been so happy to know my dad and myself went to visit her grave today. Tonight we had a big family dinner because it was my last night and today is a rough day for my mom. We ordered in Maria's Italian Kitchen and had a nice family dinner. "Nice" to our family is not what the average person would think, nice to our family means no one left the table, got in a fight or did something completely savage. Nice to us means my siblings sing at the kitchen table only a few inappropriate songs or only make a few tasteless remarks. Eating together as a family has truly had a positive impact on my life and something I genuinely look forward to when I get home. Love, Mads |
March 29th 2016: Day 89 of 366 Waking up with no true obligations is a wonderful feeling. Today my bother and sister went to school, my mom went to work, and my dad was doing stocks since 7 am, so I was feeling pretty unproductive when I woke up at 9am. I ended up getting my life together and going to LA Fitness, I love that gym as I have been going there for years but it is always inevitable to see someone I know. Although, the valley is a very populated place, everyone knows everyone or is connected somehow.
For some crazy reason I have a lot of work to do over break, so what better way to kill 2 birds with one stone and see Jerilee while studying at the CSUN library with her. Personally, CSUN has always been a "bigger version of high school", the school everyone from the valley goes to, but today I got to view CSUN differently. I walked around campus and saw school while it was in action and viewed the campus differently. I have always looked at Cal State Northridge in such a bias view as I have lived 3 miles away from the campus for my whole life. The school is beautiful and diverse and some of my best friends go there which makes it even better. After studying, we went out to Sushi with Scott Semel and Hillel Carmi. We ate at this place H20 sushi next to Northridge mall. I not only have never been there, but never have even heard of this hip sushi place that opened a few months ago. I have always considered Northridge my home, as I used to know someone everywhere I went, I knew every restaurant or place to go or be, but now I am starting to accept it isn't my technical home anymore. The Valley will always be a place I can call "home" but not living there over half the year makes me miss out on so much. Tonight I went to visit Elliott at Camp Gon Alonim where he is now living and working full time. He has been living there for over half of a year, and this is the first time I have visited his new house which is pathetic, but understandable since I still see him when he is back in the valley every time I am home. He lives in a single bedroom place with a bathroom and little kichenet. He honestly has a really nice set up, but I don’t know how he does it. I have established I could never ever live alone. He lives amongst other people who live on the camp ground, but technically 100% alone. He is content with his situation and said this is the best set up for him at this point in his life. I believe him being alone allows him to focus on school, music and work more than he could have ever had the ability to if still living with his parents. He is truly like the camp ground master, because he has keys to absolutely everything and knows the camp so well even when it was very dark out. I was honestly so glad to see him and we explored the camp, going on a little hike to see the stars, seeing the animals and he even taught me archery. I told Elliott "I will not leave till I get a bullseye" and sure enough we kept going till I made it. Life at camp seems very simple and natural, and thats who life should be. There was a little quote that said "Everyone with nature receives more than seeks". Although many can perceive that message differently I comprehended it as people will always take more away from the natural world then they could have ever imagined, I know I sure did tonight. Love, Mads |
March 28th 2016: Day 88 of 366 Goodmorning from the 818! This is the first break it is truly weird to be home in the valley. All of my friends are either away at school or currently in school out here. I am used to every break being with all of my friends, constantly doing something or going somewhere, but that is not the situation this year. As we grow up everyone is becoming busier and getting more obligations, therefore us all being home at the same time is going to be more rare as time goes on.
Today I gummed, then met Chase Prew to get Starbucks and Student. Chase and I have one of the most unique relationships. Him and I can truly go months without talking and absolutely nothing would change, we always start up where we just left off. We have such a family relationship it is wonderful. One of my favorite things to do while I am home is to go Thrifting. On Ventura Blvd there is a variety of resale, vintage, and second hand discount stores. One of my all time favorite stores is Buffalo Exchange because this store os always very stalked and has many options which are usually reasonably priced. Today at Buffalo I found a few prime items and my sister did too. Across the street from Buffalo is the store : Urban Surplus. Everything that goes on sale or that is over stocked at Urban Outfitters gets sent to this store. I bought a fancy skirt that was initially $70.00 for $4.99. A bargain isn't a bargain unless you gt something you really need and I do really need more fancy clothes, so I felt very good about my purchase. Sex and City said "I like my money right where I can see it, hanging in my closet". I do believe that, dressing nice equals feeling nice a big portion of the time, so splurging on clothes is okay! xoxox, Maddy Beee |
March 27th 2016: Day 87 of 366 Happy Easter! I grew up in a Jewish Households, so days like today are always weird to me. Although everyone around me celebrates Easter, decorates eggs, goes to church in bright colored dresses and has a day of celebration with family, I never have. Easter is a day to recognize the resurrection of Jesus. Personally I do not believe in Jesus and have never technically celebrated Easter, so I do not truly understand all the hype. Growing up with a different religion than most was weird but I wouldn't want it any other way.
Even though Easter is technically not my Holiday to celebrate I still wanted to do something, especially because today was such a beautiful day.My mom and I decided to go to the Getty Center which is on the top of the hills in Santa Monica right off of the 405 free way. My mom and I took a tour about the museums architecture and learned that every aspect of the museum was inspired by the relationship between Los Angeles's nature and culture. I was very fascinated to learn all the architecture was designed with a dialogue to the surroundings of the different structures. Many of the paintings and art work in the museum was created before the lightbulb was created therefore a main aspect of the museums architecture is natural lighting. No matter where I was standing in any building windows provided natural lighting on each piece of art, so I was looking at the art in the same type of light the artist was looking at the piece many years ago. This Getty Center was so beautiful, and I can't believe I have not been there since I was a little girl even though it is about 15 minutes from my house.Today was such a nice day and I am grateful I got to spend time with her before she has to go back to work all week! I know Eliza would love this place, so think I will be back within the year. Love, MB |
March 26th 2016: Day 86 of 366 Happy First Day of OFFICIAL Spring Break! I have definitely been slacking at going to the gym lately, but today I woke up and went with Eliza, ran some errands and then helped her get ready to go back to San Diego. Both of my roommates went home, but I decided I needed to stay for a little Spring Cleaning.
Although it is my first night home, I wanted to go out and do something. Hannah natalie |
March 25th 2016: Day 85 of 366 Although I do not have school on Friday's for some reason I always end up at school on Fridays. Yesterday I went into my Academic Advisor to plan out my schedule for next year, to find out I can not take any of the classes I need because I only have 57 units when I need 60. I was lost for words when he told me this, I felt like I have been working so hard to keep up on units, but of course I am still under. Luckily, the advisor was still able to give me classes, and said I am still in great standing.
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March 24th 2016: Day 84 of 366Art day
I had to interview two artists today, due to the fact I will be missing this class a lot for volleyball in the next few weeks! Both artists I interviewed were adult students coming back to school to get a degree in art. My classmate conversation this week was with Devon Carus. He asked me the question "If I had no plans, no obligations and nothing to do what would I want to do?" Immediately I answered spend time with those people I love. I asked him the same exact question and he said Advisor Saw movie sisters |
March 22nd 2016: Day 82 of 366Hello Gym! Waking up and going to the gym is definitely difficult but definitely worth it. i barely can open my eyes when I enter and even sometimes when I leave. I honestly love my school.
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March 20th 2016: Day 80 of 366Peace out Vegas! This weekend has been very memorable but I know it is time to go back. Last night I stayed up till 5 am, Vegas is the city that never sleeps. I went to a bar with a ton of volleyball players because they don’t card there and it is a laid back fun bar. After we went back to the hotel and all put on comfy clothes and went to one room and just hung out, played games, listened to music and relaxed all night long. I love how comfortable we all are around one another, don’t get me wrong we don’t really have the best of team bonds but everyone was welcomed and just realized with 0 judgement.
Today we are driving back to Long Beach and it is Me, Gillian, Chelsea in the car. All of us have played together all year and have a good relationship but don’t truly know so much about one another. In the beginning of the car ride, Gillian started asking same random questions like : What is your dream wedding dress? and What is your favorite food? and simple questions like that. After some time all four of us started just asking questions back and forth getting to know each other on a deeper level. We all are teammates and friends but rarely do people take time to get to know the little facts, interest, and passions of others. We asked a plethora of questions but some of my favorite were… What were your biggest emotional and physical insecurities? When have you experienced racism in your life? Have you ever been in love? What 5 materialistic items would you keep if thats all you could have? Where do you see yourself in 10 years? Have you ever been grounded? To make the world a better place then when you entered it and the only way to do that is through love To express or receive love Continue on your family and legacy |
March 19th 2016: Day 79 of 366Today after a long night of being out we had playoffs in the top of the Gold Bracket. Everyone was kind of laxidayzical and just not playing to our full potential. There really was no exact reason of how we were playing, it was a mix of sleepiness, laziness, everyone being laid back and more. We ended up losing in the first round of playoffs to UC Davis.
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March 18th 2016: Day 78 of 366“Be downstairs will all your stuff ready to play at 6:45 am”, that is all we are told, therefore that is what everyone on the team did. Volleyball is truly a way of life, a language and a community one can not really understand until apart of it. Volleyball has brought so much to my life from memories to structure to long lasting friendships, bonds and memories.
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March 17th 2016: Day 77 of 366 This morning Alec and I got breakfast at some local long Beach diner I have never eaten at before. Out of everyone I have met at Long beach, Alec has continuously been such a genuine laid back best friend to me. We both do not like unnecessary drama or problems and are always down for anything. Him and I have been trying to set time aside to spend some time together and catch up when we can.
Additionally, this morning the CSULB men and women’s travel volleyball clubs left for Vegas for our first over night tournament of the year. Luckily I easily fall asleep in cars and slept for majority of the long boring ride there. I drove there with Chelsea, Gillian and Sam, which was just the right amount of people so we still had space in the car, because I remember last year was a struggle with 5-7 people in a car. When we got to Vegas we could not check in right away and there were such interesting people in Vegas. We decided to just walk the strip and look for food and even though it was the middle of the day, there were people in crazy outfits, doing ridiculous things and getting attention in very productive or uncomfortable ways. There is a saying "What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas" and I can totally understand why. People go so hard in Vegas no matter what. People honestly drink and party 24 hours in Vegas. There is another saying that "Vegas is the city that never sleeps" and I believe that is 100% accurate as well, due to the fact people were definitely still dressed up from going out last night this afternoon. Although I am not 21 years old, we still managed to find a bar that doesn’t card which we were at for a good portion of the night. People were playing games, listening to music, relaxing, eating and more. Everyone for the most part was having a great time. This years team dynamic is very different than last year as there are so many more underclassmen this year. On the mens team last year there were 15 seniors on a 17 people team, therefore the team changed immensely. With so many new people this year, I knew Vegas was the time where everyone bonds, because that is what happened to us last year. When we are at practice or school everything is strictly volleyball, but when traveling things are completely different. For the first time we are all in another state together staying in a hotel and going out. Anyone from Long Beach becomes a friend, because we are each others only familiar faces. I can't wait to start playing tomorrow, I hope we do really well and even have more fun tomorrow night. I hope my next 289 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXOXO, MEB |
March 16th 2016: Day 76 of 366 Rise and Limp! Today as I was getting ready for school I realized I had to wear a brace on my ankle all day. Having an injury definitely altars my average day at school, but I know it is better to take care of myself now for the future.
Tonight Jay Spiegel is in town and we got dinner at a cute little place called "The Attic" and walked the beach after dinner. Him and I had a lot to catch up and I realized it is always important to be brave enough to start a conversation that matters. I hope my next 290 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! love, mads |
March 15th 2016: Day 75 of 366 “Hello my name is Maddy Braverman and I will be your tour guide here at CSULB”. I love talking to people and showing others the school I am proud to attend, so the best way to practice that is when my friends come to visit. Stephanie Shaw is on Spring Break right now, so she came to Long Beach to spend a day with me even though I had school. She was a CSULB honorary student for the day. She accompanied me to my two classes and adventured with me through campus. We went to the Soroptimist house for a Housewarming party, to the Kinesiology building where I play Volleyball, to the people speaking about being a born again Christian and to the Japanese Gardens. Our school is cool because there is literally always something to do or somewhere to go! Just a few months ago she showed me around University of Arizona, showing me the town, taking me out and giving me a little taste of what being a student at U of A is like, so I tried to do the same. Every university is different but similar in so many ways. I have already visited University of Arizona, Berkeley and University of Oregon and each school is great in its own individual ways. I would say that Long Beach differs from most other schools as we are in the center of a main city, therefore we have a lot of opportunities not only being in a college town. Also we are 2 miles from the beach and just a few hour drive to the snow getting the best of both worlds. I was so happy to show Steph around. Her and I talk literally everyday but seeing something for oneself is always different then just hearing about it.
Tonight I had my last practice before we leave for Vegas Thursday morning. Sadly half way through practice I landed badly on my ankle and had to stop playing. I have sprained my left ankle three times, so it will forever be weak. Every year I go into a new season I know playing and constantly jumping on my ankle is a risk I am taking but my love for the sport truly overrides the worry for my ankle. I hope my next 291 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! With endless love, LB guide |
March 14th 2016: Day 74 of 366 RISE AND RAIN. I usually wake up every morning to the sun rising but this morning I woke up to black clouds and rain. I am not the biggest fan of rain but we definitely need it, as California is in a constant drought.
This week is Big-Little Appreciation week. Last semester I rushed a sorority not knowing what to expect and just judging everything off of peoples posts, friends and movies. Hands down one individual impacted my sorority experience thus far the most, my big Alyx Thomas. I think back to the first day of recruitment when I met Alyx and admired how her name was spelled, little did I know she would have such an immense impact in my life. The whole idea of having 140 new sisters definitely freaks me out, but Alyx is one I can definitely call my big sister. We are so similar in endless ways, she shows me an immeasurable amount of love and has showed me the ropes of sorority life and been there for me always. This week I just want to make sure she feels loved and appreciated, as I am extremely grateful for everything she has done for me this past year. Today we took official photos for Delta Zeta. I felt like I was back in high school taking my Senior portraits, but having nice professional photos for the sorority will be wonderful. Tonight was Alum Desserts. Alum Desserts, is exactly what it sounds like, a feast of desserts with Delta Zeta Alum. One benefit about a sorority which many people seem to overlook, is Networking. I am in a organization with 140 other girls who have different connections and am linked to ever past female who has been through the chapter in one way or another. Tonight was the Bachelor finale. Tonight he gave out his final rose to the woman he plans to spend the rest of his life. With. When I imagine having “your person” the one you know you want to spend the rest of your life with, go to bed next to, wake up with and stay with through good and bad time, my heart gets so happy! I truly look so forward to getting married having “my person” forever. I know love in todays society is going downhill, as divorce rates continue to rise and hook up ways of life continue to increase, but I do still have hope in a monogamous faithful marriage. This season of the Bachelor was great, no matter how fake people may think the show may be, I am excited for next season with Jo Jo. I hope my next 292 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, The One without the Final Rose |
March 13th 2016: Day 73 of 366Spring Forward. This morning as I was driving home from Long Beach to Porter Ranch I saw my clock change from 2am to 3 am. What that means is I lose an additional hour of sleep, but I wil get that hour when we fall back in a couple of months.
Home is where your wifi connects automatically. I spent the day at the Greens for an Easter celebration. I have been coming to this house since I was 10 or 11 years old and it has never stopped feeling like home. No matter where I am if I am with people like Jenna and JJ who have been there for me through thick and thin and people I have grown up with I will feel as if I am at home. That is what I love so much about the valley is it is filled not only with places that I have been going to since I was a little girl that feel like a second home, but also filled with friends and family that can probably make anywhere in the world feel like home to me. Although we are all grown young adults her mom still hid over 100 Easter eggs for us to find. I know scavenger hunts are for children, but I have to say we still had a blast. There was about 6 of us age 19-23 running all over the back round searching for eggs. We all got so into the egg hunt as if we were all searching for the Golden Ticket. No matter how old I may get, I believe at times it is wonderful to always be a child at heart. Sunday nights are never too enjoyable because Sunday nights always mean HOMEWORK time. Sunday nights are the time, I realize school is actually approaching and I have to finish work I have procrastinated on throughout the week. Although, catching up on school is always a bummer, I am grateful I got to spend my day at a place with people I can call home. I hope my next 293 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, The Jew who won the Easter egg Hunt |
March 12nd 2016: Day 72 of 366 Breakfast helps start day off on right track. This morning my little Gainz Squad had breakfast together! Breakfast is not only the most important meal of the day but also improves concentration, helps keep a nutritionally complete diet and provides someone with more energy for the day.
Today was the first time in years I have had night games. Our team made it to the So Cal Championships so we played all night and lost in the Semi Finals. We were so close to winning the whole tournament and getting to rep Mizuno with brand new Volleyball shoes but we just went home with a t-shirt. Although 2nd place is “good”, we were still first losers and that sucks the most. I believe the loss would not be as bad if I knew we had no chance against these teams, but I am confident we could of won and just got in our own heads. I was very fortunate my parents and brother drove out to see me tonight. Although, I am getting older having my family there supporting me is so important and inspires me to always do better. Family always comes first, so for them to take time out of their day to drive out and watch me play meant so much to me. After we played in the semi finals it was around 10:30pm and we were starving. We went to a place called Cha 0. We walk in around midnight and the place was super crowded. The place was a very hip Asian restaurant, that was definitely the hit spot in town. During dinner we decided to do a “phone circle” , where we all put our phone in a pile in the center of the table, and couldn't go on them for the entire dinner, because people too often waste meal time on phones. I loved the concept and hope to do that more often! I hope my next 294 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, MB |
March 11th 2016: Day 71 of 366 RISE AND SHINE! Even though it is Friday and I don’t have school, I still woke up at 6:30 am for the gym. We have a little morning schedule where Spencer wakes Manny up, Manny wakes Eliza up then Eliza wakes me up. We all get ready and one of us picks up all of the others. Going to the gym with other people each day who motivate me and push me to work harder is very beneficial. Spencer and Manny are so laid back, down to earth and funny I look forward to working out with them!
This year noone really has the same Spring Breaks, so even though that sucks it is nice because Long Beach is close enough to home where my friends can come visit me during their breaks. Today Noah and Zach came on their way to San Diego. They only could stay for a few hours so we went to a restaurant called Stacked for lunch, where people literally stack their own burger however they want it. Every table is given an iPad and each person stacks the burger just the way they like it from buns to meat to every topping. The boys enjoyed it and I was very glad to see them. Every time I see someone from home there is always so much to catch up on and so much history between us, there is always something, someone or some time to talk about. Our mens Basketball team did very well this year. Tonight was the Semi-Final game at the Honda Center and I went on a fan bus there. I love how our school makes spirit a priority even though we don't have a football team or are in the PAC-12. As I was in the stands I saw a girl I played Volleyball with last year dressed all official court side. I got her attention and we talked a little, and I found out she was in charge of the games half time challenges. Due to the fact my friend Chelsea was in charge, I was the lucky person chosen out of thousands of people to do the challenge. I have participated in half time challenges at school before, but this was different as it was on TV and at a venue as large as the Honda Center. I thought I would have to shoot a basket or answer some questions, but I was dismayed when I found I had to golf. I have never truly golfed before, but to my amazement I putted the ball through the little six inch whole. I was so excited and filled with joy. I thought I won an iPad, Bike, Trip or something unbelievable, I was lost for words with happiness. That changed quickly when they handed me an envelope with my prize and inside stated "You won a foursome to golf". Regardless of my interesting prize, this was an experience of a life time and I proved to myself that I can not doubt my own capabilities. So many people afterwards came up to me because they recognized me from the mega-tron, I felt honored. I hope my next 295 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Hidden pro Golfer |
March 10th 2016: Day 70 of 366 I am a person who rarely gets anxiety or nervous, but test days are always the exception, I just feel you can never be too confident walking into an exam. I studied for this Social Psychology test in the last two days approximately 18 hours. I studied all last night and all day today. Even though we are over half way done with the semester, this was my first test for this class. I wish teachers were more straight forward with how their tests would be, but that would be too easy I guess. My test consisted of 2 essays, 5 fill in the blank paragraph style questions and 20 multiple choice questions. I honestly have no idea hoe I did, considering 80% of the test depends on how the teacher grades my writing.
After a test whether good or bad I am just truly excited the test is over.To celebrate the weekend and having my hardest test being over, Eliza and I went to Dog Haus, a restaurant with gourmet hot dogs. I had a So Cal hotdog which consisted of a a regular hot dog with wild arugula, spicy basil aioli, crispy onions, avocado, tomato and kraut. Never before have I had a hot dog with so much on it, but I thought it was a good opportunity to try something new. The restaurant was located in a cool area of Long Beach I have never even explored before. I live in a city that I know so little about. There were so many tend cute restaurants and places down here that I have not seen before. I found an awesome tall mural and started jumping due to my joy of being over with my test and it got captured in a photo. Although, I ate a lot for dinner, I still had to go to volleyball practice. Practice today was different than ever before, due to the fact Heather brought her new puppy Knox. My stomach was hurting during practice and I was really thinking about how I may have done really bad on my test, but every time I looked t the puppy I got extremely happy. I know people can not buy happiness, but Heather bought this puppy and I think dogs=happiness.I hope my next 296 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, MEB |
March 9th 2016: Day 69 of 366 Sleep is important. Sleep is necessary. Sleep rejuvenates the body. Sleep gives a body time to rest. Sleep improves memory. Sleep makes one live longer. Sleep makes people feel better. Sleep helps limit inflammation in the body. Sleep spurs creativity in ones mind. Sleep improves grades. Sleep enhances physical ability. Sleep sharpens intelligence. Sleep helps maintain a healthy weight. Sleep lowers stress. Sleep helps prevent car accidents. Sleep helps in every aspect of life. There are so many benefits of sleep which I need to tell myself on a regular basis.I am always very busy which causes me to get little sleep. I usually function off of 2-4 hours a night. No one understands how I wake up happy with energy, but I guess it is just a bad skill I have learned over time. This past week I have been very tired and exhausted once it hits 1 or 2 am where I just pass out and that is not healthy. Last night, I actually went to bed around midnight and didn’t go to the gym this morning and woke up around 8:00 am. That is 8 hours of sleep, what people should get every night and what I usually get in 3-4 days.
I have the biggest Social Psychology Exam tomorrow. I decided to go to the Horn Center computer lab to study for the night. The set up in the horn center is cool because there are provided desktop computers and lots of desk scape in personal little numbered cubbies. I stayed here today for bout 10 hours going over every different term and concept since the semester started. I love that I do not have constant test for this class but it is also worrisome because there are so few grades in the grade book. Hopefully hard work will pay off tomorrow, I just can't wait till this test is over. I hope my next 297 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, MB |
March 8th 2016: Day 68 of 366Happy Tuesday! I genuinely look forward to my Tuesday/Thursdays rather than my Monday/Wednesdays! I feel like that happens every semester, where I always like certain days of classes over other days of classes. Tuesday/Thursdays more and more make me realize I enjoy going to school. Don’t get me wrong constantly having homework and having tons study till 2 am is not desirable, but in hindsight college is great. Similar to life and everything in life, college is what you make it. You can just show up to show up or you can show up and have fun and make the best of it. The point is to LIVE not just EXIST. I feel bad when I see so many people walking around with their heads down and shoulders shrugged, looking like college is the most god awful thing that has ever happened to them. A reason I love hanging out with Danielle is she makes the best of school as I do. Her and I were walking today and saw a girl with her parents walking around looking lost, so of course what did Danielle and I do, when we saw these lost strangers? Went to have a conversation. We found out this girl went to a University in Florida and really doesn’t like it. She asked Danielle and I, a variety of questions, but one stumped us. “What do you not like about your school?” Every question up until we answered effortlessly, but this question actually made us stop and ponder. There really isn’t much we don’t like about school. We came up with there is no football team, and many people commute. However, we are still a division 1 school and have a ton of school spirit for basketball and volleyball, and even though many commute I still have made friends from all over the US and even some from other countries.
This semester I am taking my first upper division class: Social Psychology 351, with Andrew Lohmann. This class never seizes to amaze me with how many psychological facts and concepts relate and explain my social life. Social Psychology is technically defined as the scientific study of how people think about influence, and relate to one another, and a field that seeks to understand the nature and causes of individual behavior. Recently, we have been learning about love, significant others, relationships and marriage, a subject matter very dear to my heart. Today my teacher taught us, The secret to knowing we found the most compatible person of your lives. He said “You need someone who can put up with your shit and someone that you can put up with their shit. It will still be shit but you are willing to put up with it. The secret is someone where there is a MUTAUL shit taking. He also continued to say after a fight… do not say I love you or sorry, but say “ Thank you for putting up with my shit”. He explained how relationships are a lot of work but as long as one is sincere and has mutual effort it will be worth it”. There was a recent psychological study that said COMPANIONSHIP makes someone the happiest. The main factor of happiness is companionship. I definitely agree! I also believe noone is perfect, everyone has flaws and bad qualities, but growing to love someone and find someone super compatible you learn to put up with the little things. I think about all my best friends, the people who I am most compatible with and all of us have a mutual shit taking, they put up with me at my worst and I will always put up with them. There is a mutual love and understand through good and bad and that is important. Today is National Women’s Day! So just wanted to take a moment to shout out all the wonderful women in the world! I hope my next 298 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, A Mutual Shit Taker |
March 7th 2016: Day 67 of 366March 7th 2016: Day 66 of 366
Rain Rain go away come again some other day… Actually stay since California is in such a bad drought. Last night during my aunt and I’s weekly talk, she reminded me that today marks 9 years since my Grandma Nate passed away. 9 years ago I was a 5th grader. 9 Years ago I didn’t understand what would happen after someone died. 9 years ago I thought when my uncle called super early, he just wanted to talk to my dad. 9 years later, I wish I have not experienced as many deaths as I have. 9 years later I am left with 1 out of 4 grandparents. 9 years later I look at old photographs and try to piece together memories and experiences. Long Monday today! Can't wait for more laid back days!I hope my next 299 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Endless love, Nathan Bravermans granddaughter |
March 6th 2016: Day 66 of 366 Today we played everyone in our region. We played LMU, Fullerton, UCI and ASU. Everyone in Southern California had Region Championships today and the winner of each gets qualified for a tournament next weekend. Everyone worked really well together, communicated, tried the hardest and the effort and dedication paid off. Your LBSU women's club vb team is regional CHAMPS! Can't believe we only have one month left until the end of season. In the last 5 years our school has never made it to the Southern California tournament being held next weekend, let alone beat every team in the Region.
Growing up even till today, I have been fortunate enough to have my parents at almost every single one of my games. I know they sometimes just mingle, stay on their phones or question "How much longer it will be?", but I am so grateful to have them there. Today neither of them were able to come and I didn't think I would be as bummed as I was. I realized I took them coming to every game for granted, so when they were finally not at a game I missed having them there. On the other hand, I was ecstatic that Alyx and her boyfriend came to support me. She said she would come to one of my games, but for some reason I really doubted that she would ever come because I know sports aren't really her thing. I felt honored, that although she isn't a fan of going to sporting events, she came to support me and watch me play. Also, that her boyfriend came out was so kind and I appreciate that. After a long day of playing Jasmine and I went to a place I have never been before called Samurai Burrito. This place was a whole in the wall place in Cerritos, in a huge parking lot with the most random stores around, I had no idea what to expect. We got a sushi burrito and poke nachos and it was amazing. I definitely recommend the place and see myself going back in the near future. I would never think to have fish nachos, but they were delicious! Super tired tonight but when faced with the question; Homework or sleep? I always choose getting my school work done!Crazy to think we only have three tournaments left for the year. I hope my next 300 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, #16 |
March 5th 2016: Day 65 of 366 Wake up for Sunrise. We are in such a beautiful house in San Diego with a remarkable view, a group of us decided to wake up and watch the sunrise. Sadly, the clouds were still a little out so the sunrise wasn’t as nice as we hoped.
Eliza and I worked all day and today instead of working outside with the Sausages, I worked in the main trailer which sells everything from fries to sandwiches to falafel plates to fried artichoke hearts. Inside the trailer there is way more to know than there is working outside with the sausages. I am starting to feel very honored that he trusts me so much to run the trailer by myself with the help of cooks. I am finally getting a hang of the business in a sense, I have learned how to make and do so many different things in just the few handful of times I have worked. I had some very rude customers, but no matter what they are the customer, so I have to be kind. Some people have no manners, and are never satisfied and that is something I am learning to accept working in such a customer service job. I always want to represent the company in a positive way and I do genuinely try to satisfy the customers to the best of my extent, even if it is not always super doable. The rude and endless customers made work feel very long today, I was honestly pretty tired by the end of the day. As we walked from one side of the fair grounds to the other, the sun was setting and I think it was one of the most beautiful sunsets I have ever seen. The sky looked like cotton candy and looked so beautiful. Eliza's family insisted I stay for dinner tonight before I left back to Long Beach. Eliza is my best friend at school, so having her family be so kind and loving towards me is very meaningful. I am so happy to be welcomed to the family. I have a game early tomorrow, I hope my team really plays to our full potential. I hope my next 301 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Madddddy |
March 4th 2016: Day 64 of 366 Last night I drove to San Diego alone for the first time , so I could work today. Eliza has Friday classes, but her dad needed help as there was a huge Robotic and Home Show this weekend. I got in last night around 11:30 because I had to drive after I got out of volleyball and her mom waited up for me and we stayed up and talked for a little. I slept in Eliza's room alone, which was weird but nice because I still felt so comfortable. I am trying to take any opportunity to work, so I can make money, especially if I want to travel. Every dollar really adds up. I am not a materialistic complex person but I still spend a decent amount of money, so making extra money is always very helpful. I am fortunate that my parents have the ability to support me, but I really do what I can to make money of my own. Work was very busy today and I don’t think they would of been able to have all the trucks open if I wasn’t there to help.
Right after work, Eliza and I met the majority of our sorority in a mansion in San Diego. A retreat is a time where all the girls in a sorority get away and go have fun and play bonding games. Last semester we had a day trip to a large Ranch house in Northridge, but this semester we are doing an overnight in San Diego which is amazing! After Dinner all the girls got in a circle in the houses living room to do a “Rose Activity”. I had no idea what to expect at first, but some girls said it may get emotional. The girl in charge held a dozen roses and explained the beauty of a roses colors and smell, as well as the negative side of a rose such as the thorns and leaves. She described how roses are made up of so many qualities just like us and then she handed a rose to one girl and told her to rip of a Petal and say one thing they are not proud of. Then she passed out a jar of glittered rocks and had everyone hand it to the person next to them and compliment that person and explain why you are proud of them, one by one. Then the vase the roses were in got passed around and one by one each girl talked about why they are proud of themselves. After everyone said all 3, the roses were put back in the vase over the glittery rocks, showing that we are made up of everything we are not proud of and proud of and that makes us the Beautiful person we are today. The petals we had from saying what we were not proud of she told us to get rid of them, because we should not hold on to the negatives of the best. Even though this activity definitely took a long time, it was very impactful and made everyone smile, laugh and even cry. I honestly feel closer to a bunch of these girls now, just because I know them on a deeper level and can relate or feel for a lot of the information that was shared! Personally I said : I am not proud of…. How I have not consistently been there for my dad while he is sick I am proud of you…Cassie Boyer for what a beautiful individual you are and the morals and ways of life you stick to. She is a long term long distance relationship and I am so proud of how she goes out and has fun but still has a strong genuine trusting relationship miles away. I am overall just proud to call her a friend I am proud of myself…because I have managed to stick to a very optimistic happy mind set. I look at the glass as half full and find the good in everyday which is something I am very proud of because I didn’t always used to be this way. Also, I have gone through many struggles and hard times but found the positive in everything. These are opportunities and experiences I would get no other way. I had such a good day at retreat from these activities, to stuffing our faces with pizza to late night talks and explorations! I hope my next 302 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Maddy |
March 3rd 2016: Day 63 of 366 “You will never get caught if you act like you know what you are doing”. My dad always told me that growing up when I would ask him how he did things he did without ever getting questioned. As I get older and go through life I finally understand. On Tuesdays and Thursdays I have a 3 hour gap and Danielle and I do pretty much anything we want on campus, even when people think we will not be capable. Today during our break we found an empty lecture hall and got into the computer and sound system and started blasting music and dancing on the stage in the lecture hall. Students for the next class started walking in and Danielle just kept going!
This week there were many galleries to view, but as I walked into the first one which had big ceramic and cement amazing pieces on the wall, I knew which artist I wanted to write about. Luckily, the artist was sitting outside at the table alone, so I had the opportunity and honor to introduce myself and ask her a bunch of questions one on one. We also recorded a music video this week for our Art Experience of the week and did the Spongebob Theme Song all Around campus! Lastly, for my classmate conversation I interviewed my volleyball friend Jayson Fields. He is a timid giant. He is 6’7, but is as shy as a mouse. I was trying to break into his wall he has up, so I just asked him a bunch of questions to learn about him. The last question I asked him was... What words of wisdom would you pass onto your childhood self? He said he would tell himself to be more outgoing, and when things get hard, just battle through it. Additionally, he would tell his younger self to “push more in sports because you are capable of being a lot better than what h am today. Just put in that extra work and you’ll make it.” I liked what he said because I think those are all great things to tell someone growing up. There is a HDSA (Human Development Student Association) Club at school which I have recently tried to become involved in. Today there was an Internship panel. Internships are vital to get a career in the future. Internships are so beneficial because they help you get a foot in the door and understand each career from a different view. There was two women from an organization called “Rays of Funshine” a Social Development Center that has individualized programs from children ages 4-18. The children who come to this center are usually autistic, but some have other difficulties such as OCD and Behavior problems. Working with children with disabilities has always been something very dear to my heart and I think I may apply to intern for them next semester. I hope my next 303 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Madison |
March 2nd 2016: Day 62 of 366Although I am definitely getting sick of waking up at 6 am, I do really like working out in the morning. Waking up is never easy but there are so many perks about working out early.
My top 5 Reasons for Gymming in the Morning
Today I planned to break my vegetarian diet, so I went out to get Poke with my roommates. I have not had poke in a very long time. Poke is a type of Hawaiian cuisine, where raw fish is put over rice with different seasoning and toppings. Dinner was so delicious, and I am happy I have the ability to eat meat and fish again if I want to.I hope my next 304 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Endless Love, MB |
March 1st 2016: Day 61 of 366 On many college campuses there are Free Speech Platforms or designated areas, for anyone to come and speak about what their heart desires. According to the First Amendment, Americans have a freedom of speech. These “First Amendment Zones” set aside areas in public places, to restrict individuals to freely speak only in these zones. At CSULB we have one of these areas on an area of grass on upper campus. Today we had a Born Again Christian come and wish hell on anyone who doesn’t believe in the same ways of life and ideals he does. He was saying anyone who does anything physical before marriage is going to HELL. Hypothetically speaking if that was true, I would say 95% of my campus is going to hell. He was screaming back and forth at students, trying to push others to believe what he does. There was one student who posted up right next to this crazy man promoting peace and I loved that. George Carlin once said “ Religion is like a pair of shoes… find one that fits for you, but don’t make me wear your shoes”. I could not agree more. I respect everyone has different beliefs but I also believe no one should try forcing their ways upon someone else.
Today marks a full month of being Vegetarian. Due to the fact I do not truly believe in New Years Resolutions, I made Month resolutions/month trials/month goals. Last year in the dorms I did meatless Mondays and Carbless Wednesdays for a little bit and I thought even doing that was a challenge and could not understand how vegetarians do it. I have multiple people in my life who are vegetarian and vegan, so I thought why not give it a try. I honestly never thought I could become Vegetarian for even a week. I thought people need meat for protein and meat is in so many meals, that I believed it would be too difficult to cut out. I was wrong!! It was very doable and achievable! Danielle and Eliza also went Vegetarian with me for a month and I think that really helped the whole process. There are endless health benefits to reducing meat intake such as less heart problems. This month I found that vegetarian meals seem to be a lot cheaper. Also, I helped animal cruelty and the environment by cutting out meet. Mainly I never feel sluggish, because meat takes the longest to digest, therefore I resorted to eating more fruits and veggies which also made me feel healthier. There are endless studies that prove eating healthy and being healthy benefits one life in a variety of ways. This month showed me I can truly do anything, as long as I believe in myself. If someone would of asked me a few months ago if I could go vegetarian for a month, I probably would have laughed. Will I stay vegetarian forever? Definitely not, I will probably go get meat within the next 24 hours, but this was a great experience. I think eating right is so important. You don’t have to eat less, you just have to eat right and being a vegetarian for a month really helped me do that.I hope my next 305 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, Veggie Gal |
February 29th 2016:Day 60 of 366Happy Leap Year. Happy February 29th for the first time in four years.
First class was canceled, so I guess that was a great way to start the leap day. Due to the fact I didn’t have to go to my first class, I literally came to school to play beach volleyball this morning. This class is full of 36 people who are on such a spectrum of ability. Playing volleyball very competitively, coming and playing for pure fun is actually really nice, considering I am usually playing to train and win. On the contrary, playing with people who do not care, do not understand the importance of getting the ball up and do not know the fundamentals of volleyball can be irritating. I try to look at this time to relax and kind of as “a joke”, because stuff I do in this class would never be allowed in the “real volleyball world”. I taught this girl Joy how to serve today, last week she said “ She would never be able to get the ball over the net”, and today when she served over the net, the look of bliss on her face was priceless. Every Monday night we have our Chapter meeting and although I didn’t want to go due to a long stressful day, I have to as I am on the Cabinet as the sorority’s Sunshine Chair. Today I recognized everyones birthdays and welcomed a girl back from taking time off. Additionally, I got recognized as “Officer of the Week”. I was really honored, and felt so special that people were noticing the hard work and time I put into the sorority. I know Sunshine chair isn’t really a big officer position, but everyone needs someone to brighten their everyday, so that is my role!I hope my next 306 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Rise and Shine, Sunshine |
February 28th 2016: Day 59 of 366 The best food to eat in the morning is an Acai Bowl. One of my favorite foods in the world is an acai/banzai bowl. In San Diego there are multiple places who sell these types of Bowls, as it is known to be a “Beachy” food. We went and met her friend Audrey who is such an awesome down to earth girl who is and EMT in San Diego. I have met her once before when she came to spend Halloween with us in San Diego! I never know how it will be meeting one of my best friends other best friends but she is such a genuine girl and hope she ends up coming to Coachella with us!
We worked all day today at a Dog Show, where people bring their purebred dogs to compete in competitions and beauty contests. There was such a variety of dogs, from ones that looked like small horses to ones that looked like I could make a sweater with how much fur they had to ones that just were so small they were in a stroller. Dogs are really a mans best friend. They are always there and have a way of brightening almost anyones day. I think work was so much more enjoyable, seeing all the cute dogs around. One man thought he was funny, coming up to me and asking “ Do any of your sausages have dog meat in them?” Immediately I thought how awful and disgusting that would be, but in reality eating dog is normal in some cultures. That man was obviously joking but if I acted with such disgust to someone whose culture actually eats things like that could have been very offensive. Each culture and person is so different and as people I think we tend to judge depending on what our culture does rather than actually taking time to think of situations from others perspective and point of view. Regardless of cultural norms, I could and would never eat a dog, in my opinion that is inhumane. Being at the dog show today did really make me miss my dogs at home Cubby and Duke. As Eliza and I drove home today from 2 long days of work, I more and more realize how compatible her and I are and how beautiful our friendship is. Her and I spend everyday together morning to night. We go to the gym together, eat together, are in a sorority together, work together, go out together, etc. We do all these things day in and day out and don’t get sick of one another. I really have never spent this much time with someone other than family, so it is nice to have a Best Friend like that. San Diego has been beautiful this weekend and I am forever grateful to have an opportunity to work in such a nice city!I hope my next 307 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Maddy. |
February 27th 2016: Day 58 of 366 Today Eliza and I woke up early and packed our bags to leave to San Diego. Her dad owns the food company Roxy’s at the Del Mar Fair Ground and her and I try to drive down as much as we can to help him out and work. I do not know if her and I have bad luck when we drive together, but for some reason we always hit traffic. Just in the car I have spent over 50 hours with Eliza. I really thought today how much we are together, but still always want to be together. We enjoy one another presence no matter the situation and don’t get sick of the other person. Usually when 2 people are constantly together, they get sick and tired of one another but that has never happened with us and I don’t really think it will! I have really grown to love going home with her on the weekends to work. Crazy to think we barely met a year and a half ago and now she is my whole life pretty much!
Today was a pretty good day at work.Customer Service is so important to maintaining a good business. I worked the Sausage booth today at the pet show and when it comes to food people are bound to have different preferences. I always try to make sure the customer is happy, and do whatever we can to tend to the customers wants and preferences. I believe it is vital to provide exceptional customer service to everyone, no matter what. Every customer matters and every customer deserves to be treated well no matter what.I hope my next 308 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Roxy worker |
February 26th 2016: Day 57 of 366 Happy Friday!!! I was pretty bummed that I had to miss my annual Gym and Breakfast Club this Friday, but I knew going to my teachers office hours was more important. Every professor is required to have office hours ; hours any student can go in and ask questions or get help. The issue is most student don’t take advantage of these hours. I got a C on my Statistics test, so to help me in the future I thought I should go over the exam, even if it meant being at school by 8am. I spent some time at the library, ate lunch with Eliza and then went home to rest a little before a busy night.
My mom called me to tell me one of my close childhood friends Caitlyn Wainfeld was touring my school today, as she may transfer here after Community College. Her mom told my mom, she didn’t want to call because she didn’t want to inconvenience me or didn’t think I would have time! As soon as I found this out I called her immediately and told her to come over. I haven’t seen her since my Grandpa’s funeral, but her and her family will always be friends to my family and I. Caitlyn and her dad came over and they told me how much they liked my campus after touring it. Overtime, I have built such a sense of pride and love for my school. Therefore, hearing someone else talk about a place I have created a life at in such a positive way brought joy to my day. I hope attends whatever school seems like the best fit for her, and if it happens to be LB, it will be wonderful o have another familiar face and sense of home in Long Beach. Tonight is Friday night, meaning tonight is bomb Shabbat dinner. Tonight the fraternity ZBT (which my little is in), partnered with Hillel to host the Shabbat, therefore a bunch of people in the Greek community attended the event. There were so many familiar faces and so many new faces tonight! I think there was over 120 people who attended Shabbat tonight, which is definitely above the usual amount of people. Rachel is very pregnant, so tonight was probably the last night of having her cooking for a long time. Undoubtedly she is the best cook and Shabbat dinner was yet again delicious. Shabbat is awesome for many reasons, but one of them is that I get a great fulfilling meal right before any party or event on Friday night! DZ and PI Kapp had an exchange tonight and it was a letter party. A letter party means everyone has to dress up as something that starts with the chosen letter. For this party there were two choices; either “D” or “Z”. I wonder why?… Eliza and I honestly pondered for hours thinking of different things we could dress up as. There are so many factors going into thinking of a good themed party outfit. “Not too risqué” “Not too basic” “Cute but super creative”. Although we had a piece of paper with over 20 options we finally came to the conclusion, we would be DORITOS. We thought noone else would have thought about that and it is a costume we could make. Hours prior we went to the store bought huge red shirts, then printed out the logo, calories, and name and hot glued them to the shirt. Additionally, we went to the store to buy bags of Doritos to pass them out at the party! Have to give every costume 100%! I believe there is no other way. Tonight was one for the books, I had so much fun! Everyone got so into the theme and just had fun. Most people think going out is all about drinking and “hooking up”, but honestly its so much more. That is such a broad stereotype put on college parties. I met so many new people and had a great time with people I already knew. All the guys in pi kapp are so friendly and only having DZ’s there made the setting more comforting and laid back! Can’t wait for more exchanges to come!I hope my next 309 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, Dorito Gal |
February 25th 2016: Day 56 of 366Last night or more so this morning, I did not go to bed till around 4:50 a.m. I was writing an essay and doing homework, but I was also having a conversation with someone very close to my heart. I believe communication is the most vital aspect for any type of relationship. There was a lot on both of our minds and I realized there should never be hesitation to start a conversation that means a lot to you, Deep conversations with someone who understands you means everything. I will probably regret staying up so late, when I am dead later this week, but a lot was said and shared which was necessary and nice to hear.
For my art class this week’s activity was a PhotoWalk around campus. As soon as I heard about the event, I knew I wanted to be a guide. I wanted to be a guide because I love people and don’t mind leading a group, as well as I hope to actually be a school tour guide one day. I lead the walk so I had a very different experience then my classmates. Instead of focusing on taking pictures and enjoying my surroundings, I was more focused on making sure everyone else was enjoying their walk as well as completing their tasks. I had a lot of fun showing students some of my favorite parts of campus. My theme was “What CSULB is Truly Known For”. Our university has many amazing attributes but when referring to the campus there are a few particular locations and attractions that really make the school unique. I went to my favorite CSULB sign made out of plants, the notorious fountains, the pyramid, and the Japanese Gardens. I really hope I did well. I tried to interact with each person and make sure everyone was doing okay through out my whole tour. I got home from school and decided to take a nap before practice which starts at 7. I slept through my alarms and didn’t wake up till 7:02. I rolled out of bed, grabbed my bag and went to practice. I walked in late, and there was a big team meeting: discussing issues everyone needs to work on. From that point everyone was in a downer mood and practice didn’t go to well. Some girls weren’t there and people weren’t bringing good energy. I hate those type of practices because 3 hours seems like 3 days. Everything goes so slow and drills that usually flow and come as second nature just seem monotonous and boring. When I got home from practice I just wanted to relax and spend the night in, but Eliza ended up convincing me to go out. There was a yoga/workout themed party tonight, so the fact I was already dressed adequately definitely enticed me as well. The party wasn’t too great, but I do know I will never remember the nights I stay in and relax as much as the ones I go out and practice yoga in the the middle of a frat house!I hope my next 310 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, VB Yogi MB |
February 24th 2016: Day 55 of 366 Today I was at school for 13 hours. I woke up and went to the gym at 6:30 am. Then I had 4 classes and then I had a little dorm meeting I have ever other Wednesday. After such a long day at school I was exhausted and the last thing I wanted to do was go home and cook dinner. I could have gone out to dinner but I didn’t really want to go spend money on food either, so I was stuck in a predicament. Then I came up with the idea of texting my friend Jennifer from high School who lives in the dorms. She said Eliza and I could join her for dinner and she swiped us i the Dining Hall. I felt like I was in heaven as there was an immense amount of foods already made and ready for me. Last year, I was able to go to the dining hall everyday, every meal. I never had to cook or prepare my own food. I used to become tired of the food and couldn’t wait till I had my own kitchen. Now of course I finally really appreciate the Dining Hall, but eating there all the time was not good as there is endless buffet options. Having connections means so much, even if it just means having someone to eat with. I haven’t seen Jennifer in months, but it was so nice seeing her because we have so much we can talk about as we both know all the same people from home. We discussed how its been 2 years since we graduated, but how much has changed. Relationships we thought would last forever didn’t, people we thought would stay at ivy league colleges haven’t and people who were best friends aren’t. Although today was super long, it wasn’t too bad!I hope my next 311 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories!
Love Always, Madison Beee |
February 23rd 2016: Day 54 of 366 Today in art class we had to research two interesting photographers who focused on sub-groups of people who did not fit the societal world. The two artists were Nan Goldin and Mary Ellen Mark. The artists picked out universally relatable scenes to photograph.They captured people that the common public could relate to and documented their struggles and the social issues in society. After researching the artists we are split into 21 groups and have to do a write up. After that we have to do a write up and during the last 20 minutes of class he goes around with the microphone for every group to share their opinions and thoughts on the two artists. He came up to my group and everyone immediately looks to me to speak. I take the microphone and share our opinion on both artists work. He proceeds to ask me if I believed the photos are “pretty” and I reply with “It depends on how you define pretty”. I said that because our society portrays an unrealistic idea for the words pretty and beautiful, for everyone to attempt to follow. Then I told him everything is beautiful in its own way, and even though he might not think the photo is pretty, someone else is bound to. I was a little nervous saying all this and defending my case as I was in a lecture hall, but I realized I shouldn’t have been. If someone judges me or hates on me for sharing my opinion, that doesn’t truly affect me. I think my teacher really respected me from speaking from my heart and being honest with how I felt.
Volleyball is a huge part of my life here in Long Beach, as I am playing at least 2-3 times a week. My best friend on the team Jasmine hasn’t been to the last 2 practices. Even though, 1 week doesn’t seem too long without seeing on another, it is when throughout practice we are together and constantly and this is our only time to catch up on life. As soon as I walked in the gym today I went on top of her and hugged her and another teammate took a photo which showed the excitement in my face! There is such a bond created when you are on a team with someone. You see each other through highs and lows right away and are forced immediately to work together. I hope my next 312 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, #16 |
February 22nd 2016: Day 53 of 366 Test Days are never fun days. I woke up early to go to the gym, to get my endorphins going, but right after continued studying for my Statistics test. I never can feel “too” confident for a test. I had two classes prior to my test and all I could think about is getting my test over with. I have never taken a stats class, but we have been learning multiple calculations, so I thought that would be my whole test. I thought wrong. The test was mainly vocabulary and different concepts. Leaving the test I definitely didn’t feel as confident as I hoped. Within an hour of the test, the grades were posted and I was extremely nervous. I ended up getting a 75% on the test, which is passing but unless I get a 100% I don't think I will ever be satisfied with myself. I am my own biggest critic, but that is how I keep pressure on myself to do well in school. I called my mom to talk and told her and she said "As long as you tried your hardest thats all that matters". That meant a lot because most parents are constantly holding high expectations for their children and giving them unrealistic standards, and my parents tend to support me if they know I tried.
My brain was honestly fried from studying so I took a little time for my self and took a break from work watched bachelor, cleaned house, and did some laundry.I hope my next 313 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, MB!! |
February 21st 2016: Day 52 of 366 Today I realized one is fully responsible for their own health.We are constantly given choice to make. Go to the gym or sleep in? Eat a salad or eat chicken fingers? Drink soda or drink water? Walk or drive? We are constantly faced with these simple options and questions everyday. This morning when I woke upI had the option to sleep in or wake up and gym. I decided to go to the gym. I had the choice to make french toast with syrup or eggs with veggies. I chose eggs. I went grocery shopping at Costco and was faced with endless food options, cookies or protein bars, salads or burritos, cakes or fruit for dessert, orange juice or lemonade to drink. Every day whether we realize it or not we are constantly faced with options which help dictate our health. When Eliza and I went to check out, the cashier said “I love how healthy you are, you guys have such good food except for a few splurges” When I asked him what my splurges were, he said; Peanut Butter. I laughed and thought if that is our splurge, then we are doing very good.
Eliza is a film major, therefore she is in a variety of art classes and one her classes required her to go to The Molaa; Long Beach Museum of Latin American Art. This week the exhibit was : Who Are You? I filled out a post it that said something like : I am an optimist I am loving I am a student I am a volleyball player I am caring I am well rounded I am a daughter I am a friend I am a California girl I am Maddy Braverman Although, you are supposed to know yourself better than anyone else, it is not truly easy to really define who you are 100%. The room was filled with thought provoking questions, which were all opinion base questions. Underneath each question was a space for each person to write there answer and post it on the wall. Each week there is a new artist and new exhibit. This museum is just a few miles from my house and it is sad this is the first time I have ever been there. Since I was a little girl I have loved fashion. Since I can remember I was trying to make and create my own clothes and outfits. Till this day I love thrifting and think one can truly express their individuality through what they wear. I went home to my parents house this weekend and went through bags of lost and found. I got a bunch of different old items that were going to be given away, with the plan to cut them up and make them something new. In these photos I took a red simple sweater, cut off the sleeves, added a v-neck and fringes. Next I took a very old beach cover up dress and cut the top half to make the dress a crop top and cut the straps to give the shirt a criss cross back. Style is truly a way to say who you are, without having to say a word. This weeks project was a lot of fun and proves that “Ones mans trash is another mans come up”. I had so much work tonight, so I decided to go to the library. I usually do all of my work at home, but that makes my work take even longer than usual, because being home leads to an immeasurable amount of distractions. I have a Statistics test tomorrow and I met a girl Amanda here from my class. Studying with a partner is beneficial because if I am ever lost, I can ask her a question and we can discuss the issue (vice versa). Getting to the library can be a struggle, but definitely beneficial! I hope my test goes well!I hope my next 314 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! With Love, Mads |
February 20th 2016: Day 51 of 366 I never knew how much I missed the comfort of my own bed, until I slept in till 12 pm. This morning I really wanted to take Eliza on a hike in the valley with my mom, but since we slept in till the afternoon that wasn’t really an option. My mom didn’t want to wait for us to wake up so she ended up going to La Fitness for a morning workout. I think it is funny that she goes there so often now, as I used to go there everyday in high school and summer. She called my dad and I picked up and right away I knew the tone in her voice symbolized something was wrong. She proceeded to say “I was robbed”. My mom left her purse in the back seat, and while she was in the gym someone shattered her window and stole all of her stuff. She put her purse in her back seat, when she went into the gym which she has done many times. This time, she was very unlucky and had everything taken from here. Inside her purse there was so much including her license, house keys and work keys and gate access. Yes, she lost $200 and cash, her credit cards and all of her belongings but at least she is okay and her car wasn’t stolen either. As much as the situation sucked, she definitely learned her lesson for next time. Getting robbed is one of the biggest forms of personal violation and I think that is the worst part!
Eliza came home with me for the first time in a year, so I wanted her to experience somewhere only the valley has to offer: Brent’s Deli. Bren’t is known for pastrami, corned beef, tongue, matzo ball soup and more. Due to the fact that Eliza and I are vegetarian we had to stick to the matzo ball soup and salad. After we adventured a little but then had to go back to LB to make it in time for the Basketball game. College is fun is you make it fun. Tonight there was a big Basketball game against CSU Fullerton. I was debating whether or not to go, but I know I should take any opportunity I can and enjoy every experience I have the ability to attend. Our school doesn’t have a football team, so every game is a “Big Deal”. Tonight was so much fun!!! Standing in the front, jumping, cheering, just all coming together as one student body. Eliza and I even won Fetty Wap tickets at the game. 2 free concerts in a month?! That is remarkable. I am so excited, and would never have won these if we were not there. College becomes more fun, as I meet more people and do more things. We came home a little early tonight to finally relax.I hope my next 315 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, proud LB student |
February 19th 2016: Day 50 of 366 Today does not feel like Friday. I honestly woke up this morning thinking it was a Monday or Wednesday, but I was definitely wrong. I woke up and enjoyed my annual Friday tradition of Gym and Breakfast club and then instead of relaxing all day… I got ready and went to school with Eliza. Did I have class today? Nope, but I do have a ton of work to catch up on so the time I have free I might as well take advantage of ! I stayed at the library for 6 hours, and although I did not get as much work as I planned done, I got more done than I would have if I just stayed home, so that is what really matters.
Tonight I had two events planned. One was a progressive dinner for my sorority. Which is exactly what is sounds like a dinner that progresses, except it is a dinner for new members and their meal progresses through the pledge classes over the years. We hosted the appetizer course and it was awesome to see how many girls from my class showed up for this simple event on a Friday night. I was in disbelief to think I was at this park just a few months ago in these girls positions barely knowing anyone and now I am fortunate to look around and talk to and to not only call them familiar faces but friends. We played some games and ate some snacks and then Eliza and I had to get to Shabbat. Shabbat was Birthright themed so they catered Israeli food and it was delicious. Even though we enjoyed dinner, we couldn’t stay for dessert, because I decided we are taking a little road trip back to my parents house. I needed my car registration, its Hannahs birthday, I haven’t seen all my other friends or family in weeks so I thought a little trip home would be nice. There is such a different feeling of being home in the valley then being anywhere else in the world. I have always felt this way, but really was full of a feeling of euphoria when I talked to my friend Jason who goes to Chico State as he totally understood me. We sat and talked about how the friends we have in the valley are our family. People we know will always be there, people we are 100% comfortable with, people who accept us for us and people you are still happy to see even if you have seen them one million times. There is such a warm feeling I have when I am home. My family is there, this is place I spent 18 years of my life, made my most memories, found myself, and created friendships and memories I know will be timeless. Tonight I went to TGIF to surprise JJ at work , then I went to visit Hannah as today was her 20th birthday and then I went to see a whole group of my boys. No matter what friend group or what people I saw tonight, I felt at home, I felt welcomed and most of all I felt loved. I hope my next 316 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love Always, MB |
February 18th 2016: Day 49 of 366 Today in art class I had a very interesting artist and classmate conversation. The art gallery was titled: Fuse: Joined to Form a Single Entity. The exhibit had over 100 pieces from 30-40 artists, so the title really embodied all the artists coming together creating a cohesive exhibit. I had to tour the exhibit, interview the artist and interview a random classmate. I saw a classmate who didn’t really get the information from the artist and offered for him to take a photo of my notes. Then, I told him we should do a classmate conversation. His name is Greg and he was such a down to earth cool guy. I found out a lot about him and got to know him on a deeper level within 30 minutes of talking. I have been in over 20 classes on this campus, but this class is actually in a sense “forcing” all of the students to talk and really meet someone and learn about their life. I didn’t know this guy, and within less than 30 minutes, I am going to be able to write an essay on him. In college, most people go to class and leave class without making many friends or really meeting people. We only tend to surround ourselves with people in our circles or groups we are involved in, but this class goes against the college norm of class interaction and I am starting to really like that. I found out about his passions,interests, hobbies, history, life goals and aspirations. This is something random people rarely do during class, and I am really starting to enjoy this task.
This afternoon I left my class a little earlier to go to an event at Sky High.The best way to describe this place is a “trampoline house”. Hillel put this event on and there was a small group of us college students who went. Although there was only 10 of us, I still had a blast. I feel so comfortable around the hillel community and loved how even though we are all “adults” we were having the time of our lives bouncing into foam pits. For the first in a long time I felt like a little kids with no worries in the world just having pure fun. That is a sensational feeling, I wish I was able to have more, but with work, school, volleyball and the random stresses of life that is not always possible.I hope my next 317 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love Always, Madison Erin Braverman |
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February 17th 2016: Day 48 of 366Today at midnight on the dot I wished 2 special woman a Happy 20th Birthday. Firstly, one who has been my best friend for 7 years now Liza Hoffman. Liza and I became best friends when we went to the same Middle School, and sadly ended up going to different high schools. Everyone thought, when best friends separate schools their friendships drift as well, but that was never the case for us.Liza and I have such a genuine strong friendship. We spent 6 weeks together at sleep-away camp together everyday, even sleeping in the same bed half the time and never fought once. Her and I have the best communication and have always been able to talk about anything and everything. There have been countless times where we will talk about 30 different subjects within a short period of time. No matter where we go, who we are with, or what we are doing we have fun. Her and I somehow have managed to laugh or find joy in every and any experience. I know I could study with her, go out with her, vent with her and doing absolutely anything with her. I went through Facebook today and clicked the “See Friendship” button and wow was I aghast to go through memory lane of our friendship. There was one thing I noticed in every photo we had together we looked so genuinely happy. Our friendship is so natural and I love that. Her and I have not attended the same school for 6 years now and I can still with no doubt say she will be a bridesmaid at my wedding. I wish I could be in Berkeley celebrating with her right now but I will just send herby love from a far.
Secondly, today is Shannon O’Shaughnessy’s 20th birthday as well. We met last year as we lived across the hall from one another in the dorms. Coming to this school, I didn’t know anyone but my roommate, and within the first week Shannon and I became friends. Shannon really had one of the biggest impacts on my college experience thus far. I know no matter what I could count on her whether it is something as simple as doing my makeup before a dance or meaningful as being my shoulder to cry on. We have a bountiful amount of memories and no matter what have a special relationship. We have both been very busy with school lately and haven’t really hung out, but I am always thankful to have her at school! I didn’t see her all day, so I went over and surprised her tonight just to hangout for a little and give her a gift! Today in my Kinesiology Beach Volleyball class, we had or first and only test. We had to name everyone in the class. At first, I definitely thought this idea was dumb. I didn’t see a purpose of memorizing every students name, when we were just taking the Kinesiology class for fun. Now I get it, as I look around and see so many familiar faces it is really nice to match a name to a face. Also, volleyball is a team sport, so knowing everyones name on your court is vital for success in a game. We sat in a huge circle and the instructor walked around and pointed to someone and gave them a number and we had to match a number to a name. I was very confident turning in that test as over the past 4 weeks, I have played with most of my classmates so it wasn’t too hard. On top of having school all day, tonight some students from school and myself went and volunteered at the Children and Women's hospital in Long Beach. For two hours we colored and played games with a handful of children going through cancer treatments. This experience was amazing for multiple reasons. One was I felt so humbled and honored how excited these children were ton see us, they look forward to volunteers and doing stuff like this. There were parents there and they were so thankful, but I felt thankful to get the time to spend with these children. Also, all of these kids are going through chemotherapy, but were finding joy in coloring and playing board games. It was beyond beautiful to see these young children whose normal childhood lives were taken away from them by Cancer still find the small joys in life. As optimistic as I am, I do not know if I could be as filled as joy and love as they were during this hard time and I really admire all of them for that. I wish them all nothing but health and happiness and hope I get the opportunity to do this again. I hope my next 318 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love Always, MEB |
February 16th 2016: Day 47 of 366 For the first time since I can remember I went to bed before 12:00 am. I had a lot of homework but I was just so exhausted last night, that I knew I had to sleep because I would not adequately complete any of my work. That wasn’t too big of an issue as I only have two classes today, with my huge gap in-between.
This year throughly studying the psychology of people and human development I have realized one commonality between all people ; everyone loves to be noticed, be recognized, be appreciated and be loved. Obviously, some people need recognition and a sense of belonging in more ways than one but no matter what people love being noticed. Since I made a lot of Valentines and had extra, and Danielle sold flowers for Valentines Day and had extras we brought all of them to school to pass out to random people on campus. As both of us are very outgoing, we knew we would have no problem approaching random people at school. Her and I definitely targeted a certain type of “person” to give a gift to. We looked for individuals sitting alone, studying or those who just looked down, as we believed those were the people who could benefit the most from our nice gesture. We walked all over campus handing out flowers and valentines just telling people “We hope you have an amazing day” or something similar to that. After walking around doing this for over an hour or so, my friend who knew I was passing out flowers saw a girl I handed the flower to pass it on to someone else and wished them a great day too. Although, I only had the purpose of brightening peoples days, there was a way better lesson that came out of today. Due to the fact I did something good, someone passed on the kind gesture to someone else. This relates to a quote from the famous baseball player Wade Boggs "A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results”. We never know the positive impact a smile or simple compliment or small act of kindness can have one anyone and the chain reaction it may create. My heart was honestly warmed knowing that someone else continued doing a good deed and passed on the simple remind to have a great day. This week is Sexual Assault Awareness week! The fraternity TKE is doing their philanthropy on this issue as it is prominent in the college setting. They had a booth today at campus where you signed a piece of paper with your pledge against sexual assault, gave a donation and then put your handprint and name on a banner. A lot of girls I know did it, including Eliza and I. Not only was it a cool little social event to meet new people ,we were standing and supporting a very important issue that affects girls like myself on a daily basis. In Greek life there are exchanges between one sorority and one fraternity all the time. Usually the “exchanges” are parties at the fraternities house, but sometimes we have day 100% sober exchanges too. Tonight we had a Taco Exchange with the fraternity Pike. Sadly there were only meat tacos, so being vegetarian for a month sucked in this situation, but I was able to stop at Taco Bell to buy some potato tacos and join the festivities. Everyone played the game Heads up in small groups and really enjoyed the sober fun! I hope my next 319 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Madsion Braverman |
February 15th 2016: Day 46 of 366 Rise and Shine! I know it sounds funny but I say that almost every morning, especially this morning when I woke up at 6:00 am to go to the gym. I knew it was early when I got to the gym and the sun was still rising! Over summer I would go to the gym before work and loved doing that because, I would workout an still have my whole day ahead of me with no worry about working out later in the day. Working out in the morning really wakes me up and starts the day off well! I was tired throughout the day, but I believe the work out is worth it. Today was an exciting day at the gym as I got my “Condition for Tuition” water bottle. I know winning a water bottle isn’t that exciting to most but this water bottle symbolizes that I am half way to being entered in the schools Conditions for Tuition challenge. If a student goes to the Student Rec and signs in 50 times they are entered in a raffle for many prizes including free tuition for a semester! I didn’t go to the rec enough times last year to be entered in the raffle, but this year I am goaled to and think that it is very achievable as I only have 24 visits left with over 8 weeks left!
Although today marks the middle of February, but the temperature make me feel as if we are in the middle of July. During Beach Volleyball today, everyone was so hot and sweaty. I love playing beach, but going to class after is far from pleasurable. Especially on Monday’s because today I do not only have Statistics, but the Statistics lab right after as well. I was really dreading this lab, but I have come to learn every class is easier and more enjoyable if one makes friends, which I was able to! Tonight was the first meeting for sorority since Valentines Day,so I made all of the girl individual Valentines! Inside each bag I put some candy a heart and a little note Stating: 10 Little Reminders 1. You are loved 2. There is good in everyday 3. There is always a reason to smile 4. You are good enough 5.Everyday Is a fresh start 6.You are unique and that makes you special 7.Positiviy is a choice 8.Everything will be okay in the end 9.Don’t be afraid to be yourself 10.You are BEAUTIFUL Love Always, Sunshine I thought these were perfect little reminders every girl should read everyday. I hope my next 320 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Madsion Bee |
February 14th 2016: Day 45 of 366 Happy Valentines Day to all! Today is the first Valentines Day in 6 years that I do not officially have a Valentine, but that is okay because I get to spend the day with my roomie! Who needs a Valentine when I can just hang out with my best friend all day? We woke up and went to a cute coffee shop in Encinitas called: Get Buzzed. The coffee shop was crowded with cute couples and people dressed in red and pink. Although I am not technically celebrating the holiday this year, I still love seeing how happy everyone is and all the cutesy stuff people do. Valentines Day is kind of a dumb holiday Hallmark puts on to make tons of money on chocolates, cards and flowers. I do not think one day should be reserved to showing how much you love someone. If you really love and care for someone, I think you should show that affection and care 365 days a year,or in this years case 366 days. I do love all the mushy gushy stuff so no matter what I will celebrate this holiday somehow.
Crazy to think how much changes in a year. My Valentines day last year was spent very differently then it was spent today. I was celebrating the “holiday” with the same person for the 4th year in a row. The craziest part is I have no idea how he will be spending it this year, but I always wish my old Valentine the best. There is a first for everything and this year was a first as I spent Valentines Day selling sausages at a pet show as well as doing homework all night. Regardless of my interesting way of celebrating, I enjoyed the day and I think that is all that matters. Happy Valentines Day Eliza No Name Naimi, thanks for always being the best. I hope my next 321 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! With endless love, hugs and kisses, Mads |
February 13th 2016: Day 44 of 366 Who doesn’t want to spend their Saturday morning stuck in 3 hours of traffic? EVERYONE. Unfortunately that is exactly how I spent my Saturday morning. Eliza and I drove down to San Diego today to work at the Del Mar Fair Grounds. Her dad runs a restaurant and big food trailers at the Fair Grounds and different sizable events in the San Diego area. I started going down to work with Eliza last semester and I really enjoy it. I usually work the sausage stand and as eccentric as that may sound, it is actually a fun and a cool job. There is always such an eclectic group of people at the fair grounds, as there is a different show almost every day of the week. This weekend there was a big pet expo, so not only did I get to talk to people all day, I got to see a plethora of beautiful dogs. Pleasure in the job helps put perfection in the work.I hope my next 322 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories!
XOXO, Maddy |
February 12th 2016: Day 43 of 366 TGIF. I genuinely look forward to Fridays reccently because I know I will wake up and gym and then enjoy an amazing breakfast. This week breakfast was at our house and I made french toast while Eliza made eggs. Also, every Friday night there are Shabbat Dinners for the Long CSULB Community. Shabbat is a the day of rest, and Beach Hillel hosts a huge delicious dinner every Friday night. I love going to Shabbat, because everyone is always so loving and welcoming. I feel such a sense of community and love when I attend these dinners. Tonight was a “High school shabbat”, meaning they invited high school students to come and experience college Hillel and interact with college students!
I was chosen for the college panel. What that meant was me and 3 other students sat in front of everyone and were asked direct and group questions. Plus, at the end the floor opened and anyone was able to ask questions! I didn’t really know what to expect, but I am not really the timid type so I wasn’t too worried. I got asked a plethora of questions but the one that really mad me ponder was : “What were the biggest changes and challenges of moving out of your parents house to a new city on your own?” There are honestly so many changes and so many differences of being in Long Beach on my own then being in the valley with my family. I am responsible for everything here, noone is going to tell me what or what not to do. No one will tell me I have to go to class, go to practice or anywhere at that. If I want anything done I have to do it and if I do not that is all on me. Additionally, I have to cook, clean, take care of myself, my stuff and not depend on others to do my work. Plus, I had to create another home in Long Beach, I came here knowing no one, where in the valley I have such a feeling of home and comfort. Talking on the panel was fun and I felt honored I was chosen to be on it. I wish I had more opportunities to ask other college students questions, when I was in high school. Tonight my sorority and Phi Tau had an exchange themed: Athletes and Mathletes. Our two chapters are not super close but my best guy friend Alec Turowski is in that chapter so I always have fun going, as we always get to spend time together! Also, Hannah Be-Nun came down to spend the night so she came too!! There wasn’t a ton of people there but we still had fun and I even bar tender, which was surprisingly super fun. One of my close friends at the party, had a little bit too much to drink and paid the consequences. She ended up throwing up and getting sick. She felt very mortified, but I tried explaining everyone has those nights. College is such a time of experimenting, learning and exploring. I learned a lot of lessons in high school as I did grow up kind of fast, but I try to be so understanding and realize everyone has been there once before. The night ended a little earlier than I hoped for but I was still happy I went out tonight! I hope my next 323 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, MB |
February 11th 2016: Day 42 of 366 I woke up this morning feeling like death. I could barely talk and was coughing and sniffling but had to tour an art gallery for my first class and turn in a paper during my second class. I got to school and really didn’t think I was going to be able to stick out the day but since I was already there, I thought I might as well try! My first class was art so that is always enjoyable! I toured an awesome art exhibit full of sculptures created by Samuel Jernigan. He described his artwork as “Big Toys” that resemble loneliness and belonging in one. During class I started feeling a little better and knew I was really going to try and stick out day.
I had hours of a gap till my next class, so Danielle and I adventured around campus seeing if there was anything going on, which of course there was. We saw this whole booth promoting “Safe Sex” and went and played some of their games to win prizes. They even were giving out Condom Valentines which I found hilarious. The most interesting part of their stand was that they had beer goggles, goggles one puts on and makes them have the vision as if they were drunk. I put on the most intense goggles and really struggled walking in a line. I thought I could do it, but those goggles really affected my eyesight, balance and sense of distance. When we were walking, two boys came up to us asking where the dorms were. Immediately Danielle and I laughed knowing they must be lost and visiting as they were headed the opposite direction. We soon came to learn the two boys were sophomores in high school visiting the campus on a field trip. They had a scavenger hunt to answer all these questions, but we answered almost all of them in 5 minutes. Part of their questionnaire was a short interview and Danielle and I had a different answer for every question but one. That question was “What is your best advice for an incoming freshman?” Both of us replied GET INVOLVED. I do not think I could stress enough how important getting involved in is. I would not have had a remarkable high school experience nor be enjoying college as much as I am right now if I wasn’t always involved. Peoples experiences in school are as good as they make them to be. Getting involved doesn’t just happen, but takes effort. An effort that is unbelievably worth it and rewarding. After talking for a little while, the boys got our Instagram’s and we told them "if they ever needed anything we would be here” I went to the health center and they said I just have a major cold, so I really hope it goes away soon. I ended up buying myself an earlier Valentines Day present of cold medicine. Another thing the doctor and nurses stressed was that I need rest. One thing I definitely do not get enough. Tonight was Pi Kapp’s pref, which is a big dance and I was so excited to go but I got sick and decided the responsible decision and best way to get better was to stay home. A lot of my friends went and I was sad about missing out but I know the decision to stay in, will not be a decision I regret. I just hope it pays off!I hope my next 324 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, Mads |
February 10th 2016: Day 41 of 366 Someone asked me this morning “Maddy do you ever have a bad day?” and I replied yes I do, but I always believe there is something good in everyday. Little did I know today would be one of those days. There were so many small things added up today, which just didn’t make today a good day by any means. Additionally, I lost my voice, got a stuffy nose and have been feeling crummy all of a sudden. I do not know why this happens but when one thing seems to go wrong, everything starts to go wrong. I got home late today to a letter in the mail, which was my family’s Valentines Day card. Every year since I can remember my family has done some type of family holiday card. This year we were on the cruise over New Years and never had the opportunity to send out a card. I was really bummed that we were not able to send a New Years card this year, so with Valentines Day being the next holiday that was our best opportunity. Even though some people thought it was sappy and lame, I am so ecstatic they did. Looking at that photo brightened my day and made me remember as crummy as I may feel, I have a great family and people who love me and there is always good in every day! Hope to start feeling better soon!I hope my next 325 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories!
Love, The Sickling |
February 9th 2016: Day 40 of 366 Happy National Bagel Day! I woke up this morning, got ready and was about to make breakfast, when Eliza told me today was National bagel Day, therefore Einstein Bagels were giving out free bagels and shmeer. Free Bagels, of course I was there. Something as simple as a good bagel really started my day off on a great start.
I have my large gap between classes today, so I went and got smoothies with all of my roomies. I know I only have 2 roommates, but I am happy Danielle and I still have a good relationship. They are 3 of the closest people to me in Long Beach, so when I get to hangout with all of them at once it is amazing! This is a happy but dangerous season of the year : girl scout cookie season. I say that because; Who doesn’t love girl scout cookies? They are so good, but so bad for you. Also, they can definitely put an indent on ones wallet. There have been girl scouts all around my campus selling cookies and although they look delicious and girls are cute, I don’t need them and my sister is still a girl scout so I would buy from her if anyone. Every girl scout I see I go up to and tell them what a great experience Girl Scouts is and tell them to cherish their time as girl scouts and enjoy all of the experiences they have. I was in troop 368 when I was young and did have some great memories from Girl Scouts. I was walking to my car today and saw my friend Manny, we were talking for a few minutes and then he just gets up because he hears these young girl scouts using good marketing skills while selling their cookies. Although he doesn’t eat cookies, he respected their selling pitch and donated money to buy 2 boxes. This just shows you never know who is listening to what you are saying. I thought it was so honorable that a guy in college just donated money to 2 young girls he has never even seen before. He really made their day and supported the wonderful organization: Girl Scouts of America. There are so many events and speakers at school that I should take more advantage of!I hope my next 326 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love forever, Madison |
February 8th 2016: Day 39 of 366 Mondays do tend to be longer days. I felt like everything went by so slowly. Also, today is the only day I have a 3 hour statistics lab which I always dread attending. As I was leaving to walk back to my car I was asked if I wanted to stop and hear a speech from students from South Africa on the subject of apartheid. Knowing me I felt bad saying no, so I went to listen to the speakers. I walked in with no idea what to expect, but walked out feeling enlightened about issues in South Africa and about segregation around the world. Although we are in 2016, discrimination has never really stopped. At the end when they asked for questions and no one said anything I raised my hand and asked “ If they could leave us with anything what would it be?” Both speakers just explained how knowledge and being educated about world issues is very important. Additionally, they explained how we are all human and relate in so many ways and as young individuals we are the people who can help change the world and help each other. I was just planning on going home, but I am glad I stayed. There are so many events and speakers at school that I should take more advantage of!I hope my next 327 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories!
XOXO, MEB |
February 7th 2016: Day 38 of 366 Tonight I realized out of the past 72 hours, I have been awake and constantly doing stuff for 63 hours… I do not even know how little sleep I got the 72 hours prior as well. Today was a very long but rewarding day.
Happy Super Bowl Sunday! I mean Happy Volleyball day! Although, most people were celebrating with Super Bowl Sunday festivities all day, I was in the volleyball gym all day. I was up today at 7 am, setting up the nets! Today was the first time I have ever had official games at CSULB! We were playing the Southern section which consists of U of A, SDSU, UCD, and UCSD. Last tournament we didn’t do too well, so today meant a lot to our team. We played really well and ended up winning 3 games against SDSU, UCD and U of A. Beating University of Arizona was a big deal to me because I am close with multiple people who go there and they are a top Division 1 school, well known for their sports. As it was Super Bowl Sunday, I was bummed thinking no one would come to my game but I was wrong. My mom was there the whole day and that meant a lot to me, because she definitely could have stayed home for yummy food and watched the game with my dad, but chose to drive down and see me instead. When I asked my dad if he was coming and he replied with “Are you joking?”. My old roomie and new roomie both showed up with posters as well. One of my posters states “#16 on the court and #16 in my heart”, I can always depend on Danielle Dallas to do something savage no matter where she may be. Even if I may be low down on the people they love, I was so happy to have them there. They are truly supportive and brought such a good energy. So many people even came up to me talking about my “fan girls". Volleyball has always been a huge part of my life, so for them to get a glimpse of something that is very important to me and finally witness what I spend all my night practicing for was meaningful. Last Thursday when I left practice to do the half time challenge at the school game, we won tickets to a Neighborhood concert! That concert was tonight. Jasmine wasn’t feeling to well, so I ended up going to the concert with Eliza. Neither of us knew all of the music, but we enjoyed a free concert. Apparently it was sold out and many people were trying to buy the tickets, so the fact we got tickets from a minute challenge is exceptional. Today went very well but beyond exhausted, I was falling asleep at the show.I hope my next 328 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love Always, Maddy |
February 6th 2016: Day 37 of 366 Every fraternity, sorority or greek organization supports a philanthropy. Even though greek people are stereotyped to join an organization to buy friends and party, that is far from true, as every chapter helps make the world a better place in one way or another.
One of the philanthropy’s my sorority supports is The Painted Turtle Camp. Joining the sorority I knew the camp helped children in need, but I honestly knew very little about the purpose of the camp. Today I had the opportunity to go to the camp and see what it is about for myself. I found out the camp is open for kids with different serious medical conditions, and gives those children a place to not only feel comfortable but also have “normal kid” fun. These children have serious diseases and are constantly in and out of the hospital, so this is a place where they can still get treatment but just celebrate being a child! There was a video that played and a child said “The best feeling is being around other children who understand my condition and my same struggles”. This really hit home as my older brother had cerebral palsy and went to many adaptive programs! I think everyone deserves to have fun and for this camp to be a non-profit organization with the purpose to support children with over 30 medical conditions and give them a place to enjoy being a child is remarkable. We had many simple tasks throughout the day from cleaning to making gift bags and even counting games. This camp really impacted me and I love the cause so much, I plan on applying to staff there over Summer. The camp is truly made of helping hands and I support what they are all about. The night before a game I have always told myself I will stay 100% sober, no matter what party or place I may go to. Tomorrow we have a huge game day and although everyone was partying hard, I knew I could not. Regardless of this I believe everyone can still have a lot of fun sober and still went out and even offered to drive. I was at a party and saw the starting libero on my team and got so happy. We both had a game the next day, but still were both out having fun the night before! Going to parties sober is always funny because I am able to see how everyone else is under the influence. I also have random conversations with countless drunk people and don’t care. I met so many freshman girls and crazy to think although there is only a year or so in-between us, how much older I felt than them. Someone told me I was their role model and I felt so honored. Someone else also came up to me and said he didn’t know why i came out if I was sober because noone has fun that way, I really disagree. and think a party will always be what you make of it! Going to be a 3:30 am before a game…Hope tomorrow goes well!I hope my next 329 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love Always, Mads |
February 5th 2016: Day 36 of 366 Fridays are about waking up at 6:30 am to go the gym right? Well that is what my Friday morning was about. I woke up and went to the gym with the usual group. Afterwards we had our annual Friday breakfast which was so delicious this morning. Soon after we ate, we left to yoga on the bluffs, where we were able to stretch our muscles out and enjoy the beach breeze. My friends decided to continue the adventurous day with a hike, but I really needed rest so as much as I did not want to miss out I knew that was the right choice.
Tonight there was a Girls Night Out event at some random roller skating place in Fountain Valley. I do not think I have been indoor skating since I was 12 years old. To my surprise I was still able to skate. I was by no means a pro but I could get my way around pretty well with little to no assistance. Girls Nights are so important! I know tonight is a Friday and there are so many parties going on but taking time to do something fun with all the girls is even more fun. Everyone dressed up 70’s! I was doing so well then a girl ran into me and knocked me over. I have fallen an endless amount of times and have trained myself to catch a fall with my hands. This time I only caught my fall with my right hand and my right thumb really took all the weight. As I was on the floor I started to tear up. I tried getting up relatively quick, because I do not like crying infront of people. As i was exiting another girl came flying around and knocked me over round 2. At that point, I knew I was done for good. I went to the food counter to get ice and sat alone to take a little time. A random boy (10-16 yrs old) skates up to me and starts serenading me. I have never seen this child in my life but we was so outgoing and funny. He start singing "Hello" by Adelle and asked wanted to record himself on my snapchat. I tried recording him and he asked me “have you ever heard of a selfie?” I said yes, but didn’t want to take one as I was crying and in pain. He continued to say “I will cry with you” and then serenaded me some more. This random young boy Joseph switched my night around in a matter of minutes. One really never knows the impact they can have on someones day or life, with just a subtle smile, conversation or hello. I can honestly say I will never forget that and any time I hear the song hello or skate again I will remember that kid. Tonight was so much fun overall! Time just spent with the girls is so necessary and can create some of the best memories!I hope my next 330 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, MB |
February 4th 2016: Day 35 of 366 My Art 110 class is honestly such a fun class and a great way to start my Tuesdays and Thursdays. Every Thursday we have 3 assignments, an art project, an art gallery interview and a classmate discussion. I saw my first art gallery today, and the art work was so unique. The artist used trash bags, and stretched them out around a canvas to define transparency between life and death. He also, had everything in his gallery in black and white except flowers which I found fascinating.We also had to go find a random classmate and find out about their life. My teacher described it as a “Bar conversation that goes well”. By that he meant, when you first meet someone one always asks the same generic questions… What is your name? What is your major? How old are you? etc. But, to meet someone and connect on a more personal level, find out things such as where they want to travel to, what inspires them and what the enjoy doing creates a better connection and discussion. I went up to a girl Dominique and I am so happy I did, she is very shy but such a lovely soul. She is someone I will be excited to see in class and around campus from now on.
Tuesday/ Thursdays are always my gap days, so I try to find something to do, where I can enjoy my time. Today Danielle and I were walking and saw a little carnival going on with bouncey games. We went and realized it was for cultural fraternities on campus but open for everyone, so of course she and I headed right to the Carnival Joust Game. She was telling everyone around how she was going to beat me, and win so quickly. Little did she know talking crap and a big game never wins the game, as I beat her 3 to 1. I hate when people talk a big game, so I was happy I won. We had a ton of fun though, so many random people stopped and took photos and we didn’t care. I love that she is always down for almost anything. After she even joined me at my Human Development Association meeting. At the start of practice tonight, in my old dorm group chat, my friend Kelsey who works in the Pyramid (School gymnasium) texted saying “ There is a Woman’s basketball game on right now, and there is no-one in the student section and they need people for the half-time challenge". I asked the captain if I could go and she said it was okay, as it can be my warm up if I run all the way there. Jasmine and I left and ended up competing against one another in a Minute to Win It challenge, so either way we knew one of us would win. We won 2 tickets to a Neighborhood concert this weekend. Although, wearing panty hose around my head while trying to knock over bottles with a baseball is a little embarrassing with a bunch of people watching, 2 concert tickets were worth it! I am siked and think this was a prodigious surprise and opportunity!I hope my next 331 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! With Love, Madison Erin |
February 3rd 2016: Day 34 of 366 Happy Wednesday! Happy Hump Day! Happy Middle of the Week, but most of all happy because today is my favorite day of the week! People always ask me why today is my favorite day and there is no one specific answer. Wednesdays mean the school week is half way over, I never have serious obligations or meeting on Wednesdays, Wednesdays are always laid back usually a good day.
At CSULB we have a thing called “Well Rested Wednesdays” where there are hammocks brought out to our center lawn for a “Hammock and Chill” type thing. People can go relax and lay in the hammock and they even pass out otter pops. That lasts for a few hours, but they have a room in the Rec Center all day on Wednesday with peaceful music. I had a small gap in-between classes today and decided to go lay and enjoy my sandwich on a hammock! I was able to lay back and relax in-between classes and enjoyed it, so I think the school is doing a wonderful job at “Promoting Well Rested Wednesdays”. If one really knows me I am far from an impulsive person, I rarely can decided what outfit to wear or what to cook for dinner! Today while in Yoga, 2 of my friends talked about a big Jauz show tonight at the Observatory. Although, I know very little about EDM music I do enjoy going to shows/ festivals and heard him at Hard Summer Festival last summer. I also respect his creed: “music has no boundaries”. Eliza and I looked at one another and decided we were going to go. With only few hours till the show we bought tickets and went. A big group from school was going, so we all carpooled and had such a fun night. Life is about experiences and some of the best experiences happen in the spur of the moment. I was glad for once I was impulsive and just went and bought a ticket!I hope my next 332 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, MB |
February 2nd 2016: Day 33 of 366 Today was an overall decent day!I One reason it was pretty good is because I was loving my funky outfit all day! Overalls are still cool no matter what anyone says! I went to school today in pant overalls and platform sandals, not caring what anyone else thought or said. Nothing amazing and nothing awful happened today, making it just an average day. The day was better because I love overalls, so wearing them put me in a good mood from the start. I have a large gap in between classes today and I went to the library and was pretty productive which is a rare for me. When I got to my last class at 3:30, I started falling asleep which was bad. I had to eat or chew gum to legitimately stay awake. Maybe this was due to me staying awake till 4 am last nigh...
Tonight I had volleyball then weight lifting and now I am beyond exhausted. We found out tonight at practice that another player had to drop because school and work is very demanding and volleyball is too much of a time commitment for her to handle and dedicate herself to. I know playing and being in school is a lot but I really believe being a “student athlete” is always worth it and being involved in sports scientifically makes one a better student.I hope my next 333 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Mads |
February 1st 2016: Day 32 of 366 Happy First day of February! This February is special because 2016 falls on a leap year, therefore there will be 29 days of February. I have set monthly goals for myself, because I believe breaking down goals into small time periods is better then just having an overall broad goal. This month I am going vegetarian, which is something I have never done before. Thankfully, I will not be doing it alone as my new and old roomie are both doing it as well! Hope this month full of veggies and carbs is enjoyable!
Today I learned I really should check my emails more. I rushed to Beach Volleyball today, and got to the courts and none was there. I was freaking out and so confused, because I thought class was only canceled when it rains, but it was definitely not raining. I then go and check my emails and realize the coach emailed me and said “No Beach Volleyball" due to the high winds! Also, today is the first day to sign up for Birthright, a trip I have been planning on going on for a while now. I have not checked my email recently and then realized I had to apply immediately! Luckily Ihad time to apply, while volleyball was canceled. Tonight we usually have meeting for my sorority, but since we are doing “Spring Rush” we had a formal Pref tonight. Pref is a special ceremony that every chapter has their own unique version of. Ours is a beautiful service and I was joyful to have my two best friends in my sorority by my side. I have met some genuine, loving and down to earth and well rounded people through DZ, which I do not think I would have found anywhere else. With new girls around I wanted them to know the sense of unity within the chapter. One bummer of Monday meeting, is I always miss the Bachelor and have homework though !! We are now in the 3rd week of school and school work is really starting to pile up. I am now going back to staying up really late on school nights, and doing work for hours at a time. I hope my next 334 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Madison Erin |
January 31st 2016: Day 31 of 366 Rain Rain go away come again some other day. I woke up to it pouring outside. Luckily I was still able to sleep in till 10ish, which was so nice but extremely needed. My roommates were gone today, so it was definitely lonely in the house but easier to get work accomplished. I went to the gym and stayed for 2 hours. I climbed 108 flights of stairs on the stair master which is more than climbing the eiffel tower, so even though my legs were dead after I felt as if I was being productive at the gym. The gym was so empty today, most people didn’t want to leave because of the rain and even though that would have be nice, I know going to the gym is never a bad decision.
I had a meeting tonight, went and ran some errands then treated myself to Cha(Well known boba and food place). I had a lovely dinner by myself and photo blogged while eating. My wheartit is something I always go on to relax. The link is http://weheartit.com/maddybraverman. A place with photos I love, quotes I relate too and styles and things I adore. The rain is still going and it is midnight but at least I did not let my day go to waste. I hope my next 335 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Madison |
January 30th 2016: Day 30 of 366Today I was at UCLA by 8 am to play in my first tournament of the year. The day was very long as we were there for 12 hours. We mixed up the lineup every game to see what would work for us the best, as we have never all played together in this setting before. All the teams were very close. We played LMU, USC, UCLA, and UCSB. Today definitely didn’t go as well as everyone hoped. The only school we beat was USC. We lost to LMU by 2 points, Lost to UCSB in the Tie Breaker game and lost to UCLA by just a few points. We could have honestly beat every team but we got into our own heads and that killed us. One of the alumni male players who also fills in a role of a coach said “You can not play like you are losing because then everyone is down on the court” and he was 100% right. When everyone was cheering and playing each game one point at a time we were winning, and when we were not we lost. I believe that is the issue with female sports, that even though there could be amazing skill, if he mentality and mindset isn’t great, the skill doesn’t matter much. This was the first day and was a good test and beginning experience. Overall the team did well, just a few things here and there could of put us in the lead. Hopefully we will be able to take all the tips given by the coaches and apply them during our next 2 practices before our game next weekend! Also Shoutout to my mom for coming to my game, and friend Ashley Newman! Having people there cheering me on makes the games and day even better.
On the way home I fell asleep in the car I was so tired. My closest guy friends were having a big party at their house so I did have to go but when I got home I was beyond exhausted and looked so forward to sleeping! Longest day I have had in a while.I hope my next 336 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! xoxo, #16 |
January 29th 2016: Day 29 of 366 Waking up at 6am to go to the gym is something I have not done in a very long time, but today I did. I am trying to motivate myself more to workout and eat healthy because at the end of the day I am the only person in control of my own body. After the gym I had Friday breakfast with Eliza and Spencer. We are going to try to make that a “thing” which I am excited for, because having a homemade breakfast atlas once a week with people I enjoy being around is something to look forward to.
Fridays are always weird, because I am so used to having school on Fridays and now that I have the day off and both of my roomies have school I sometimes do not know what to do with my day. I did homework and went to the mall. Later on I went to Shabbat and we had a little volleyball meeting/bonding at BJ’s Restaurant. What better pre-game meal than a Pizookie? … MANY things, but none will taste as good. Majority of the team is new this year but I look forward to season, and have high hopes this year. Even though I left BJ’s at 11pm I went out after to a party. I drove because I knew I had a game in the morning and wanted to guarantee I would get home safe and at a decent hour for me. Went to bed pretty late, but trying to go out as much as I can when I do not have a ton of school work. I hope my next 337 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, MEB |
January 28th 2016: Day 28 of 366 Today was just a great day. My mom called me earlier to ask about my day and that was exactly what I told her. There are some days which are all around pretty good and that was today! Thursday is technically my Friday now because I only have 4 days of classes per week, which makes today better as well.
I am in an Art 110 class and every week we have a different project to do and this week was : Plastering a body part. Class was canceled, so everyone can go to the beach and finish their activity. I went with a friend from volleyball, but when we got there a bunch of other students went to Seal Beach as well and the professor even showed up with iced tea he made for everyone. One thing I love about my school is that all the professors don’t only teach by curriculum but add in their own spunk and fun ways of teaching. Additionally, living next to the beach is very convenient and helpful for a variety of school projects. I asked my professor why he chose this project for our class and he simply responded “Most students love the beach”. I have not done an art project at school since Middle School, so having a whole class based on art projects is pretty cool. My plaster hand did not come out to well because my fingers broke off in the sand, but the mold looked like a shaka hand sign, so I used that to my advantage. WOW. These past few days we have had WOW on upper campus, also known as “Week of Welcome”, during this time all the clubs, greek associations, academic groups, vendors and more come out to share what their organization is about to all the student at CSULB. This happens in the first few weeks of every semester. I love this time because everyone is out and there are so many familiar faces around. Also the free stuff is endless. Tonight I had volleyball and because we have a game Saturday, practice is more fun than usual. Everyone becomes pretty competitive and focused . Also, we split the teams very equally so games become pretty intense as well. I was bummed that I had practice, because there was a huge basketball game tonight vs. UCSB at the same time. I knew so many people who went to the game, but knew I couldn’t skip practice. Luckily the game went into overtime and I ran over after practice and saw the last 2 minutes. I was able to see the most exciting part of the game and get to hangout with everyone after which was perfect timing. I hope my next 338 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Maddy |
January 27th 2016: Day 27 of 366 I showed up to Yoga class today and was shocked by how many students dropped. The first week i was 10th on the roster, and today I was 2nd. So many people dropped the class because they found out we actually have to write refelctions and memorize the poses. Everyone had hope yoga would be an easy A, but being in college, one should never expect a course to be that easy. Due to the fact that so many people dropped, the professor talked to the people in charge of the famous Japanese Garden on campus and our yoga classes will now take place there. The college is well known for many things, but a significant one is the Garden, so to have opportunity to learn yoga there is awesome.
My favorite couple Monica and Jonathon stopped by tonight and I was so glad to see them. When I used to dorm I would always see this couple studying morning to night 7 days a week. I would go to a party and come back hours later and they would still be studying or I would go to eat and see them studying there as well. One day I went up and started a conversation with them to find out she is a Nursing major and he is an Engineering major, so they had to constantly studying to stay at the top of their class. I always had a lot of respect for them and ended up doing my homework with them everyday and soon we became a little family in a sense. Even though I rarely see them now, we always make a point to see each other! They brought my roomies and I a costco pizza tonight for dinner and we all just ate and caught up! Always so happy to see these two and have no doubt they will both become extremely successful in life. After they left I finally started all my homework and reading. When I am truly working I try to get rid of as many distractions as possible which includes shutting my door. I get a knock on the door and I of course say “Come In” and Torie, comes in crying hysterically while holding her laptop. I was so worried thinking the worst things that could happen because I am not used to seeing her this way, and then she shows me her laptop and open is a dog rescue place. I couldn’t help but to smile, she was feeling all this sorrow not for herself or anyone she knew and not even any animal she knew, but random animals she saw in need of adoption. Glad to have such a loving and caring roommate. I felt so bad and just explained to her how the world needs more people like her. She continues to say how she wanted to adopt all of them and even though I love dogs, I do not think our landlord would like that very much...I hope my next 339 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Maddy |
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January 26th 2016: Day 26 of 366 Today has been a day marked off in my calendars for the past 15 years because it is my best friend Jerilee Marie Jaravata’s birthday. She has been in life since I was too short to go on rides at amusement parks, when I thought boys had cooties and getting high only meant on a swing and the worst pain in the world was scraping my knee… What I am getting at is she has been in my life a very long time and I am so grateful for that. Her and I are very different and sometimes tend to look at life or situations in different ways but at the end of the day we would be there for one another 100% with no hesitation. We have been friends since the worse and best days of our entire lives. We have been there for every birthday, every death, every relationship, and every new experience. She is the person I call at 3 am if something is wrong at my house and I know she will be there in 5 minutes, without asking any questions. Not living close or seeing one another often sucks, but I know we will always be friends and there whole heartedly if we need. Whether just a hello, or a quick catch up I rarely go a few days without talking to her. Tonight I had practice and since I play UCLA Saturday , I couldn’t miss it for her birthday dinner, which I still feel bad about. Can’t wait to see her soon and lucky to have grown through life with her.
Since I am in season and have Beach Volleyball and Yoga classes during the day, I have to come to school in workout clothes multiple times a week. For those who really know me this is very out of my norm. I am used to “dressing up” every day for school. I always plan my outfit the night before and believe in dressing nice everyday because as I always say “If you dress nice you feel nice”. Today was the first day in a while I finally got to dress nice. Suede skirt, lace top, platform sandals and jewelry. Today was also the first day I felt so happy with what I was wearing and think I had an overall better day because I felt good about myself. I definitely got stares and got asked “Why I am so fancy to school?” or “Why I am wearing platforms to school?”… my answer was: Because I wanted to. I believe if I like how I dress I should not let others opinions and negative thoughts effect me in a negative way. Today I went to an event called “Smoothie and Schmooze” put on by Beach Hillel which was a ton of fun! Then during my break I just sat outside and saw random people throughout the day. All day i was craving tacos, and luckily it is Tuesday… so of course the roomies and I had to go celebrate the weekly holiday “Taco Tuesday”. We went to the local place Hole Mole, and even though the line was out the door and made me late to practice, the tacos were delicious. Still would have rather had dinner with my best friend on her birthday, but I knew I could not miss practice.I hope my next 340 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Mads |
January 25th 2016: Day 25 of 366 Happy Monday and Hello Week 2! this was my first Monday having school and wow was it a long day. I have 4 classes today including a lab that lasted over 2 hours, so I was pretty tired by the end of the day. Luckily, I do enjoy my classes and all my professors seem nice so far. Having Beach volleyball in the middle of every Monday and Wednesday is fun and a nice break in-between classes but definitely tiring. I feel like I am back in high school volleyball conditioning having class, then working out, then going back to class. Luckily, instead of a 6 minute gap, I have 15 minutes!
Every Monday night we have meeting for sorority, and this year I am in Junior Exec so it is vital I attend. Although I did not think I would ever take a position, when I found out a position was called: SUNSHINE CHAIR, I had to run. I recognize birthdays, give random awards and overall am supposed to be there to brighten the members of the sorority. Tonight I did birthday shoutouts and “Hang in there Hanger” for a girl who just got out of surgery. I feel like I try to be a sunshine and radiate positivity to everyone around me so to be chosen to hold a position doing that is even more gratifying. I hope my next 341 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Sunshine Maddy |
January 24th 2016: Day 24 of 366 I know I have now lived in Long Beach over a year but I seriously only know so little about the beautiful city and everything it has to offer. One awesome activity Long Beach offers every day at 11am is Yoga on the Bluffs on the corner of Junipero and Ocean. Everyday people from all around come to take a yoga class while looking out at the beautiful view of the ocean. The yoga instructor asked everyone their intentions for being there. She continued to explain how intentions mean everything. She gave the example of a knife, 2 people can grab a knife and one person can have the intention of cooking, someone can have intentions of using the knife for surgery while someone else can use a knife with the intentions of harming someone. Always good to reevaluate oneself and think of everyones personal intentions.
After yoga I went home to change and get ready for lunch with my friend Joseph I met in a Counseling class last semester. Joseph was a first semester freshmen last year, but we immediately clicked because he was super outgoing and funny. We would always talk about life and easily could talk about everything, so after break we decided to catch up. He picked me up and took me to a small whole in the wall but amazing soul food/barbeque place. At the end of lunch he asked me to be is “BIG sis”. In the Greek world you can ask someone to be your Big sister or brother and they are supposed to be your role model, friend, person to always depend on and so much more. I felt so honored and feel lucky to have such a rad little!I hope my next 342 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! LOVE, the Big Mads |
January 23rd 2016: Day 23 of 366Although we were out pretty late last night we still managed to wake up early and go to the gym. I am so lucky that Eliza has not only become my roommate but my motivation, my partner in crime and my best friend. We both love going out and having a good time but know having our lives together is very necessary as well. Despite our major lack of sleep we got in over an hour at the gym. After the gym we went to Costco where we bought an ample amount of food. Both of us decided we wanted to be very healthy second semester so we stalked up on veggies, fruits, egg whites, salads and a bunch of other healthy foods! Costco is a great and an awful place to buy groceries. I think Costco is great because they have samples and a lot of them and who doesn’t like free yummy samples? I hope nobody. Also, the food is reasonably priced for the amount one gets. On the other hand Costco is known for selling everything whole sale, so we usually get more than we need and our fridge is always jam packed after going because one bag of spinach is meant to feed 10 people.
After our healthy morning, I was pretty tired for the day. Since boys are going through recruitment for fraternities, there is a rule we can not attend their parties. At first I was a little bummed because the parties are usually really fun but then I thought of it as an opportunity. Instead of going out to a big party as usual, I thought of having more chill night at my house, where we just play games and relax for a night. I had less then 10 people over but I think I may have had more fun then times I have gone out to huge parties. Do not get me wrong big ragers are a blast but there is something awesome about staying in with a few people one adores. If I wasn’t surrounded by the genuine people I am, I really don’t think I would enjoy college, close as much as I do now. I hope my next 343 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love Always, Maddy |
January 22nd 2016: Day 22 of 366 I woke up this morning with intentions of going to a free breakfast at school then heading over to the gym with my old roommate Danielle and our friend Spencer. I found out once I awoke people had to register for the breakfast prior, and we were not able to attend. Spencer then just said he will cook breakfast and we ended up going to his house for delicious homemade food! The food was so yummy and healthy and it was just the three of us, which was more enjoyable then some muffins with random people.
After breakfast we ended up going to play frolf (frisbee golf), which was a game I only thought existed at camps. I never have played before but really am going to try more new things this year. We went to an actual park to play and it is was actually pretty fun. I was amazed how many people get very into the sport and even had carts full of different types of frisbees. Going frolfing was definitely not something I would usually have done, but not only was it outdoorsy it was also an enjoyable way to spend my Friday morning. Continuing on with trying new things, I went to a super cute coffee shop cafe today with my friend Danielle Botvin. She knew about this place (Royal Cup Cafe) for a while and knew I would love it, because the cafe was cutesy and had a very homey vibe. As we sat on nice couches someone came and took our order and coffees were brought in big mugs, and I could just tell this is a one of a kind place! I spent $5 on a coffee that this place has a special recipe for and took time to make, where as I more often spend $5 on a generic Starbucks coffee. Going to goal to atleast spend my money on unique and quality coffee rather than chain coffee. Tonight I also went out with my roommates which is always cool because they are my people! I hope my next 344 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, MB |
January 21st 2016: Day 21 of 366 I honestly 100% hands down think the best way to enjoy college is to get involved. There are multiple organizations on campus I am pretty involved in and all of them impact my college life and experience for the better everyday. Two main parts of my life here in Long Beach are being on the Travel Womens Volleyball Club Team and being apart of Delta Zeta Sorority.
Today was the start of Greek Week and a lot of the sororities and fraternities had tables and booths out on upper campus. Anyone is welcome to come and learn about the Greek community. Initially coming to college I did not have that positive of ideas of being in a sorority, but that all changed when I actually became apart of one. I have honestly met 150 girls within my sorority who are all friendly kind and overall GENUINE people. TO find an organization with genuine girls who love having a good time but know the importance of hard work too is remarkable. The greek community at my school is very different then others, because it is truly a community. There is no real competition or true rivalries. Everyone knows everybody and has friends in all the different chapters and that is not only okay but advised. We are far from the typical negative connotation stereotypes and I am so thankful I joined DZ. The sorority has really helped me create a home away from home. Tonight I had my second volleyball practice back. We are officially in season and I couldn’t be more excited. We have a really amazing team with lots of talent and are amongst the top division 1 schools such as UCLA,ASU, USC, and U of A. Being in a sport I feel like I always have structure in my life, and being apart of a team is beneficial in so many different parts of life. Playing a sport still keeps me in shape, keeps me motivated and keeps me busy while doing something productive I genuinely enjoy. I think there is such an importance of extracurricular activities. Everyone can learn so much from each organization and grow as a person outside of academics Most people are worried about joining due to fear of feeling rejected but that is the complete opposite of the way I feel. Whether in volleyball or in my sorority I always feel like I can fit in while still being myself and never feel the pressure to change who I am or my beliefs. I look forward to traveling with my team and and playing our hearts out. As well as I can not wait to hangout with all the girls in sororities and attend countless memorable events together.I hope my next 345 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Madison Braverman |
January 20th 2016: Day 20 of 366 I officially have been to all 6 of my classes this semester. I am taking 4 academic classes and 2 kinesiology classes to add some fun into my average school day. Today I had Human Development, Beach Volleyball, Statistics and Yoga. I am fortunate enough to have at least one familiar face in every class. The first week of classes is always interesting because you walk into class not knowing what or who to expect but hoping you have friend in every class. Luckily, as more time passes that is more common and I am fortunate enough to have a friend in every class. In college, you do become close to those you have classes with because so much of our time is spent focusing on passing and getting a good grade in each course. I have never taken a Kin class but it is something on my College Bucket List, so I thought after such a rigorous and demanding semester last Fall, this would be the perfect time, especially during season. Beach Volleyball was so much fun and the courts are in a beautiful location behind the pyramid. Yoga was also really cool, my teacher had us lay down in “savasana” pose (where one lays on their back palms up) as he read the syllabus. I have never been so relaxed nor listened so much while reviewing a syllabus, so I truly thought his tactic was beneficial.
Today is also Danielle Dallas’s 20th Birthday. Since I never sleep, I always try to be the first one to contact a person at midnight. With her that was a success. Danielle had a huge impact on my life, being my first roommate in college after moving out of my parents house. Her and I have definitely had our fair shares of ups and downs as living in a 8 by 10 room with someone different from you, who you do not know is not always the easiest…. but we have with no doubt have shared some of the best memories and laughs of my life. We have grown to understand one another so well, and not being together 24/7 this year has brought us even closer. From staying up procrastinating with one another, to really starting off college life together, to laughing over everything I really am so grateful I was able to be her roommate last year. Ironically both of us had different roommates in the beginning, but we both ended up needing to switch people and ended up together. Another situation to show everything happens for a reason and if it is meant to be it will be. She is such an intelligent, sarcastic, witty, outgoing, loving, and thoughtful person I am glad to not only call my forever roomie but a dear friend. Tonight a majority of “Felicia Nation” reunited to celebrate her birthday. Felicia Nation is a group of girls from the dorms who all came together and now we have an amazing friend group here in Long Beach. Although we do not all live together anymore, we all still have wonderful relationships and keep intough via group chat. I was so glad to see everyone and I think having most of the original group back together was an incredible way to celebrate DD’s birthday. I hope my next 346 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Magdalyn (What Danielle tends to call me) |
January 19th 2016: Day 19 of 366 Back at it. When my alarm went off this morning, I did not want to get out of bed but knew I had to. Luckily today was an easy day as I only had two classes. Both classes were very unique. After being lost for my art class, I walk into a room with a man with half yellow and half orange hair with rainbow pocketed jeans snap chatting. Soon I find out this man is my professor. He seems like a very amiable, intelligent and fun man, but from his aura I can tell this class will be different. After my 3 hour gap I walked into Social Psychology. The professor was very eloquent and funny. He asked us if we have ever heard the saying “There is no such thing as a dumb question?” then after the class replied yes, he told us “well that is bullshit”. From that point on I knew this class was going to be intriguing. Social Psychology is definitely a topic that really interests me and I found it thought provoking that he said this subject "has helped him understand who he was and why he does the things he does”. He also told us "If you understand the material it will be easy if you memorize the material the course will not be easy…”. I never really thought about material that way, of course being knowledgeable about a topic is the goal but most do that by quick memorization, but in the end memorizing will never help someone as much as fully understanding a topic will.
Being back at school seemed like a blur. At points of break I thought the days were going by so slow, and now I feel like I just took my Fall Finals a few days ago. The major reason i am glad to be back is to see all of my college friends. I hope I get to see more people tomorrow and enjoy my full day of classes as much as I did today.I am fortunate enough to have made some really genuine friends out here. I hope my next 347 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, College girl Mads |
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January 18th 2016: Day 18 of 366 WOW today was such a long day. I woke up in Oakland, ate dinner in Porter Ranch and am going to sleep in Long Beach. My Winter Break has finally come to an end. The past few weeks have been amazing, and I am not ready to go back tomorrow. I do not even know what classes I have tomorrow, let alone have all my school supplies together. As I reflect on this break and skim through all of my photos I sit and smile. I had such memorable moments from celebrating birthdays, to countless kickbacks with the valley squad, to spending the holidays with my best friends family, Christmas light looking, to NYE parties, Melrose, Malibu and Venice adventures, to daily workouts to a Family Cruise, to Friend Reunions to Staffing West Coast Party, I would say I have had a busy but enjoyable break, spent with the ones I love.
I know I am now in college living in Long Beach, but I will always have such a love for the “818”. That is where I spent the first 17 years of my life, where I met my best friends and where I overall grew up and transformed into the person I am today. No matter where I move to or where I travel to and end up in life the Valley will always be home to me. Although today is a Monday, we do not have school to honor Martin Luther King Jr. He is a very outstanding and honorable man who truly impacted the world for the better. He lead the Civil Rights Movement and with his dream helped change segregation and discrimination amongst society. I am flabbergasted to think just less than 60 years ago school were segregated and people of color were fully discriminated and belittled on a regular basis. I really can not imagine a world like that. I got back to Long Beach tonight which is prided on being one of the most diverse cities and California and I just can't stop thinking about how grateful I am to have the opportunity to attend a school in a community like this. I think this day is very important because no matter what color our skin is, what one believes in or what differences one may have, everyone is an individual and apart of the same human kind. Even though most are just happy to get the day off of work and school, I think there is more depth and meaning people should think about today. I really can not believe Spring Semester 2016 starts tomorrow and I can only hope the best for it. I hope my next 348 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! With Love, Maddy Beee |
January 17th 2016: Day 17 of 366 Ain't No Party like a West Coast Party Cause a West Coast Party Don't Stop!!!! That was the theme song for the whole weekend. Tonight was officially the last day of the whole event I staffed and I had a ton of fun!! I came into this weekend with not too many high hopes. I was worried I was going to regret the decision to staff and have a crummy time. As I look back on the weekend it was overall a favorable experience.
Tonight as the final event there was a huge dance, which was better than most of the dances I have ever been to. The energy was amazing and everyone was having the time of their lives. My boss gave us one instruction tonight which was to "not let there be any west coast babies", when there are 450 teenagers together one last night, that is a valid concern. I stood on the center of the stage the whole night dancing, but also conveniently could see over almsost or everyone which was pretty hilarious. Shoutout to the dj Aron David because he was really good. After all the hype of the dance, everyone did siyum which is an end of the night song. During this time all 500 or so people get in one huge circle arm over arm singing. I love this part of the night because it is so beautiful to see eveyone come together as one. I looked around the circle and saw so many teens I have had the honor and pleasure to meet this weekend and a huge smile came across my face. Some old faces many new faces, but people who all made my week super memorable. I came into this weekend with expectations that things weren't going to go well, but luckily they did. Even though I had the worst service, it poured everyday and I got sassed by many teens it was a fantastic and fun filled weekend!!I hope my next 349 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Shalom, Mads |
January 16th 2016: Day 16 of 366 Being a "cabin staff" is honestly a ton of fun. Today I had such a relaxed day. I got to lead cabin time for an hour before bed with all of my girls. We did rose, thorn and advice. That means everyone goes around and shares their favorite part of the day(rose), a crummy part of the day (thorn) and advice they have for everyone else in the cabin. I really believe sharing a good part of your day and having a great talk or doing something relaxing and enjoyable before bed is integral for a goodnight of sleep.
I had many "roses" of the day, from leading meditation, to having an hour off to talk to some of my best friends, to attending a Dan Nickels concert to making cards and bonding with all of the teenagers here!Today during a workshop I made Valentine's Day cards for children in the hospital. The director explained how much these cards meant to the kids receiving them. She even told us don't write "get well soon on them" because most of them can't. This really made me stop and realize how mundane all my daily problems are compared to the children living in a hospital due to such bad sicknesses. How can I sit here and complain about how cold it is outside or for getting mud all over my pants when people wish those were their problems of the day. Just shows to be thankful of what you have! One of my campers advice in our cabin time was a quote from her favorite song which kind of stuck in my head: "How rare and beautiful it is to just exist". I feel like this is always applicable to think about!I hope my next 350 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Madison |
January 15th 2016: Day 15 of 366 I just put my 12 campers to bed and I finally have time to rest and relax my self. I am currently staffing a weekend event called "West Coast Party" for high schoolers in the west coast. One of the reasons I was actually offered this opportunity was because when I was in highschool I went to this event. WCP happens every other year, so I went my sophomore and senior year and both times I had a blast. This event is held at URJ Camp Newman in Santa Rosa CA, where I spent part of my 7th and 9th grade summers. Today I got to walk around the camp for the first time in a while and so many memories came rushing through my head. This is the place I had my first kiss, this is a place I made amazing friends, this is a place I was able to call home and this is a place I will have life long memories from. I was walking through the art room and found these footprints people were able to paint at WCP 2012 and I found two that I painted on with my initials. Then I walked up by the pool and found a mural my group did over 5 year ago. I was so glad to pass by these pieces of art and think of all my memories but I was also just very nostalgic. Tonight, at an event all the presidents of the different areas of the West Coast got to give a little speech. One boy who is currently a senior in high school, reminisced on his last 4 year and can't believe his time as a "camper" is now over. He spoke about how he has made some of the best memories of his life in these past 4 years and how time has truly flown by. He stated a quote from the one and only ferris bueller which really hit home for me... He said "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.". Made me realize time really does fly by, as I think of all the memories I had participating and attending these events years ago as I now stay up I the staff beds watching over all of these young adolescents. Ferris bueller was right if someone doesn't take time to appreciate life in the moment, time will pass by quickly.
I hope my next 351 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! With endless love, Madison Braverman |
January 14th 2016: Day 14 of 366Just get up and go. This year I am really trying to take advantage of any opportunity that is thrown my way. I was offered to work at a camp called Camp Newman in Northern California for the weekend. Although, I know no one staffing and fly home the night before school begins I accepted the job. I have no idea how the next 4 days will be, but I am trying to go in with an open mind! So many people asked "why are you going?". My answer is WHY NOT.
There are always new blessings and lessons within every opportunity. Peace out sunny So Cal, Hello cold and rainy Nor Cal! I hope my next 352 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! love, MB |
January 13th 2016: Day 13 of 366 Today I set aside the day to help my aunt out. I took her to the doctor to get some tests done which took a few hours and then helped her around the house and had a great lunch together. Later in the day I went to the gym, but overall my day was a very laid back and relaxing.
My day wasn't really good or bad until tonight when I got an amazing surprise. Even though my Birthday was a few months ago, Julia knocked on my door holding a birthday gift for me and said “Better Late then Never, Right?”. I was honestly so surprised and happy at the same time! Her gift was so thoughtful and thats what meant the most. Anyone could go out and buy a gift card, or give cash but to find items that are very fitting for a particular person takes work and knowledge. From a good deed book to a dress to a plate that states "you are my sunshine" to many more adorable items, I could tell she really chose items that fit my likes and personality. I am truly a person who loves giving gifts more than getting gifts because the joy on someones face from a gift you chose for them in particular is priceless!!! I do have to say this gift tonight brought me so much joy and was so kind. I can't wait to give and hopefully one day receive gifts as meaningful as this! One never knows what surprises will come knocking at their door.I hope my next 353 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, Maddy |
January 12th 2016: Day 12 of 366 As break is coming to an end I am trying to stay busy and make the most of my last few days in the valley! This morning was very surreal as I realized my brother and sister, “my babies” are starting their last semester in Highschool. It feels like just yesterday when they were the new kids on campus, and everyone in my grade knew and loved them. They are about to finish high school and that puts me in true disbelief. I can’t wait to see them cross the stage in just a few months!!
I love where I live because I am close to so much. Within 40 minutes today I was able to go to a yummy cafe in Malibu and enjoy the sun shining bright and beating down on the water and my back! Today was truly a beautiful day at the beach. Even though, where I grew up has been a wonderful place, lately there has been a major crisis: The Porter Ranch Gas Leak. For the past few months there has been a high speed gas leak less than a mile from my house. Many people in the neighborhood are reporting illnesses – including nausea, dizziness, vomiting, nosebleeds, and headaches. Not only is the air quality dreadful, but many people are thinking their will be countless long term negative effects to the people located within 10 miles of the leak. Due to the fact this leak has been a catastrophe since October, many families have moved out of their house including my best friend Liza. She is lucky enough to have been moved to the West Lake Four Seasons, one of the nicest hotels in the area. She shares a nice room with her mom and dog and even gets a budget for food. To most including myself this sound like a luxurious and fun life, which it is, but definitely gets old. Imagine not being able to cook a meal, not being able to have any space to your own, not being able to truly call a place “home”, not living near your friends anymore. Obviously, she has life pretty great, but this leak is truly hurting so many families. I had the opportunity to stay with liza in the hotel for a night, and I really enjoyed my stay. Her living in the hotel reminding me of the old Disney show “Suite Life of Zach and Cody” now it would be “Suite Life of Liza Hoffman”. We spent the day adventuring the hotel, relaxing and even spending the night in the game lounge playing ping pong and pool. Research says the leak will not be resolved till atleast April. Crazy to think how much this leak has and is going to impact The Valley, I really hope none gets too sick and they are able to solve the problem sooner than later.I hope my next 354 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Mads |
January 11th 2016: Day 11 of 366 I woke up this morning to a beautiful sunrise, with the intentions of having a very productive and busy day. About half way through the day I got a pounding headache and had to cancel multiple plans. Although I was bummed I knew taking time to rest and take care of myself would be more beneficial in the long run. I was right. Now, as I write this at night I feel way better than I did earlier in the day.
Even though I was right in this situation, and grew up thinking “Maddy’s always right”, that is not the case. I have been stressing out lately not knowing what major to choose. I started college with Biology and Physiology and Molecular Cell with the intent of being a Dermatologist. Even though skin fascinates me I realized all the science classes are not for me, as I could never find a passion or love for any of the topics I learned about. Over time I came to the conclusion I just want to work with people and impact individuals lives for the better, and I thought I could do this by becoming a social worker, therapist or psychologist. There is no exact major to choose so I ended up going with Human Development after going through and finding interest for all the majors required classes. A few weeks ago I came across some professionals in the field and they were questioning my major as they don’t hear about many majoring in Human Development. I have recently really considered switching majors and therefore switching all my classes as well. The only reason I was going to change was not because I thought other majors would be more fun or I would learn more, but to higher my chances of getting a job after graduating. Luckily I went to a few people I am very close with and gathered their opinions to help decide on mine…. Firstly I went out with my sister Morgan for lunch and she said to just do what I love. Give a shot to whatever I am interested in. Later in the day I went to get frozen yogurt with a dear friend Chase Prew. Everyone has those people in their lives where they do not have to talk to them for a long time but know nothing will ever change, that is him. He really asked me “What interested me?” He asked if "I am I switching majors because I am interested in the topic?” I really sat and pondered and realized the only reason I was going to change from Human Development to Sociology or Psychology was because I thought the major would increase my chances in getting a job after college. Chase proceeded to say if I am going to spend money on school and am going to be spending all my time at school, I should study something that truly interests me. At the end of the day I talked to my mom about the issue and she really made me think about a lot. She explained how she got her degree in one thing and ended up working in a completely opposite field. She proceeded to say how I should be in the major I think I will enjoy, because at the end of the day getting a job isn’t as much based off of what you got a degree in but that you just have a degree. Additionally, she made me realize how important interviews and internships are. I am staying with Human Development as a major and honestly feel good about it. I read a study that about 80% of people change their major in college atlas once. Therefore, being stressed and overwhelmed on what to major in is completely normal! Who knows what the future has in store, all I know is that I have to do well in school no matter what I major in. Thankful to have wise and loving people always there to guide me, when I need a little advice!I hope my next 355 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! XOXO, Madison |
January 10th 2016: Day 10 of 366
Everything in life has a beginning and an end, even life. Today I attended a funeral for my dads first cousin Irving Kats, who passed away while we were on the cruise. The man never directly impacted my life but he was apart of the family, therefore my whole family went to pay respects. I have attended more funerals than anyone should at my age, but I have to say this is one of the most interesting ones I have been to. There were two parts of the funeral service that really stuck out to me.
ONE: There was a speech given about how attending a funeral is the highest level of misvot (good deed) in the world. This was said do to the fact as a congregation, community, group of people attending a funeral we are doing so to pay respects and recognize ones life. This is such a beautiful mitzvoth because the person who passed can not ever give us anything in return. Subconsciously most people do things, with hope or want of getting something in return, but in this situation it is impossible. Furthermore, at the grave everyone has the option to shovel a little dirt over the casket. Everyone was advised to put the shovel back in the dirt rather than pass it to someone else. The point of this was because people had the option to put dirt over the casket, one should choose to do a good deed on their own rather than feeling obligated because someone handed them the shovel. TWO: Irving’s brother Arny who my family is way closer to, was the one mourning the most today. He wore a large black tee-shirt which i believe was his brothers. During the service his shirt was torn… The point of this was to show materialistic items can be ruined and thats okay. We don’t need a physical item always, the shirt may be gone but we still have photos in the shirt and memories wearing it. Similarly, there are so many more meaingful things in life other than materialistic items. Family being a top reason. Even though he passed away, his presence will still be among everyone. As I grow up funerals and death are more prominent. Death is still a very hard topic for me, but the one reality I do know is the only thing everyone is promised in life is to die. With that knowledge, everyone should be kind, make the best of their days, don’t sweat over the little things and attempt to make the world a better place!!I hope my next 356 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! xoxox, MB |
January 9th 2016: Day 9 of 366 Leaving the cruise this morning was hard because I have had such a great week! From exploring beautiful cities, having family time, meeting new people, and having endless laughs and memories, I am so happy I had the opportunity to go on this cruise! Even though this was my first cruise I can say I love the concept of cruising. Prior to going on the cruise I had no idea what to expect so if I could give myself advice 8 days ago or anyone advice going on a cruise it would be this;
1. Be outgoing, there are thousands of people on a cruise, meaning there are always people to meet and befriend. 2. Just because you can order as much food as you want at any time does not mean you have to. Cruises offer buffets and unlimited amounts of food always. Even though it is a vacation staying conscientious of the food options is a bright idea. Additionally, if capable take stairs instead of elevator. 3. Be overly kind to the workers! Most cruise staff has to stay on the ship for 6-9 months at a time and they really do work hard. Every worker has an important job but I feel most are under appreciated and valued. 4. Make the most of your time. What you do or don't do on a cruise is totally up to you! For example some days I did multiple planned activities and others I just jacuzzied all day! I definitely advise people to stay out of the room and always try new things! 6. Bargain Always. When cruising,most people end up in foreign countries. Even though tourists always want a souvenir no matter what, bargain the prices! Most of the time the prices will start to drop dramatically! 7. Read your "Pitter patter". Everyday a schedule of what is planned for the next day is delivered to ones cabin. There are events from the early morning to late night! This is a syllabus/ outline for the day! Knowing what is happening on the boat helps organize and plan out the day better. There is always something to do here which I love, but nothing is required so while on sea, whatever everyone does is totally up to them! 8. Get patches or Dramamine. A patch is a little circular sticker put behind the ear and a Dramamine is a medium size pill. Both of these have the intention of not making people sea sick! Weather changes really effect how the ship moves, so it is always better to be prepared 9. Put yourself out there no matter what. Try new things, join Trivia challenges and dancing competitions. There are so many strangers that no one else's opinion should ever matter! Try to do something out of the normal Comfort zone though! 10. Have as much fun as possible and take time to appreciate everything . Don't let little stupid stuff influence your cruise at all! Stay up, go out, take photos, join events and participate in everything. Also exploring is always a fun adventure. Some people purchase an unlimited alcohol card which is genius because they can gets bottomless drinks! There are so many beautiful paintings and different art throughout the room! Te cruise has so much to offer, meaning there is always something to enjoy doing.Leaving the cruise already was surreal. The first two days went slow and now I am sad it is all over. After I got back to the valley I immediately ended up at a party with a bunch of the people from the valley. I love that no matter what we always come together and have fun like nothing has changed. I know these are not the people I see everyday or even every month, but most of them are people I have been raised and brought up with. These are people who I always enjoy seeing and have fun no matter what!Sad to say break is almost coming to an end, but happy my break was impacted by so many amazing people!Hope to see some of these people again!I hope my next 357 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love Always, Maddy |
January 8th 2016: Day 8 of 366 My last full day on the cruise is coming to an end at 3:45 am. Today was very relaxed, from eating breakfast with the family, to jacuzzing while watching movies for 5 hours, to watching shows, going to the boats nightclub and even just sitting around playing games. I truly think every experience will only be as good as the people you surround yourself are. Any day can be good or bad, but the outcome is often dependent on who one is surrounded by. I think back to the first 2 days as I was worried everyone was under 13, or over 50 and I was the only "young adult" here. Luckily I was completely wrong! I met some amazing people on this cruise who I am now fortunate enough to call friends. There was a bunch of us who just came together and really enjoyed whatever we did! I believe I would not have enjoyed this cruise as much as I did without so many wonderful people! By surrounding myself with such fun, outgoing, funny and caring people my trip was phenomenal. I can't believe I will actually be leaving this cruise so soon! I will honestly miss having such great people to constantly explore and hangout with whenever I wanted. No matter how boring a situation or day may seem it will be memorable if one is with good company! Hope to see some of these people again! I hope my next 358 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories!
Endless love, Maddy Braverman |
January 7th 2016: Day 7 of 366 Tonight the waves are so crazy, I am writing this entry while lying in bed and feel like I am on a high speed water bed. We are on our way back to a lovely place I like to call SoCal! We stopped in three beautiful cities on this cruise; Puerto Vallarta, Mazatlan, and Cabo San Lucas. All three cities were wonderful in their own way. As I toured and adventures through each city I thought of how the US is so different in positive and negative ways.
I really loved how simple and resourceful all of the families in Mexico seemed to be. They reused everything they could and always seemed joyous no matter how hard their situation may be. On the contrary in the United States most people are known for living by the "American Paradox". People are never satisfied with what they have, if one gets a nice house soon they will want an even nicer house. Another example could be with cars or televisions, because people always want the best and don't stay content. Additionally, as I toured each city I always saw the children outside playing and interacting with one another whether throwing a ball around or playing tag. On the other hand in America most adolescents are just constantly on their phones and stay inside rather than playing outside with the neighbors. Also, I could tell everyone in each city was so proud of the nature and beautiful surroundings in the city, where as in America we are constantly industrializing and ridding nature for buildings. Even though I wish some things in America could change I realized I took a lot for granted I shouldn't have. Little things like street lights, filtered water, air conditioning and even always having a roof over my head, are things I just expect. Plus, the number 1 way the population makes money is tourism! Where as, the United States has the largest and best economy in the world. Traveling to these new places put a lot in perspective for me. I was so fascinated by the different cultures and customs and really hope to have opportunities to visit many more cities around the world! I hope my next 359 days days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Maddy bee |
January 6th 2016: Day 6 of 366 Although there are over 7 billion people in the world, I believe we live in a very small world. Most may think I am crazy because I know I will never meet everyone in the world or even get close to meeting everyone in the world, but I feel everyone is connected somehow. I am on a ship with over 4,000 people on it. I came here knowing 4 people, the 4 people I have lived with my whole life (mom,dad, Jon, Morg). Little did I know I would meet people who are a friend of a friend or know people I know. At dinner this couple showed us their dessert and asked my dad about his Bostonian accent... Soon enough we found out that the woman and my mom share a close friend. I went to the club on the ship and multiple people knew people form Long Beach State I knew. Plus, this one man saw my volleyball shirt and knew people from Granada. Who would of thought while In another country I would have had so many coincidences and connections. This is just a little reminder that everyone could connect in some way so be kind and genuine to all because you never know who you may run into.
Today we spent the majority of the day in the city of Mazatlan and what a beautiful city it is. I had the opportunity to go to a private beach on Stone Island, we went horse back riding and had some delicious authentic Mexican Food. I look forward to exploring more tomorrow!I hope my next 360 days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, MB |
January 5th 2016: Day 5 of 366 Tonight my family went to the nicest restaurant on the cruise ship to celebrate my parents anniversary. Today they celebrated their 43rd Anniversary of being together! Not married as they dated for 8 years prior to getting engaged but together... To put that in perspective and subtly give away their current ages, when my parents started dating my mom was 17 and my dad was 19. I am around that age right now, so that whole idea that they had "the one" at that age is definitely surreal for me! Every night at dinner someone gives a toast and tonight my dad gave a toast to my mom. I suggested they make up wedding vows, but no one is really into that sappy stuff other than myself. A part of the toast my dad gave did stick out to me, he said "we have been together through death, through life, through the ups and the downs and all the great and awful times in life, we have been through it all babe" I really think that's what love is all about, being their for your significant other no matter what and never giving up even when things get tough. No couple is perfect, even after over 40 years my parents can argue but I know their love is genuine and I admire that a lot. They are definitely very different people but balance each other out and have learned so much about one another. They know how to deal with each other in any and every possible situation! At the restaurant we found out it was three other couples anniversaries and that made me become full of joy. I swear all I have heard about lately are couples getting divorced or fighting! I have no doubt that my parents will stay a strong couple and I am happy we got to spend their anniversary in the beautiful city of Puerto Vallarta! .
Today was my first day actually leaving the ship. We went on a boat and ended up in a beautiful area to go snorkeling. After we saw an array of fish, we went to the beach where I had the opportunity to see a waterfall! Today made me realize how many beautiful places are around the world and how I just want to continue seeing new places and meeting new faces! I hope my next 361 days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Mads |
January 4th 2016: Day 4 of 366 There has always been a saying you don't really know how much something means to you until it's gone... Similarly to this I didn't realize how much I am usually stuck to my phone until I haven't been able to use it on the ship. Although my phone is on airplane mode and I have no service or even the proper time, I feel weird if I do not have it with me! For these past few days I have constantly caught myself checking my phone even though there is nothing to be checked. Our world now is so based off of technology and I don't think that is 100% good. Today when I laid at the pool for hours I had conversations with a variety of people, read a book and just relaxed. I genuinely think I wouldn't have done all those things if I had my phone as I would constantly be checking social media or texting someone. These past few days really made me reevaluate how prominent smart phones have become in America. Smart phones are creating dumb people. I have heard many young children communicate in texting lingo and most don't even know how to write a proper email. I know most people are usually glued to their phones and think life won't be the same without it, but first hand I think time without a phone is wonderful and needed. After over 72 hours of not communicating with any friends, I strongly believe they all still feel the same way about me, and after 72 hours of without checking social media, I am okay! I saw an older man today with a flip phone and as most people know I had one till I graduated highschool. As I would call it my "iphonecool" or "iphoneslide". As I watched him finger pecking a message I smiled and realized iphoneslides aren't that bad at all. Ofcourse, iPhones and smart phones are a great technological advancement but absolutely not 100% necessary. Today was the first time in a very long time I have gone to a large restaurant with a few hundred people and saw no one on their phone. Everyone was communicating, laughing and sharing stories to those around them rather than virtually keeping in touch with others. On this ship I have not been able to communicate with anyone unless I found them in person, and the only way I figure it the time was by judging the sunlight or asking a worker. Not having the ability to use my phone I believe has really enhanced my experience this far rather than hindered it. I really hope this cruise can impact me enough to be on my phone less in the future.I hope my next 362 days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories!
Endless Love, Maddy |
January 3rd 2016: Day 3 of 366 The whole concept of a cruise is still so unbelievable to me! When one goes to any hotel or resort, they usually look out their window and see a parking lot, pool, or maybe even a pretty view if they are lucky. Contrary to the norm I step on my little porch and am fully surrounded by the Pacific Ocean. I can't believe that I am constantly moving. Whether working out, eating a meal, going in the jacuzzi, or watching an entertainer I am still on a ship going approximately 32 miles per hour! Even though I have only been here a full day I think cruises are pretty awesome! I hope my next 363 days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories!
Love, Maddy Beee |
January 2nd 2016: Day 2 of 366January 2nd 2016: Day 2 of 366
"Second born, but now the oldest". In my senior year of highschool we were given an English project to write and story and that was mine. 17 years ago today my older brother Adam Jonathan Braverman passed away two days before he turned 13. Even though I was very young when he passed my life has been impacted immensely by him. He has never given me a word of advice but had the ability to give me some of the most valuable advice I have ever received in my life. He was born with cerebral palsy and faced endless difficulties while he was alive but if you were to ask anyone Adam's life to describe him in one quality characteristic they would all respond: HAPPY. Similarly, I bet most people would describe me in the same way! To me happiness is not just an emotion, but a way of life that takes hard work, compassion and dedication. This is not a quality I hold because only satisfying events partake in my life but because I work with the distressing obstacles. I have come to realize being negative and down all the time will do nothing to enhance my life. I take Adam's strength to choose happiness with even the toughest challenges that I hold no amount of control over, just as he would. This day is very difficult for my family, especially my parents, as the worst thing that could happen to someone is having their child die. Since I was young it is usually a tradition that we go on vacation around this time and spend time as a family. Our usual location is Pismo Beach, San Diego or somewhere in Northern California but because we are older and haven't been on a trip with all of us in a while, we decided to go on a 8 day cruise to Mexico! We have never left the country together so I hope this is a wonderful experience! I know cruises are expensive but "Travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer". I hope my next 364 days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Mads |
January 1st 2016: Day 1 of 366 New Year…New ME… Just Kidding, I genuinely believe that just because the new year begins people do not automatically change. I am still 19 years old, in my second year at California State University Long Beach, have a loving but dysfuntionaly functional family, the best of friends in the world and am probably one of the most optimistic people you are bound to meet. Society has this belief that the incoming of a new year means one must change, become thinner, do this and do that but in reality anyone can change all year.The new year can be a reason or an opportunity to change and better oneself, but a new year does not define a new person unless one truly puts the effort forth into changing habits or ways of life. I have always had a passion for writing and taking photos so along with other goals, aspirations and hopeful resolutions for the year I plan to take at least 1 photo and write a post or thought everyday. I know I will be out of the country or have days where I can not access wifi, but my plan is to write something everyday and post it when I get the chance. My goal for doing this is to have an amazing way to look back on the year of 2016. Additionally, if anyone reads my posts and finds inspiration, or motivation within or even just smiles from something I say, I believe this was all worth it. Who knows if this will actually work out or if I will stick with it but I believe the hardest part about anything is beginning. “A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step”.
2015 was definitely a year for the books, I experienced some of the worst and best days of my life but I do not regret one day because I believe everything has shaped me into this person I am today and I know I can not change the past so there is no reason on dwelling on it. I believe life is about making the best of everyday, so I am glad to say my first day was adventure filled and full of wonderful people! I spent the night at 2 parties with friends from around the valley. Beyond remarkable that I saw some people there I have not seen since before I graduated high school but still acted like so little time has passed. Just makes me realize over the years it's never what we have in life but who we meet along the way and who we have in life that truly matters. Today I went to Venice. At first, I was worried there wouldn't be anyone considering it was a holiday but glad I was wrong. Venice was full of venders, free spirited people, good vibes, and a wide variety of talents. Although the weather app told me this morning it would be in the 50’s I was pleased to find the weather in the mid 70’s. Jenna and I went into a part of Venice Beach called “The Freak Show”, a place that recognizes people, animals and things that are contrary to the societal view of what is “normal”. I saw a woman who had electric volts go through her body, a man covered in warts, a woman with a beard, a sword and fire swallower and countless two headed, two faced or bodied creatures. At first I viewed all of this as completely bizarre and then I realized how beautiful it is that these people are accepting their differences and are proud to show them off to the world in hope in getting accepted. There was a man covered in warts who said “He has been judged everywhere he has ever gone, but he has always been accepted and loved in this setting” That is a beautiful feeling, I think everyone should feel. There was a mirror Jenna and I looked in with a sign that said “Strange creature Inside”, I laughed and then realized the mirror was right. Everyone is strange, weird and different in their own way and that is what makes the world so unique and captivating. I hope my next 365 days are full of extraordinary adventures, experiences and memories! Love, Madison Erin Braverman |